While a full, bare bottom OTK spanking is not generally acceptable in public, a quick playful swat would barely raise the eyebrow of a vanilla audience. Such an act can be passed off as a joke or a little sign of affection and friskiness. And given that it’s only one swat, perhaps that’s all it is or perhaps it’s a warning of a longer spanking to be given in private later if fresh behavior continues; the secret meaning would only be known to the spanker and spankee. Spot a frat paddle shaped cutting board? You might be able to get away with delivering a mock swat if coupled with an innocent remark or joke.
But how far are you willing to push it? How daring are you to blur the line between the vanilla world and the spanking world?
I’ve gotten the occasional playful swat from my husband even in front of him family. It’s absolutely accepted as silliness between two playful people in love. Heck, I’ve even been known to give a passing swat to my sister-in-law when she’s least expecting it and she has a habit of returning the favor. Completely innocent. I’ve gotten more than a couple playful swats in public from Richard Windsor on a vanilla outing in NYC. It drew attention but it’s NYC where a girl getting five or six rapid fire spanks over a clothed bottom is probably the least unusual thing any observer saw that day.
Friends of mine have engaged in much more obvious public spanking play. Complete, but clothed, OTK delivered on a busy tourist street or in a restaurant. Corner time meted out in a department store, street corner, or the corner of a booth in a busy eatery. I blushed and I wasn’t even the one on the receiving end! There’s a thrill in being a little naughty in public and pushing the envelope, but the thought of being put in an embarrassing situation that draws a crowd’s attention is enough to get me to behave like an angel – well, an angel with a bent halo, anyway.
How daring are you? Is even a passing swat too much? Or are you only too happy to draw public attention with some edgy play?
December 9th, 2012 - 3:10 pm
It’s very common for me and my best friend to engage in a mutual playful fully clothed “swatfest” at out favorite bar. She’s actually MUCH more of a top than me. I prefer to do the bending over for her. LOL!!
It’s not at all uncommon for other friends to walk by and stick their butts out and say “My turn.” It’s all light hearted and our crowd is pretty open minded, raucous and rowdy anyhow so I have yet to see an appalled expression on anyone’s face.
I’ve never participated in any true displays of public discipline such as corner time partly because that’s not a part of spanking related activity that really excites me unless it’s part of a role play scene. And I don’t want to be scrutinized by random strangers.
December 9th, 2012 - 3:10 pm
There was a time when even the mention of the word spanking in mixed company was embarrassing to me, even if I wasn’t involved in what was being talked about. An actual swat was embarrassing, but not so much if it was just playful. The embarrassment came if there was any possible way it could be taken seriously. The last decade or so, that’s changed. Playful or sexy spanking is all around us, known and accepted, so for a swat or even a few, it’s just cute as long as the people involved laugh it off. If the circumstances are right, I can give my wife a playful swat in public and smile about it. Once it crosses a line, though, and becomes serious, that’s another thing entirely. And not just spanking, but anything that reveals a spanko-type relationship. Corner time would be amazingly embarrassing because I’m not sure how you could explain it as just a spontaneous act of silliness or a conventional sexual gesture. I have in the past engaged in spanking in a public place, but where it was unlikely to be noticed. That imbued it with a lot of extra excitement because it would have been so embarrassing to have someone see it.
December 9th, 2012 - 3:41 pm
My girlfriend has given me several swats in public before, and once said (quite clearly, in a crowded shop),
“Someone obviously needs a good spanking when we get home.”
(Which I got, of course!)
I like blurring the boundaries. It feels fun and just a little naughty, and I like that.
December 10th, 2012 - 12:25 am
Hi, Pixie,
For me you will always be a perfect angle. How could be otherwise?
I never engage in any form of public spanking, playful or otherwise. I guard my fetish well, except when posting here, which is more than public enough.
As for corner time, it’s really stupid, boring, and degrading. Placing one’s nose against a wall in public would really be unthinkable and even bizarre.
December 10th, 2012 - 1:20 am
I am 67 and my wife of 38 plus years is 61. We’ve both worked to stay in good shape. My wife has a cute bottom that looks really good in slacks or blue genes. She puts most girls in their 20′s to shame.When with family or close friends I’ll often give her a couple of very gentle pats. She seems to enjoy it and usually gives me a quick kiss. Any spanks that are harder usually gets me a very cross look and the retort, “I’ve told you to never do that!”
