I received a great question from a blog reader: How do you and other spankos feel about the whole notion of being required to address their disciplinarians as “Sir” or “Ma’am” during and immediately after a spanking? It’s very common on some sites like the Real Spankings suite of sites, less so on others, including [...]

Here are two questions I received for the Dear Amber column.  I have two others that I might make into individual posts or include in the next DA.  If you have a question you’d like me to ramble on about, please email me!   I’m always looking for questions and topics that interest you. I have [...]

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone!    I recently did an interview for the blog, Someone’s Going To Get It, and they have published it today.  Lots of good questions about my interest in spanking from both the bottom and top perspective.  I hope you’ll take a look and enjoy! Pixie Interview

There were a few comments on the last post that suggested that if a bottom needs to call a safeword during play, it’s an indication of a failure on the part of the top.  Speaking as one that had a reputation of being a pretty hard playing bottom, I can say that calling a safeword [...]