Is it possible to spot another spanko? Are there certain features that might give us away? I think to the general vanilla population, unless we come out wearing a shirt like this …
the answer is no. They aren’t looking for those specific traits and most likely haven’t even heard of people that are deeply into spanking. This is a good thing in my opinion. I don’t want it to be too obvious because this is a personal passion that need not be shared with everyone and anyone. Not that a love of spanking is anything to harbor deep shame over, but it’s simply a matter that not everything in one’s private life needs to be shared with the public at large.
But when it comes to spotting another enthusiast, are there signs that you look for to try to identify a fellow spanko?
If only it were so easy as to be able to spot a red bottom on the beach.
Or when going through airport security, discover the luggage of the person in line ahead of you looks like a London Tanners display case.
I think the signs tend to be much more subtle though. Certain key phrases used in every day conversation, a tendency to flex the dominant hand in a playful manner, frequently checking out the bottoms of passers-by, an undying love of pretty panties, and so on. Yes, these are behaviors that many vanillas may exhibit as well, but when a few of them come together or are coupled with other traits, all signs point to spanko.
What signs do you look for? What hints might you try to drop to someone you suspect of being a fellow spanking enthusiast (without giving yourself away entirely if the person turns out to be vanilla)? Is it possible to even define it in words what that spanking vibe is? Help me out here.
June 17th, 2010 - 11:39 am
I’d prefer to just kinda look at the ground and say, “Yes sir.” Sweet submission can express itself in many ways…:)
June 17th, 2010 - 11:42 am
Not quite on point but does it bother anyone else that the handprints on the “Spank me” pants in the second photo are to high? Provocative, but if the handprints were lower perhaps with some fingertips truncated to hint at landing outside the covered area, then I would definitely think true spanko.
I believe a cute pair of first spanking panties would have “If you can read this, you should be spanking me” printed across the seat.
June 17th, 2010 - 12:40 pm
My take is this: Be feminine but feisty as much as possible. You’ll know who wants to spank you by who appreciates it most. Also find an excuse to call a man “sir,” as in a nice” Thank you, sir”as they hold the door or whatever, and see if his eyes light up. Personally, I think all women want to be spanked, at least a little, but that could be just wishful thinking.
But I didn’t realize I loved it so much myself until I was about eighteen.
June 17th, 2010 - 12:41 pm
I found out one of my friends was into spanking by accident. She was cooking, I was bratting and before I knew it my backside was stinging. Three solid spanks with a spatula. I decided it was time to study for my college Algebra test after all.
I learned to check the surrounding environment for possible implements before bratting around anyone. Because you never really know…
June 17th, 2010 - 12:42 pm
I am not sure I can spot a fellow spanko, but I sure do try. Sometimes just the chemistry between a couple can leave me wondering.
As far as me exposing my spanko tendencies, I probably would be an easy find. When we are around my husband’s friends and they make mention of something about their wife.. I sometimes will say ‘She just needs a spankin” or, for example, my brother in law and sister in law have a paddle at their house that is there to scare the kids. One day he talked about the mess in their house, and I told him that if he used the paddle on his wife his house might surprisingly get cleaner and cleaner. He laughed.
June 17th, 2010 - 12:43 pm
pixie,
here we go again with yet another great post!!!!
over the years i’ve come to be amazed at the number of females out there who [even if the're not truly spanko's] get turned on by even the mention of spanking.
in the spring of 1966 i [normally a cook] was [along with 2 G.I. buddies from Pease AFB] was waiting tables with G. our 1st waitress.
hi-jinks were the norm but after too many times tying back my pillie i [alpha male that i was] called a halt to string pulling. G. didn’t seem to get the message so i cornered her and said “one more time and i’m going to spank you!!!!!”
half an hour later she came to me and said “you wouldn’t spank me in front of everyone would you????” i said no!!! i’ll do it tonight at intermission at the drive in! ooohhhh!!!! are we going to the drive inn???? and i had my girl for the summer.
there’s more of us than meets the eye!!! the very word spank can render some girls weak in the knee’s [and other area's]. “ooohhhh, you wouldn’t do thaaaattt!!!!” “try me”[ james brown's best].
maybe this one will break 100!!!!!
