I have a few preference questions to pose in upcoming posts. I’m not sure if the ideas have been sparked by the sessions I’ve done recently, from mulling over scene ideas, or mainly from my never ending quest to understand this interest in spanking we share. It’s probably a good combination of the three and in any case, I’m glad for the inspiration. Nothing is worse than feeling the pressure to come up with a blog topic when I’ve hit a writer’s block!
So my first question is about pulling a spankee into position or at least into the room where the punishment is about to take place. Sometimes the girl (I’m using feminine terms here as I’m envisioning myself in the role of the naughty girl … feel free to substitute masculine ones as needed) will be compliant, either submitting to her fate or not knowing what’s about to come. There’s no resistance and she’ll willingly (albeit nervously) bend over or take her place over the knee. Other times, she’ll have to be marched in and placed in position. When this occurs, what is your preferred method of getting there? Feel free to answer in respect to viewing a scene or taking on the role of spanker or spankee yourself. Here are some of the ways in which I’ve been moved along and my personal preference commentary with each one.
* Verbally commanded in a firm tone to go to a specific location or to get into position
* Led by the hand – A mixture of a caring gesture and yet dominance. Love it. Sense of intimacy (and I don’t mean in a romantic way, just in a more personal manner).
* Grasped by the upper arm – Absolutely great. I really feel in trouble. Sends true punishment vibes and is preferred for less intimate role plays.
* Clasped on the back of my neck – A little scary for me as it signals fears of being choked. I know it’s the back of the neck, but is a little too close for personal tastes to being taken by the throat.
* Dragged by the ear – Kind of neutral on this one. Once in a while it’s totally fine. I hate how my pale ears turn fire engine red after being tugged though.
* Pulled by the hair – Perfectly cool when I have a pony tail or pig tails. They almost beg to be grasped. Reaching along my scalp and grabbing a big fist full of my hair isn’t a hot button for me, but it’s not a hard limit if that’s something that is really important to the spanker. Just don’t yank my hair out or snap my head back, please.
* Pushed on the upper back – Not such a fan of this one. Being guided to a room with a firm yet caring open hand on my upper back is ok. So is equal resistance as I try to rise up and fight my way off the lap. But a big push that sends me flying or smashes me into the floor isn’t my cup of tea.
* Picked up and carried – Love this as long as I feel safe and that the spanker is not about to buckle under me or drop me!
What do you like / dislike and how does it impact a scene for you?
August 29th, 2010 - 9:40 am
Definitely ear.
August 29th, 2010 - 9:47 am
Being short (5 foot nothing) with a normal to slightly tall spanker, I have been persuaded in most of the ways above and also with a hand around my waist while the spanker is on the right side and also holding my left shoulder, left hand or left upper arm. If I hesitate, or in his mind don’t move fast enough, I have been completely lifted off my feetwith thier right hand under my right arm and they sort of bend to the left lifting me off the ground against their right hip.
I’ve learned to be compliant with all verbal commands since there has never been a spanker that I could ever physically overpower.
I think size has a lot to do, not only physically but emotionally, with the number of soankings I get as well as the ease I’m put in position.
Linde
August 29th, 2010 - 9:47 am
Pixie nice post well it depends on the wrath of the spanker if for example the brats parent is the one it is otk straight away ,or if there is a struggle the spankee has to be carred to be put otk ,hpe this helps hope ,i bought a clip from p.b. aunties little girl with beverly and veronica very good ,love and spanks Pixie and all girls here ,xxxxxx
August 29th, 2010 - 10:15 am
Hi Pixie,
That’s an interesting question. I am most fond of the reluctant, yet compliant spankee. There’s just something about having to be an active participant in my own spanking. Assuming the prescribed position, baring my bottom, and/or fetching the paddle feel like intense acts of submission. Not only am I being spanked, I am, by my actions, agreeing that I deserve what I get.
In my brain, that’s powerful stuff.
Hugs,
Bonnie
August 29th, 2010 - 10:45 am
Dragged by the ear while warning me that I have won extra lashes for not immediately obey.
