I received an email from a reader asking about the fear of spanking marks being accidentally discovered.  Receiving a spanking can be an experience unlike any other when, if done right, the subspace and lingering feelings can be very heady indeed. But in order to get there, some force and subsequent bruising and discoloration are [...]

An interesting question was sent my way by one of my good friend blog readers.  Respank.  Is that even a word?  My top uses the phrase “Am I going to have to respank you?” Tsk.  As we bottoms know, tops do have a tendency to make up rules on the fly and now it seems [...]

If you were to choose which cane would be used on you, which one would it be? I was curious if there is a cane out there that you would recommend, that after 40 strikes would NOT leave bruises that day or the next? Thanks. While I have taken the cane before and rather like [...]

Here it is!  The second installment of Dear Amber.  If you would like to see this column continue, be sure to drop me a line with your questions.  Dear Amber I like playful, bratty stuff with an erotic edge if it’s there, and where the consensual aspect is clear. I have a few questions if [...]

My goodness!!  I think the Dear Amber experiment is definitely more rockin’ than floppin’.  In addition to the many questions posted in the comments section, I have quite a few in my email’s inbox.  I will post responses in several column-like updates.  So if you haven’t sent in your question, it’s not too late.    [...]

I get a fair number of emails and some comments from people seeking advice or having questions about spanking and related topics.  I certainly do not pretend to know it all, but as a review of my blogging history would show, I do seem to like to ponder such things a lot.  And one of the [...]