try the impossible,
ddon
June 17th, 2010 - 12:54 pm
Short plaid skirts could be a clue. Not everyone gets drunk enough (as a young lady did just 3 weeks ago with a whip in her hand) to ask random strangers “can I spank you?”. There must be signs and not the overt “free spankings” kind I have observed at festivals from San Francisco to Key West, but subtle body language indicators. I had a student teacher that once said that she “knew things about me that I didn’t even know” shortly before letting the paddle fly. That same quote was used by the NSA guy, when getting my TS clearance interview many years ago. I must say that was awkward, as a twenty year old in uniform standing at attention in front of a much older civilian seated behind his briefcase and asking me detailed questions about every documented disciplinary session I had ever had. I still wonder if he took delight in watching me squirm. Heres an epiphany for you; when the school authorities say that something is going on your “permanent record” – it is! I think that if anyone brings up the subject of spanking, even if they argue against it, there is a strong possibility that something is there. To root out a spanko, just throw something out there and watch for any reaction from giggling to strong objection. For example; “So your a mid-western girl, corn-fed and hand-spanked”, and then watch for the response even if it’s a cat-who-ate-the-canary silence. If you do try this at home, don’t blame me if you end up getting slapped, or worse! (heh-heh!)
June 17th, 2010 - 3:43 pm
pixie,
i forgot to mention the other two words that get instant response.
“YOUNG LADY”
go ahead guys…..the next time you’re at a gallery opening, cocktail party et al…. using command voice [they teach this in the military] say the magic words.
if 20 girls are there, one will have a moist experience of the urinary kind and 50-80% of the rest will have a very different but similar experiance. all will get real big eyes while they wonder how that daddy found them out. the closest girl [if she knows you] will hit you saying “why did you do that?????” that’s my double dare challenge of the year. i will not be held responsable for spilled drinks or broken glasses.
um um, trickle trickle, oh oh, splash splash,
ddon
June 17th, 2010 - 3:56 pm
Hi Pixie,
Over the years I learned to spot all kinds of “spanko behaviour”. Tiny little things that make me think: ‘She might be attracted to spanking.’
When young (long time ago) I never dared to address the woman involved, but getting older there are a whole range of remarks that can be made. Her reaction will immediately show if she is interested in spanking or not.
One seems to develop a kind of ‘radar’ for such occasions.
People seem to still accept remarks like” She should be spanked” or “If problems arise, YOU will be the one getting spanked” or “Guess you should be taken over the knee.” etc.
And ‘body-language’ tells a lot too. Women into spanking tend to dress in such a way that there is just that little bit more focus on their behinds. Or she moves in such a way that she knows her backside will attract attention.
An example: Once there was a young mom with her two little daughters at a playground. She was early thirties. She ‘hung’ herself over a bar, bum up under tight stretch pants and very visible. In no time other moms and a few men made some remarks. One woman couldn’t resist giving a few pats on her upturned buttocks. It was very clear the mom was into spanking.
Spankings were very common till the late seventies and that is not THAT long ago. So quite a few people still relate to spanking and real spanko’s show it immediately when somebody mentions spanking and some react…
And when there is a ‘reaction’ it only starts, as you have to find out what kind of interest she really has in spanking. There is – as we all know – a HUGE range of spanking activities one can engage in and most of us are still too inhibited to dare talking about what we really want. (As with sex in the bedroom between couples).
When you get older you’ve learned to distinguish certain signals, but you’re often considered ‘too old’ for a little play or small adventures. Is that fair..?
Funbun
June 17th, 2010 - 4:55 pm
Back in my “dancing” days I could always spot the commited, true-blue (or should that be red ..lol) spankos by slapping my bottom while I danced. I guess it sort of gave away MY interests also but I could always spot the guys with eyes glued to my posterior, even though there was more for them to see. (blush)
Speaking from a third-person point of view is something I do sometimes to weed out the spankos. I’ll say something like “I heard a friend say her husband spanked her on her birthday” or “I saw this article in the paper about an employer who spanked …” or “Do you watch Community? .. “Did you see that Shakesphere guy on Britains got talent?”
If they smile, I know they are interested? If they blush, I know they are more than just interested!
I was once invited by a friend to go to one of her friends birthday parties with her. At the party we had a few drinks and they were talking about opening presents and then having some cake afterwards. Everyone was sort of “loose” and having a good time and I asked the boyfriend of the “birthday girl” when the birthday spanking would take place. I said it in such a playfull, joking sort of way but he turned beat red and then he went and whispered something in his girl-friends ear and she started to blush and then just smiled at me. I never got to see that particular event at her party … but I’m sure it took place later that evening in private. lol
As I said before, just carrying a hairbrush around in a department store and sort of innocently spanking my palm once in a while … seems to bring the spankos out of the wood work like trolling for fish. LOL
Another great topic!!
