My vanilla friend thought of me when he saw this little item at an antique shop.  I can’t imagine why?  It appears to have been well used although it’s clearly a novelty paddle much like the “cute little deer with the bear behind” type paddles.  I love some of the listed reasons for a few [...]

   Whew!  I’ve been busy as a bee lately!  Home stuff, health stuff (making progress, but still require a bit of follow-up care and living in a cow town, that means a lot of travel time), and work stuff – just finished the first edits of the most recent Punished Brats shoot with Ten, David [...]

A new spanker on the scene must feel a bit like a new college graduate seeking employment – how do you get a spanking opportunity without experience and how do you get experience without spanking opportunities?  I mean, if you are the bottom and someone were to come up and say, “hi!  I’ve never spanked [...]

We all have our own preferences and little particulars that can make or break a spanking photo.  I know a certain guy (cough-Windsor-cough) that will rave over a photo taken at just the right angle so that the girl’s face is fully in frame and the crescent of the her spanked bottom is visible rising in the [...]

I’ve received a few emails asking about the annual Cause for Paws animal charity fundraiser that I normally run around this time.  It is indeed fast coming up on the day the charity walk is going to be held, but this year due to my illness and frequent hospital visits, I am not able to [...]

I’m a busy editing bee these days.  Just finished editing the content from the Punished Brats shoot with Taylor Rayne, Josh Payne, and David Pierson and am about to start on the content from last weekend’s shoot with David and Pi.  In between I made up a couple of DVDs for purchase including Angelina and Azul [...]

An interesting question was sent my way by one of my good friend blog readers.  Respank.  Is that even a word?  My top uses the phrase “Am I going to have to respank you?” Tsk.  As we bottoms know, tops do have a tendency to make up rules on the fly and now it seems [...]

It’s almost Labor Day!  Time for the last hurrahs of summer.  One last big BBQ blast or family picnic.  One last chance to use up those  firecrackers leftover from the 4th of July.  One last soak in the sun before fall unofficially comes to an end and the evil cold temperatures start creeping back in (at [...]

My mom’s visit was extended due to the hurricane.  It was a good thing actually as I really needed (and could probably still use!!) the extra help a bit longer.  Last night, we were flipping through trying to find a movie on TV to watch when I spotted this:   My eyes bugged out but [...]

*update 8/27* I posted this in the comments section, but am reposting it here for a little update without having to scroll: I’m continuing to rest and recover. It will still be a long journey to wellness. I think the hardest battle is not one of patience and self-care but having to fight doctors and [...]