August 29th, 2010 - 1:09 pm
I haven’t ever been dragged by the ear or had my hair pulled pre spanking. I don’t mind viewing those actions IF the spankee did something positively wretched such as receiving a dui without a license to begin with. Otherwise I don’t think it’s justified for a scene that is playful or erotic.
To be ordered to “Come here!” or “Get over here, now” is very thrilling for me to hear whether it’s me watching or receiving the spanking. But my natural tendency to control everything in my life no doubt gets my ass in even more trouble when I finally get another dose of good hard spanking.
That said, I’d most likely try to mask my excitement of an impending spanking and just stare at my spanker, maybe burst out laughing or even swear at them after her/his command just to test them. As for getting into position, same deal, then I’d FINALLY get across my spanker’s lap. As for lowering pants, again, I prefer to engage and of course, lose the “struggle” for my spanker to pull my pants down and carry out the “sententence” for my crimes.
These elements work for my maximum enjoyment because I mostly engage in role playing. And Pixie I agree 100% it’s sooooo hard to pretend I don’t want a spanking and have to prevent myself from taking that swan dive across my spanker’s lap.
August 29th, 2010 - 2:17 pm
The way that really gets to me is when my spanker will, in a very firm, strict tone sounding voice, tell me to go into the room and gives very precise instructions as to how he wants to find me when he gets into that room. This method makes my tummy do those weird flip-flops and tingly, funny feelings.
Another one that I like is when he takes me by the hand and leads me to wherever I am to be spanked and then firmly puts his hand on my lower back to guide me over his knee.
I prefer to have the spanker lower my panties, but oftentimes he has me do it first. I think just the idea of an impending spanking gets my insides in a tingle and the whole thing is very intriguing for me.
August 29th, 2010 - 2:37 pm
well…you’ve pretty much covered it all.
i would just add “suddeness”. one second the spankee is quietly absorbed in whatever and then…whoops!!! shes being led to her waterloo. i like the ear come along but they all work.
i’d like to see more pleading and protesting in the prespanking moments.these would escalate as;
a. the girl realizes what she’s in for.
b. she sees a chair pulled out with a hairbrush on it.
c. she’s put otk.
d. her skirt is raised or jeans lowered.
e. panic sets in as her pants are lowered.
i’d like to see more of this in pb’s but i can hear the greek chorous going “more spanking”…….herm.
best,
ddon
August 29th, 2010 - 3:08 pm
For a really serious school/domestic infraction committed it would be great fun to watch a brat whose arm is grabbed to try to yank it back out of her spanker’s grasp. She can be forcefully grabbed right from her classroom seat and marched to the teacher’s desk or same grab and marched right to the Principal’s office. For domestic scenes, pull her up from a seated position from couch, chair and yank her back down otk there or led into the bedroom. She may feel completely undeserving of the fate and fights hard against the inevitable. Here I would appreciate seeing her bottom instantly bared and soundly spanked and paddled.
HATE the sight of the behind the neck clasping. Not thrilling for me to view and would never permit someone to do it to me. (Saw a male teacher do it to a petite girl in a crowded hallway in high school and she was clearly in distress and unfairly overpowered.)
The cooperative spankings are always fun to watch too for a change of pace.
August 29th, 2010 - 3:11 pm
I like the spankee to be taken by her upper arm (with the left hand of the spanker) from the back. The spanker uses her/his right hand to deliver some spanks already on her still covered behind, whilst pushing her forward to the spanking chair. She tries to protect her bum with her hands.
The prelimenary smacks make her very aware she is going to get a good spanking and when they reach the spanking chair she is rather subdued already and doesn’t protest when she/he takes her over his knee.
I love to see her/him taking her/his time to lift her skirt and bare her buttocks. Taking in that wonderful sight that a pair of pale white buttocks, turned up over a lap, offer…
Would love to see such a scenario as a start to a freshly spirited spanking preferably given by a female..