June 17th, 2010 - 5:43 pm
Pixieliescious and all
excellent topic. I too believe that triggering reactions is the easiest way to tell. Maybe if you see a not so innocent item, and the way people look at it, like a carpet beater (rug beater in american english), a wooden spoon etc, you can tell whether they have a not so fashioned use for it. Also use of antique language, not middle ages like, but words taht arent colloquially used. in englsih i agree it is the usage of sir and madam or young lady, or first middle and last name (Amber Pixie Wells, get here at once), stern voice and all. as people are sharing their experiences, so will i
I was at a fleamarket selling my goods (no neither spank nr sex stuff) and a female customer, about end 20 started getting fresh with me. she also used some words that would make a sailor blush. i lost my temper and told her: You are lucky not to be my GF, MISS(Y) (you have to know, in germany the term miss for a women is regarded old fashioned and insulting). instead of getting worked up about the insult, she glared at me, and bratted “why is that?” I hissed back “because you wouldnt be sitting down for 2 weeks straight after such a scene”. she stomped off, saying something about asshole. later when i had packed my stuff up, she came back to where my booth had been, wearing a skirt (she had jeans on before). she asked me what i had meant about her not sitting down before. “you know exactly what i meant missy, i would take you OTK of course!” she mustered me for what seemed an eternity. she: one the bare? – me: of course! she: promise?
thats how i met my first playing partner
June 17th, 2010 - 6:08 pm
So, the consensus seems to be that it really is like radar; you send out a coded pulse and wait for the echo return. Hmmm.
June 17th, 2010 - 6:43 pm
@Tigerbutt.
a radar or a sonic depth-founder.
from my line of work, however you can tell by other means as well, whether a person is up for spankings, bondage etc.
one way is by having a close look at their astrology/horoscope chart – however you need their exact time of birth, location of birth and date of birth for that one.
you can also see it – without those dates – in a tarot card reading, if you do their sexual preferences reading and know how to read the cards accordingly.
June 17th, 2010 - 7:16 pm
OK, sonar. The other ideas are not based in science. Astrology does not compensate for the changing precession of the stars over time. The ancients thought that your “sign” was set at birth because the sun occupied that part of the sky along the ecliptic where that constellation was situated. Times have changed and now I understand that your horoscope sign is about two months off from where it was when they came up with this idea. A Leo is not really a Leo, Taurus not a Taurus, etc… As far as tarot card reading, (ROFL so hard a straight jacket is required)…
June 17th, 2010 - 7:18 pm
Lorraine had the right idea for one of the clues — a feminine, invitational sassiness. In the era when, it would not be looked on as abuse, I used to greet that sassiness with a trial whack on the bottom and that, in turn, led to many a spanking relationship.
June 17th, 2010 - 7:36 pm
Some people just throw out remarks alluding to bratty tendencies. I work at Corporate Cubicle Hell. The highlight of this is the department manager is very unorthodox. She always talks about how she can’t wait to get ahold of alcohol. She mentions she’s a rule breaker.Also very outspoken and honest to a fault admitting shortcomings. No mention of actual spanking, but it appears she takes great care of her very round behind with spinning classes and walking. Who knows?
June 17th, 2010 - 7:44 pm
When I co-host karaoke with my best friend, I often help people find songs in the books. My standard pose for this is to bend over a table, booth, etc and stick my tight jeans covered butt out as far as possible hoping it will get a smack or three. I LOVE public displays of play spankings! Usually my best friend and someone else will take the bait.
My opinion is the work place may be trickier to spot spankos. Social environments are much freer. Add alcohol to the mix and you just may end up getting a bare bottomed spanking in a private banquet room delivered by your man crush who looks just like Mark Harmon. Witness was present; the resturant manager.
True story!!! happened to me about 8 years ago. Such a shy sweet girl. Help me break out of hiding!
June 17th, 2010 - 7:51 pm
Ok ladies and gentlemen… One more naught tidbit to share.
Once again alcohol was the culprit; to a point. A bunch of my rowdy girlfriends and myself went to see males dancers. I became partial to one in particular. I think one of my friends told him I liked getting spanked or maybe I spanked his g-string clad butt! Can’t quite recall! lol! However, I DO know for sure while in the ladies room all of a sudden the doors barged open and Hottie crashed through and proceeded to be a bit “flirty” with me. SOME details are needless to report. BUT he promptly lowered my jeans and gave me several hard, quick bare bottomed spanks. Fantastic night!