December 10th, 2012 - 10:17 am
Pixie ,a nice post ,yes there are quite a few mentions of spanking references on television ,.Beautiful brat ,Ten is spanked by Veronica for her naughtiness on the latest Punished Brats update in h.D. very nice ,love and spanks,Timxx
December 11th, 2012 - 12:24 am
My husband has been known to give me some painful reminder swats in public on occasion which is fine with me, all the more exciting because no one around us knows what awaits me when I get home. I have also been know to give my sister in law a sound swat as well, because she will return the favor as well, but as you said it is always just in good fun.
I have never been put in the corner in public, but my sister in law has threatened me with it before. She is big with the timeout and corner time threats. Could be fun, although I don’t know if I could get past the embarrasment of it. I think I would rather stick to just having my bottom smacked in public.
December 11th, 2012 - 8:54 am
I once spanked a girl while seated on a boulder atop a large peak in Morro Bay, California. Anyone equipped with binoculars in the town below could have seen. Does that count?
December 12th, 2012 - 8:31 am
alway wanted be spanked otk style in a park by a female or on a beach by a female lifeguard or something like that i feel if i misbehave the female has right to spank me right on the spot in front of everyone then once we alone she can give me another spanking to teach me not to embrassed her. but i have in past gotten few spanking in publicx mostly at work and people laugh i never had chance tell girl i wanted real spanking i think i told i didnt mind i enjoy it
December 12th, 2012 - 10:52 pm
No thanx, had enough of that public stuff as a kid. Spanking is foreplay, ’nuff said.
December 14th, 2012 - 6:42 am
Young Joelle gets whacked soundly by David after her jammies are taken down ,Pixie ,love and spanks,Timxx
December 14th, 2012 - 10:08 am
Public attention, not so much, but quiet play in public can be fun. In the past, at a party or other gathering, I’ve quietly asked, “Do you think anyone can tell that just 2 hours ago you were getting you bare bottom spanked?” Of course, no one probably could but they sure could notice that her public cheeks were now red.
Or once I surprised a partner by turning into Victoria’s Secret, walking to the middle of the store then instructing her to select something for my approval. She travelled back and forth a couple times before I approved and then openly handed her the cash from my wallet to buy the selection. Based on the rest of the evening and her comments, she found the exhibition quite stimulating even though the lingerie was really modest. The spectacle was easy to notice in the crowded store but I doubt it was, except that she was well aware of what it looked like.
December 17th, 2012 - 9:11 am
Pixie lovely Ten is spanked again by Veronica for naughtiness ,love and spanks,Timxx
December 17th, 2012 - 12:18 pm
If I visit my spanker at work I may get an occasional swat behind the desk. It may have been noticed by an employee but it’s hard to tell because he didn’t seem to be paying attention or chose not to react if he did. It doesn ‘t bother me as it’s fun to us and though in public, usually there are few if any witnesses to see it.
December 26th, 2012 - 12:27 pm
Back in the day a public spanking was something you expected if you pledged a sorority at my high school. Pledges were ‘rats’ and members were ‘elders’. As a pledge you had to carry a small paddle with you at all times for use by any elder who wanted to use it. Although school was safe, you dreaded the words “Rat, walk me home.” When you heard them you waited for the elder at 3 and walked with her, Usually a guy or two came along to see the show. At the first secluded spot she’d tell you to assume the position. You bent over and got paddled in front of whoever was with her. Guys loved to watch this and definitely made fun of you during the paddling.
What you dared not do was cry. If any tears fell the elder would say “Aww, we’ve got a crybaby. Momma will take care of that.” You hoped the elder’s parents were home because if they weren’t you had to go into her house for some more paddling, this time over her knee on your bare butt. If they were home you knew you’d get the bare bottom OTK spanking at the next sorority meeting. More people watched but at least you didn’t have worry about guys seeing you get spanked.
This was an accepted part of life back then. Everybody wanted to join a fraternity or sorority and everybody knew you got ‘beat’ as part of the initiation. When you were a rat your parents would sometimes joke that they didn’t have to spank you this year, somebody else was doing it for them. You took your licks and waited until you were an elder and got your turn doing the paddling.
January 22nd, 2013 - 7:16 pm
My mom still does occasionally give a few swats to me now and then. Nothing major. I dont particularly care for it. I have however spanked one of my friends at a movie theatre when we had it to ourselves for a few minutes. Its fun.