Funbun
August 29th, 2010 - 3:39 pm
*Dragged by the ear
yes god please this!!!! I have an entire folder on my pc dedicated to pictures of this
August 29th, 2010 - 3:40 pm
From the options offered I would go for the back of the neck option but only using the thumb and first finger to apply pressure. This has always felt firm and controlling to me, without being too threatening.
You might consider another option, dragged by clothing. As long as it does not involve a piece of clothing that is precious to someone, you can be far more genuinely rough and ready with a piece of cloth than you can be with skin to skin contact, making things look far more “real”.
Prefectdt
August 29th, 2010 - 4:38 pm
I have to vote for “grasped by the upper arm,” combined with a stern command that the young lady “come with me” as she’s taken to the place where the punishment will be administered. It sends a no-nonsense signal that the young lady in question is about to receive a sound disciplinary spanking. And hopefully it ramps up her sense of anticipation and trepidation about the impending spanking.
August 29th, 2010 - 5:00 pm
Pixie,
You once again manage to find an interesting topic. I continue to me amazed at your ability to pose interesting topics in your blog given how frequently you post.
I think I, along with Bonnie, am of the “reluctant, yet compliant spankee” preference. Responding to a command: “you’re going to get spanked, young lady! Go to your room, take your pants down, and bend over the bed” with reluctance but with the knowledge that if you don’t do it on your own, you will be forced to do it and the resulting punishment will be worse is appealing. Depending on the reluctance to compliance balance, the situation might also involve some mild physical coercion, pulling by hand or arm.
However, a full fledged struggle can, on occasion, be nice too. That is the occasion where I would likely pick up the spankee and probably toss them or use a push in the back to get them onto a bed (or other soft surface).
Mark
August 29th, 2010 - 5:45 pm
Here’s the drill… fetch the paddle, bare it, get into position and GO!
You mean to tell me some spankees AREN’T submissive? Hmm maybe I am missing out!
August 29th, 2010 - 5:49 pm
Well excellent topic Pixieliescious
i have to admit that i have a scolding fetish. so to me the spanking starts with a serious lecture. during that lecture the spankee gets to understand why s/he has it coming and how inevitable this is. idealy they cave during the scolding already, so when they are ordered to assume the position they will do so, albeit reluctantly.
I like if they are helped on their last steps, either by being dragged by the hands, or pushed, and also encourgaed by a firm RIGHT NOW
so just telling you this i am booked for a late evening ice cold shower
August 29th, 2010 - 5:50 pm
PS: love how Dana Specht scolds. wow
August 29th, 2010 - 5:52 pm
Being pulled by the ear is my absolute favorite! I enjoy the thought of getting a few hard swats to the bottom and then to be pulled by the ear to to the straight backed chair where the punishment will take place.
August 29th, 2010 - 7:20 pm
I don’t care for anything that looks too rough, but it depends on the characters and story. In some situations, complete submission under firm authority is best. I like that. In others, the spanker needs to really exert some dominance, which could be done through strong verbal command or physical taking of the hand or arm. By the ear is fine, if not too rough. A man carrying a woman is very sexy, if it fits the scene. I’m fond of the spanker taking the spankee’s hand and leading them calmly to their punishment.
August 29th, 2010 - 7:54 pm
@2good: But it’s fun for spankee not be submissive in the time prior to punishment, even knowing that it will be worse for her.
I have to admit that the first experiences with spanking the fact of not being submissive in the prior time of punishment left baffled to my boyfriend because he did not know if I really wanted to be spanked or not … Later he discovered that it was part of the game, so although I prefer to take me by the ear, he prefers to hold my hands and force me to lie down on his knees
August 29th, 2010 - 8:42 pm
Being pulled into a position, etc. is considerably less important than the commanding presence of the masterful person..:)
It’s accepting the inevitability of the punishment that makes me feel so sweetly submissive.
Plus, the thought of a group of amused onlookers really pushes my button..:)
Thanks, Pixie!