June 17th, 2010 - 8:15 pm
@Tom So the other day when I was over at an acquaintance’s house for the first time. I noticed an old fashioned carpet beater mixed in a bin with umbrellas, walking canes and civil war era costume swords. I gave myself away? Good to know.
One things for sure. I did not notice any rugs in their house!
June 17th, 2010 - 8:33 pm
I was out riding my motorcycle one lovely summer day when I noticed two young ladies walking toward me on the sidewalk. One was wearing a top with the word “Spanko” emblazoned across her chest. Had they appeared to be perhaps 5 or 10 years older, I might have stopped to compliment the spanko girl on her top, but they both appeared to still be teenagers.
June 17th, 2010 - 9:59 pm
My ex Principal is a spanker . he admitted to me that he spanks his wife for her naughty behavior
June 18th, 2010 - 5:56 am
I was in a bar in Manhattan for Happy Hour one day & ESPN Sportscenter was on the TV. The announcer said “Cleveland was spanked by Seattle”, I blurted out “The whole city?”. A very hot guy near-by looked at me & said in a low voice “They must have been very naughty”. My knees went weak & an electric shock went up my spine.
June 18th, 2010 - 6:46 am
completely unrelated to the topic at hand, but one of my collegues on the flea market had a rug beater hung up on the tent with a sign: ‘those stealing here will be beaten with this’
the man was crying his eyes out too. the woman didnt get arrested for assault. the cops told the man, he had been warned, so no foul, no harm!
only once someone attempted to steal a watch, she noticed and ran after him, regardless of her arthritis. a few other vendors stopped the fugitive and he got it good! when the cops arrived he fled into their arms confessing and asking for protection. that was a sight to see. however, it was not consensual
@tigerbutt. there are many traditions in the astrology department some who follow the actual stars constellations, some that still use the old fashion (me the latter) – strangely the readings are accurate. I am no scientists and do not pretend to believe in the religion of science, I know what works for me, works for me. if you get a good laugh from that, i am not offended. the jester makes people laugh, it does not reduce the jesters self esteem
June 18th, 2010 - 6:49 am
@amelia.
you could take the thing one step further next time you visit your aquaintance house. Wear a skirt that looks like a rug and see where it leads…
June 18th, 2010 - 6:54 am
PIXIE ANOTHER GREAT SUBJECT LOVEY ,I THINK I WOULD BE TOO SHY TO BRING THIS UP IN CONVERSATION ,BUT TIGERBUTT AND KELLY HAVE GIVEN US ALL SOME IDEAS AND AMELIA LORRAINE E AL.I FOUND A HAIRBRUSH ON TOP OF A PILLAR BOX FOR MY AMERICAN FRIENDS A RECEPTACLE TO POST MAIL OUTSIDE THE POST OFFICE ,ANYWAY SHALL COMMENT AGAIN ,LOVE AND SPANKS PIXIE AND BEST WISHES TO ALL HERE TIM XXXXXX
June 18th, 2010 - 1:28 pm
A lot of great contributions here in the comments. I have definite feelings about who I think MIGHT be a spanko, or might have spanko tendencies, among my friends, but I haven’t confronted them about it.
June 18th, 2010 - 1:29 pm
Of course the flip side is…. how many people intuit that you’re a spanko and do you own up when they ask you?
June 18th, 2010 - 3:04 pm
Pixie,
This is my first time posting to your blog. But anyway excellent topic in fear of offending anyone I do not think I would openly in public in a mixed group of people(vanilla or not)even mention about my interest in spanking, but that is just my opinion.
Jonnie
June 18th, 2010 - 3:13 pm
Pixie hello
Hello everyone
I did not want to comment, you know why. see the preceding discussion, friends here on the forum made me understand some things of value. You bring so much happiness, if I have the courage one day I will explain but not easy.
Tim says so well, I’m shy as he is is not simple.
on this subject can not speak, I regrettably have no experience. on the subject you are my teacher and I trust you.
my respects Pixie
my respects to all
and my apologies
Joel
June 18th, 2010 - 3:18 pm
Pixie,
This is my first time posting to your blog. But anyway excellent topic in fear of offending anyone I do not think I would openly in public in a mixed group of people(vanilla or not)even mention about my interest in spanking, but that is just my opinion.
