Received a great question the other day: “If a bottom’s ego won’t allow them to use the safe word does the top have the responsibility to call a halt to the session?” This does occur but not always because of the bottom’s ego.  Sure, that’s one possibility, but sometimes it’s that the bottom fears disappointing [...]

I received a couple of interesting emails recently.  One was asking spanking purists and the other was a request for a sement of additional non-spanking punishments to be added to the Punished Brats website.  Let’s first address the term “spanking purist”.  Some claim the title proudly acknowledging that their interest in the fetish world is [...]

Blogging had to take a backseat for a little bit as I tended to vanilla matters, but I’m back again.    I recently saw a commercial for an online dating service where the guy claims the 9 gazillion point personality questionnaire used by the service makes them superior to other means of meeting a partner.  He [...]

Richard Windsor encouraged me to take a look at some of the keywords that people use in search engines to find my blog.  I have now spent way too much time being amused by some of the unusual phrases such as “a real bear from the woods spanking another bear”, “clare fonda hamster”, and “I [...]

Lock In 2011 Prices Now! As of January 15th, Punished Brats will be putting new membership rates into effect. 30 days recurring – $17 30 days non-recurring – $22 90 days non-recurring – $50 BUT if you sign up today through January 14th as a recurring member, you will be locked in for the lifetime of your [...]

I received an email from a reader asking about the fear of spanking marks being accidentally discovered.  Receiving a spanking can be an experience unlike any other when, if done right, the subspace and lingering feelings can be very heady indeed. But in order to get there, some force and subsequent bruising and discoloration are [...]

Wishing you all a very festive holiday!

I got back into spanking action a little bit yesterday at the Punished Brats shoot with Joelle and Beverly Bacci.  It was only in one scene, but I’m actually really sore today.  Beverly has a solid spanking arm and my poor bottom hasn’t done an on camera scene since March.  Most of the day I [...]

Only since having had more opportunities to be the spanker do I understand the occasional desire to implement the crossover move.  You know, when the spanker suddenly goes from spanking the girl lying over the knee with his natural dominant hand in the traditional fashion to using the non-dominant hand to continue on without repositioning [...]

Yep, I’m about to go on a real life rant!  You’ve been warned. Sometimes I wish that life could immitate art just a little more often.  And when I say art, I mean spanking video art!  Tell me that my real life tale of woe does not sound like a classic spanking video set up. [...]