August 29th, 2010 - 9:27 pm
Dear Pixie,
Personally, I like the kind of girl that is used to being spanked. She knows what happens when she messes up. She takes her “medicine” without too much fuss as she knows that it will be worse if she “acts up”. I like to start with hand and then the hairbrush. Sometimes I use the bristle side. Then its the whippy spatula that’s designed for turning pancakes or turning bottoms red. Then I finish with the “pink stick”. This is a thin silacone spatula to be used between the bottom and the top of the thighs.
(I don’t know if you’ve ever felt that, but it stings like the devil!)
That is just my preference!
Ben
August 29th, 2010 - 11:37 pm
If done right the hand in the small of the back can be effective. You are moving their center of gravity forward. There is a tendency to roll away or bend to counteract but pressing back on the near shoulder or grasping the upper arm can control this. The hand in the small of the back can also give few swats if needed.
It lends itself to bending her as well, especially if they are still trying to bend forward to get away. Just remove the hand on the shoulder to press down on the upper back as the other hand reaches across and pulls gently on the top of the opposite side hip to cause the joint to unlock.
Across the knee requires some timing but as the spanker sits, they shift their left hand to the her right forearm/wrist. Pulling her arm across and down the spanker’s body, the other hand slides from the small of her back then presses in on the near hip to break the joints lock. If needed the whole forearm can be moved across her waist and out to bend her hips and get her falling over their lap.
August 29th, 2010 - 11:52 pm
I love a good struggle!
August 30th, 2010 - 1:32 am
For me — Yes to the commanding voice, being taken by the hand or grasped by the arm, the (gentle) hair grab, picking me up and carrying me (it’s especially hot hot HOT if the spanker throws me over his shoulder. NO to the neck grab, the ear grab and pushing. Too rough for my liking, and those yank me out of that delicious pre-spanking butterfly feeling and put me right into jarring fear.
August 30th, 2010 - 2:54 am
Ear-grabbing, back-pushing, hair-pulling, neck-clasping: These are a little too rough for my gentle tastes.
Full Disclosure: I’m not one to administer real discipline spankings. Not really my thing (spanking is too much fun for me to pervert it with morality). But, in a role-play spanking situation, I would proceed with voice commands and/or grasping the recalcitrant by the upper arm.
I’ve found that leading her along by the hand or guiding her with my hand on her lower back is good times in any intimate situation. The former is used when in casual clothing, the latter when I’m wearing a suit. Candlelight optional.
As for picking up the lady and carrying her away to be ravished? Well, that’s just classy. But shouldn’t be overused or you’re just showing off, you damn pirate. Get a haircut.
August 30th, 2010 - 8:15 am
Hey there Pixie,
Im a long time reader, but this would be my first reply. I think there’s something very raw about the verbal command. Sometimes, as a brat, I know it can be difficult to comply, to basically present yourself for punishment, or whatever the situation calls for. For the spanker to say something like, “Get over my lap. Now, little girl.” authoritatively, or the threat of additional punishment adds something for me simply because, eventually, I have to submit myself to the spanking, or it’ll just be worse. Often, a little physical guidance, like being grasped by the upper arm, is sufficient enough to help me start to get into the right frame of mind for a good spanking. I do have the tendency (especially if I’m being spanked for disciplinary reasons and I know I deserve it) to hesitate if I’m asked to bend over. Geez, are you gonna make me spank myself, too? Lol.
However, if one were to grab me by the back of the neck too roughly, I might just have a panic attack lol. Being pushed is also too impersonal and aggressive for me. I can accept the ear grab if I really trust the person. Being carried? Yes please, but only if you’re going to be making me feel damn good after all is said and done. In other words, not unless you’re my fiance.
August 30th, 2010 - 8:27 am
It has reached a point where only verbal is required if I am too slow in getting into position which is bare bottom OTK or on a bed.
The words “First things first”, let me know that a hot time is coming.