J
June 18th, 2010 - 4:48 pm
I think people’s expressions give them away. I recently heard, Christopher Hitchens on NPR recanting a story, about being “spanked” by Madeline Albright, and found it funnier than the people with me.
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Some people just throw out remarks alluding to bratty tendencies.
I agree with the above comments, as do some people throw out dominant ones.
June 18th, 2010 - 7:42 pm
And then there’s the fact that a lot of spanko type stuff goes on when I’m around, between apparently vanilla people. For instance one girl will smack another’s butt in a playful way. Or, get this, a girl I know looks me right in the eye and then smacks another girl’s butt while maintaining eye contact. I think that’s a case of non-verbal communication for sure. It’s like she’s non-verbally saying “Hey, I know you couldn’t get away with doing this, and I know you like this stuff, so here, this smack’s for you!”.
Of course stuff like that doesn’t lend itself to control testing because the hypothesis is that the “observer” affects what happens.
June 18th, 2010 - 7:56 pm
Athletes, especially football players can disguise their potential spanko tendencies in plain sight. Or they’re throwing them right out there for ALL to see!
In my opinion I’ve never seen better shaped butts than those of PRO football players. Tight, taut and MMMHHH juicy bubble buttiliciousness!!!
Enough of my horndog remarks. This is a SERIOUS topic. I get turned on watching the boys crack each other across the ass after a great play. I wonder when that practice was adopted in sports culture. And I sure as hell hope it never gets abandoned!
June 18th, 2010 - 10:38 pm
Wouldn’t it be great if we simply had a “highlander” sense, and know when another was in proximity? Oh, the time we could save fretting and hoping . . . .
June 19th, 2010 - 12:43 am
I’ve never known a woman who owned a big, wide, flat hairbrush that did not at very least fantacize about getting spanked with it. Personally, to sniff out a fellow spanko, I will hypothecize myself into a potential spanking situation. Maybe subtle, maybe not. “Oh, if my wife said/did something like that, she’d spend some time in the corner.” Or “Be careful, you’ll end up in the spanking room.”. I once directly told a girl that I didn’t have a physical relationship with that i would “beat her ass” if she did xyz. I thought I blew it. Too over the top. But lo and behold, Later that night, after much erotic talk, bratting, and her attempting xyz, she was on all fours, panties down to the knees. Strapped her with her own belt.
June 19th, 2010 - 1:05 am
Hot topic, Pixie! It’s fun to ask someone if they were spanked as a kid, when you are getting to know them, and see how they respond. Like if the topic holds no buttons for them, you know it right away. You also find out if the button is still there and very much alive. If you and your date happen to watch beach volleyball during the summer TV season you can comment on the show. “Oh that’s gotta hurt!”, for example, when Kerry Walsh delivers her typical spank to the delectably spankable butt of Misty May Trainor as she does, it seems, to celebrate every single point they win during an entire series of volleyball games in the set! LOL! Yes, Kerry delivers PLENTY of opportunities to ask your partner or bar-mate if they are enjoying this show, haha! Spankos find it hard to believe it is happening right in front of their eyes and that they are not really watching Clare Fonda’s “Girl Spanks Girl” channel … but there it is on public TV, a perfect opportunity to comment on a very public set of spanks being innocently but excitingly delivered!
June 19th, 2010 - 1:09 am
Redchief – that would be great!
Kelly – why do you think guys like to watch Misty May and girls vollyball !!!
Great topic here Pixie. Thanks.
June 19th, 2010 - 6:30 am
Didn’t know about the girls’ volleyball antics. Is this aired on ESPN?
June 19th, 2010 - 6:55 am
pixie this topic is gaining speed which is great well done ,joel seems uneasy commenting with us come on we are friendly .Kelly great comments wow those girls playing volleyballwould be a good storyline for p.B.perhaps ,Tigerbutt very good too ,Jonnie welcome ,Lorraine got big spanks from Beverly as a sports coach lorraine playe a naughty little girl very well,chat againsoon ,love and spanks from tim xxxxxx
June 19th, 2010 - 7:17 am
Pixie’s enjoying the last hour or so of ability to sit comfortably. LOL!
Here’s another perspective that others may share.
