I know that certainly with foods, one’s pallet can change over time. Canned Spaghetti-O’s are no longer a dietary staple and vegetables might be savored rather than slipped to the dog. But what about in the world of spanking? Have you found that your preferences have changed over time?
I’d say that my own spanking pallet has changed subtly and some strong preferences have softened as well. I used to have no interest in topping at all but I now enjoy it. My preference for super intense, bottom bruising play (first hand and in viewing) has been toned down significantly. I appreciate the romantic aspect of spanking play between couples rather than always seeking disciplinary scenes.
I think perhaps these shifts are due to repeated exposure to different styles of spanking. At first my reaction might have been “no way, not for me” but over time I picked up on some new elements that were to my liking and gradually grew to enjoy greater variety. A bit of burnout may also have played a part and it’s refreshing to consider something new every once in a while.
What about you? Have you noticed any changes with your own spanking preferences and styles over the years? It could be anything from evolving from a spanker to a spankee, changes in preferred implements, or new favorite scenarios. Share your thoughts!