Lee
August 30th, 2010 - 3:00 pm
From the perspective of viewing video spanking scenes or engaging in role plays:
* Verbally commanded in a firm tone to go to a specific location or to get into position:
I enjoy this, especially if accompanied by an equally commanding pointed finger at the end of an extended arm. Mothers I watched employ this with their children often barked, “March!” or added the no-nonsense phrase, “This instant, young lady!” to their instructions, and frequently included promises of additional or more intense punishments if the girl didn’t move fast enough to suit her mother. If the girl was being sent inside for a spanking, away from her friends, dawdling or resistance was met with threats along the lines of baring and spanking her bottom right there if she didn’t get a move on (a threat sometimes carried out).
* Led by the hand:
Being led by the hand suggests a submission to and acceptance of what is to come, without struggle. To a lesser extent so is being led by the wrist, forearm, or upper arm (between shoulder and elbow), but it seems the farther away from the hand one gets, the more dominance is asserted and the less acquiescence is implied.
* Grasped by the upper arm:
I assume, trying to picture the exact hold, this would actually entail being grasped under the upper arm close to the armpit. Definitely a grip asserting absolute authority and conveying overpowering strength, which could be augmented with a grasp of the girl’s wrist by the Top’s other hand, pulling her shoulder forward and at the same time bending the girl’s arm behind her – this in response to the girl yanking or attempting to yank her arm away. As the Top does so, he/she would be seating themselves thereby delivering the girl firmly across his/her lap (a swift and short move if he’s/she’s sitting on a high stool or the edge of a couch).
* Clasped on the back of the neck:
Rather than grasping the neck itself, how about grasping her shirt collar and marching the naughty girl to her doom? I saw a lot of this with elementary school coaches grabbing boys in gym class but never connected it to spanking until I watched a mother grasp the collar of her 15 year old daughter’s short dress and, lifting and pulling her along, exposed the girl’s upper legs and panties (which we all knew were going to be taken down momentarily, but somewhere just out of sight – though not out of earshot). Being exposed like that in front of several peers, all of whom knew she was headed for a very hot bottom, made the girl struggle and start to resist but a swift smack to the seat of those panties (and a threat to spank her there and then) settled her down right away. Of course, when she was sent back out sometime afterward, she was extremely sheepish and embarrassed not just because we knew she’d been spanked but because of all we’d seen.
* Dragged by the ear:
Looks hot and reminds me of, while growing up, watching kids getting marched away to their fate, arms helplessly akimbo, caught between reaching to relieve the pain on their ear and not daring to interfere with the hand that will soon be delivering a spanking. However, even though it conveys being firmly in the control of another, I’ve heard tell of inner ear pain resulting from being tugged too hard and would only engage in it personally if the girl was fully cooperative. Might be used by an authority figure as a means of taking control of two girls having a very verbal altercation or even on the verge of blows, and immediately bringing their conflict to a halt. This would actually be bending/pinching their ears until compliance occurs instead of tugging, but it establishes just who is in control.
* Pulled by the hair:
Pulling by a pig tail or pony tail seems preferable to dragging by the ear, but only for a very short distance and likely backward (“where d’you think you’re going?”). Better, perhaps, would be employing it in a scene in which the girl tries to escape her fate and the Top grabs her pony/pig tail just as she’s about to get away, then marches her back to be dealt with (while scolding and wagging an index finger in her face). Another possibility in a scene would be to catch the girl by the “tail” as she’s about to run out the front door and, to ensure she doesn’t try that again, strip her jeans or skirt off leaving her in just her panties (“Now go outside!”) before marching her back for the spanking. I once watched a mother give her daughter several firm swats on the seat of her shorts while lifting the girl by her pony tail, straight up like her head was a sack. It had the effect of making the girl stand almost on tip-toe, shoulders forward, while being unable to reach her hands back low enough to block the swats.
* Pushed on the upper back:
I prefer to see a firm but guiding hand on a shoulder; which particular shoulder would depend upon the closeness of the relationship. A school or other venue would suggest an authority with boundaries they won’t confuse, despite administering a bare bottom spanking to a charge, while a familial relationship would be warmer and more personal so the guiding arm could be across the far shoulder (almost like a half embrace) or the hand placed at the base of the neck on the opposite side.
* Picked up and carried:
I can just see the TV commercial now, a la Zoosk ƒor Spankos: buff-boy attempting a masterful “fireman’s carry” lifts intended spankee onto broad, body-from-a-bottle shoulders and… whack!, whack!, whack! (oops! forgot about the ceiling fan).
August 30th, 2010 - 10:31 pm
To ddon
I’ll second your suggestions for more time being spent on the setup.
It would require the models to enhance their acting talents though.
To ^Mike
Your description of “Clasped on the back of the neck” would make
for a terrific video. It creates a mental struggle to save face. It seems more realistic than most videos where the character goes
along with everything like it’s no big deal. I also would like to see the situation described in “Pulled by the hair” where she attempts
to make a run for it. It happens fairly often in stories, but I haven’t
seen it in videos. They should use you as a consultant!
August 31st, 2010 - 2:01 am
I think any and all work from time to time. If you’re thinking about videos don’t get trapped into the same one every time. Switch it up. If you’re thinking in terms of sessions, the same thing. The more different ways you do it you won’t get too predictable.
With the ear be careful. Make it gentle with someone who’ll willingly follow. Ears are easy to hurt. Actually all should be relatively gentle. You should lead the person not drag him/her. If you want to be more forceful the upper arm is best.
On a personal level, one time I grabbed a girl by the nipple and led her. I was gentle and led rather than pulled. She was also very much o.k. with nipple play. I had used clamps on them before. Actually the short plastic clothespins.
On the other side of the coin, one time I was led by my uh, you guessed it, that’s what it was all right…. the masculine appendage. Again, this was gentle and I didn’t mind at all.
August 31st, 2010 - 5:10 am
pixie wow a lot of interest in your post beacuse you involve us your friends in this we love it and you and all the girl spankees here at P.B. Kelly nice to see you commenting ,mike interesting comments on the girls mothers discipline if there was more there would be more respect .Love and spanks Pixie and all girls here ,best wishes to the boy s here commenting from tim .xxxxxx for the girls .
August 31st, 2010 - 12:40 pm
My dear delicious spankmuffin,
We’ve had this conversation before, and I keep trying to tell you that there isn’t a man alive who wouldn’t (perhaps secretly) love to chastise you briefly, but soundly, then take you over his lap for a good old fashioned bare bottom spanking — simply because just the thought of it makes us hard as a rock. I’m sorry if that thought offends you, but it’s the simple plain truth. So please continue wiggling and squirming and weeping under the persuasion of a ruler, paddle, strap, hand…in short, whatever’s handy to tan that yummy hide of yours…because we all know what a very naughty (but very sweet) girl you are. Because we all love you, can’t think of anyone else with the naughty expertise you have, and the ability to make us all what a wonderful world it is with you in it.
Hugs and smooches, and be well and safe.
Thomas M.
(the Serial Spanker)–Unfortunately retired).
W
September 1st, 2010 - 10:06 am
Hmmm. I would suppose it would depend on the scenario and parties involved. I always found wrist pulls leading to the spanking spot fun because the spankee can pull back and resist somewhat whilst begging/pleading/protesting. A significant size difference can make an over the shoulder/under the arm play a real no nonsense option and the ear is just classic schoolmarm/teacher action. But verbal orders to have that sensual sub/dom air to them, so I guess that they’re all good!
September 1st, 2010 - 3:28 pm
Grasped by the upper arm – very sensual, my favorite on your list.
Dragged by the ear – thumbs down, always reminds me of a kid that lost his hearing in one ear from the ensuing infection where the teachers fingernails had dug in.
Picked up and carried – wow, if I could find a woman strong enough to do that I’d know I was really gonna get it!
September 1st, 2010 - 9:42 pm
You forgot about getting spanked into position. You know many quick slaps to the bottom to get you moving and more slaps when you go the wrong direction.
September 1st, 2010 - 10:36 pm
I think that in your videos, that the verbal commands work best (for my personal tastes). Struggling is difficult to film, because the woman can’t struggle too much, and sort of struggling and cooperating at the same time sometimes looks kind of funny. I like to see a girl being told to remove some of her clothing and get in position while the top just stands there and waits. It would be fun to see you spank a woman much larger (and presumably stronger) than you are, who would have to submit cooperatively.
September 3rd, 2010 - 12:47 pm
I forgot to put my name on the last post…
Here is an interesting link to a comment Jerry Lewis had about Linsey Lohan’s problems. (Sort of on topic, maybe)
http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/video/jerry-lewis-would-smack-lindsay-lohan-11550683
Linde
September 3rd, 2010 - 1:02 pm
Great question!
I like my girls to always be submissive and compliant (not struggling – this just means they haven’t been properly punished in the past and haven’t learned obedience). The girl should, of course, be reluctant and fearful of her fate, and hence the need to make her adopt the required position.
My favourite forms of control are:
Forceful commands, possibly accompanied by a sharp smack to the girl’s bum;
Ear tugging. This is very enjoyable as it reinforces the girl’s total vulnerability. If the ear is pulled DOWN, as well as forward, the girl has to bend over and her bum is sticking out, which is very amusing for any onlookers;
Pulling plaits or side-bunches. These are always attractive on a girl and are an excellent handle that is almost like a leash.
More of these please!!
September 3rd, 2010 - 1:41 pm
The link above (with Jerry Lewis) makes him out to be a pretty abusive person even tho his second comment seemed more in line with us. I am sorry for posting it, after reconsidering his statement, and I hope it has not upset any of the people here who may have memories or have been in an abusive relationship.
Linde
September 3rd, 2010 - 4:20 pm
I would love to see a scene with pixie (or any of the other PB girls) being caught stealing money from aunt (veronicas) purse and grabbed by the ear while she twist it the girl puts the money back and then she is dragged over the spanking chair by the ear
September 3rd, 2010 - 9:05 pm
Linde,
I saw it too and about died laughing at his impassioned promise to put her over his knee and… SPANK her!
September 4th, 2010 - 6:18 am
Pixie a lot of interest in this subject of yours not so keen on ears being pulled ,nice vid you did with Lily Anna ,love and spanks Pixie and all the girls here from tim xxxxxx
September 4th, 2010 - 7:26 am
@Kelly
The first time I saw the Jerry Lewis comment it was in the form of a “sound-bite” and only included the comment about spanking her, which seemed interesting to readers such as us.
(It had been edited like so much of the news we get)
But the whole comment says that he would “smack her in the mouth, I’d be arrested, and say, “That’s all you deserve” and then if she didn’t …”
Sooooo many times I have experienced and talked to people and heard stories of people who sought out others that UNDERSTOOD the NEEDS that we have, only to find out sometimes too late, that the person we met was an abusive and sadistic ***. Being a spanko does NOT mean that we WANT someone to punch, smack, slap, pinch or otherwise bring pain to ANY other part or parts of our bodies. The first part of consensual or desired punishment spanking is comunication and understanding between the two parties involved. Setting limits and understanding the desires of both people comes first. Consensual and mutual are the key words.
A very close friend of mine once said she felt that, “The most intimate act that two people can share is spanking”
I … ME … LINDE … Screwed up when I posted the link above about a comment a celebrity made who may in fact think it’s okay to go beyond spanking and may have brought back memories that we don’t need to bring back.
I am truley sorry if I did! And I’m not directing this at you Kelly because I think you understand … I initially thought it was funy too but ….
Well, I need Adam’s help now so I’ll shut up!!
Linde
September 4th, 2010 - 1:13 pm
I prefer the first three – verbal, led by the hand or grasped by the upper arm – depending on the situation. Great post, Pixie, very thought provoking. Can’t wait for your other preference questions.
September 4th, 2010 - 2:03 pm
Not really into being “Moved Into Place” where as I have legs and I can use them. Plus I don’t know it sort of makes me feel below the top not physically but emotionally…It is kind of wierd but that is just the way I feel. I do not need to be pushed, pulled, or grabbed just tell me where to go and I promise I can get there all by myself.
I understand some people may prefer the pulling, pushing, and grabbing and I respect that, but it is just not for me.
*Interseting topic*
September 4th, 2010 - 5:26 pm
I also like seeing a girl walking kind of having to waddle around, because her pants are down, constraining her legs and preventing her from walking normally.
September 5th, 2010 - 1:55 am
Dear Pixie,
I have used a number of these, and while they all can certainly be effective, the one’s I like the most are the first three you mention. A verbal command is good–if the lady in question shows some hesitation, the same command repeated in a sharper, sterner tone of voice usually does the trick. Taking her by the hand or the arm at the elbow or higher is a gentle but firm way of doing it. Again, if there’s some hesitation, the grip becomes slightly tighter–only slightly, though, we don’t want to bruise her arm with an iron grip.
I don’t like grabbing the neck–even though it’s the back of the neck, to too many women it brings on thoughts of choking. They don’t want that, and neither do I. Grabbing by the ear is fine for short distances, but I wouldn’t want to march someone down a hallway like that. From here to the nearest chair, fine. I don’t like the hair pull, either. If she moves or reacts unexpectedly, I don’t want to wind up pulling out her extensions or any actual hair.
A guiding hand in the small of the back is okay, but it’s very easy for someone to just roll away from it. Better to get a firm hold in the first place. I also wouldn’t want to try tossing someone over my shoulder for fear of their wiggling loose–or worse, my losing my grip– and then they fall on their head. Not a big fan of that.
One other good move–my left hand grabs their left arm or circles their waist, and my right hand delivers a quick smack to their seat along with a verbal command letting them know what they should do and where they should be heading. It gets them going and leaves no doubt as to what they can expect when they get there.
Hugs and spanks,
Dr. Ken
September 5th, 2010 - 5:38 am
I don’t see any problem with the Jerry Lewis link. The ABC guys pretty well put it into perspective. We don’t have to agree with everything people say.
September 5th, 2010 - 7:52 am
Pixie plenty of comments ,mr Lewis is ging to far with slapping faces botties yes,nice vid with Lily Ana and yourself in your cute jammies being spanked ,speak to you soon after hols ,love an spanks from tim to all girls here Pixie xxxxxx
September 8th, 2010 - 6:04 pm
To Patty…I get spanked for fun, not punishment; but I can be bratty at times. I wonder if this counts as trying “not” to be submissive. I was asked to roll over after being a bit of a brat and wouldn’t at first. After a few smacks to the thighs I had to comply!!!
September 9th, 2010 - 7:47 am
Hi Pixie great post, My personal favorate way to be led to the”Chair” is to be grabbed by the upper arm?
September 17th, 2010 - 8:26 am
BY THE EAR
it gives the impression that who is in control….also makes the person feel like a school boy/girl as it is the practice used in school….more humiliating
October 6th, 2010 - 12:52 pm
You really do have by far the most interesting and interactive spanking blog out there Pixie, always coming up with thoughtful new angles on the subject of spanking.
I always think the prelude to any spanking is often the most interesting part, as this is where mind games come to the fore. All of the scenarios above are exciting in their own way and I think it largely boils down to being a mood thing. It is sometimes appropriate for the naughty girl to submit to her punishment in a contrite, compliant manner, dutifully traipsing off to collect the paddle or the cane as instructed and respectfully presenting it to her disciplinarian, before obediently hitching up her skirt (or dropping her trousers), taking down her knickers and then bending over in the prescribed manner. At other times it is exciting to see an arrogant defiant girl being dragged unceremoniously to her place of punishment, forcibly undressed and then tossed ignominiously over the knee for a far worst thrashing than she would have had to endure if she had not resisted the inevitable.
However, if I had to choose one favourite scenario, it would have to be TAKEN BY THE EAR. For me this immediately establishes a powerful element of control for the disciplinarian and a commensurate sense of helplessness for the naughty girl herself. It also represents a suitably uncomfortable and undignified introduction to a process that is intended to be a very painful and humiliating experience for the recalcitrant young lady concerned.
Incidentally I think this blog topic should be accompanied by this rather delightful picture Pixie:
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