For those of us who belong to spanking personal sites, have you ever had ill-fated connections with somebody there? These may be people you haven’t seen at all. So another question…Have you ever just looked at somebody and taken an instant dislike to them? Particularly in the infamous workplace, I have that tendency on a regular basis. The woman or man may be great looking too, but I don’t like something about the person’s demeanor. I wonder is it someone I exchanged emails with who did not appreciate playful bratting and neither of us can refer to it because it’s against workplace decorum. I am rather open with my email address so it’s more likely they’d recognize me than the other way around.
June 19th, 2010 - 7:41 am
@Tom – Sorry if you think I was taking a swipe at your self esteem, I think we are both jesters and don’t have much of it (probably due to some emotional traumas suffered at an early age, I can’t imagine what…). This belief in superstition wether it is parlor tricks like I Ching, “reading” tea leaves or the entrails of a slaughtered goat, blood typing as they do in Japan, biorythms or numerology will under no circumstances I can imagine help you find out wether this person or that is a spanko. A good old fashioned (otk) palm reading, however…
I think that Redchief’s “Highlander” idea would be fantastic. Instead of “The Quickening” we could all feel “The Spankening”!
Watching girls volleyball sounds fascinating anyway, thanks for the heads up on Kerry Walsh and Misty May Trainor, perhaps they’re on U-tube as well? Thanx “dommie”.
Kelly, guys swatting each other on the butt is just gay where as girls slapping each other on the butt is totally hot. Just my opinion.
June 19th, 2010 - 9:05 am
@tigerbutt – sorry to hear about your traumas, never a good thing in my book. i agree with you that the mind is the limit. if you cannot imagine something than its hard to understand it, like at all. i have given up long ago to try to convince people, what works and what doesnt. if something works with some-one good for them, what-ever it is. however i like your twist on OTK PALM READING
@Redchief. now that would be awesome. or at least some tricorder add on to our mobile phones, that will play a melody / ringtone. what could that be?
June 19th, 2010 - 12:17 pm
@Kelly
I actually find that most people especially those I work with that just rub me the wrong way but I never thought for one moment that it could be a person that I email or chat with on the computer. Now you have me thinking I guess I the old saying don’t judge a book by it’s cover fits perfectly here.
J
June 19th, 2010 - 5:43 pm
@ J
I do tend to read into/analyze many situations just to stay a step ahead in the game of life and bratting. LOL!
But my negative spanker connections were similar in the aspect the women required complete discretion and didn’t give me their real names yet expected me to practically dive across their laps immediately. I get they may have been complete no-nonsense disciplinarians requiring total submissives, which I am NOT so moving on for all was the best option. But my imagination has made me wonder over the years about co-workers and bosses being anonymously part of our spanko world. In some cases that could be a dream come true…others a never ending nightmare!
June 19th, 2010 - 7:35 pm
Speaking of bosses, innocently bring up the movie Secretary with your friends in conversation on a playful night. You may be surprised how many women will confess to wanting to be spanked… at least by James Spader.
June 19th, 2010 - 9:15 pm
completely unrelated, but i have been thinking of pixies venues today the whole day. anyone else in my boat?
June 19th, 2010 - 9:19 pm
as for workplaces, i know of a friend in the czech republic whose female boss belts culprits of major mess ups, or gets them fired. although he does like spankings, and is a switch, he told me, he will get fired next time rather than go through the humiliation and spankings he had to endure the last time. obviously he had to kneel maked in her office the whole day, and got the belt some 100 times, full force on thighs and ass… could hardly walk afterwards.
so careful what you wish for, master mind kelly
June 19th, 2010 - 9:42 pm
@Redchief and @tom;
I just looked…no spanking detector app for the iphone
Good way to break the ice though….”say my spanking detector indicates you know what “otk” and “cornertime” are….can I buy you a drink? Great for all the single readers out there, (I’m not one).
Hope you’re doing well Pixie!
June 19th, 2010 - 10:53 pm
@ Kelly
I would have to say it would be more like a nightmare then like a dream come true in my case. But I guess that each person is different. I know for sure that there are at least 10 people I would not like to imagine or dream in our spanko world, but on the contrary there are probebly about 5 people I would not mind spanking or get to see get spanked.
Take Care
J
June 19th, 2010 - 11:35 pm
@Rob. i love your idea! fumbling your i-phone, talking to the spank-dream-come-true-to-be: “my spanking detector tells me you are a dedicated spankee/spanker … if the look at you funny and not actually turned on. Jam the phone in your pocket and cuss: “damn technology, promises to work and never does. damn applications, sorry for the inconvenience”
June 19th, 2010 - 11:41 pm
back on topic. of course there is the hanky code, but it never made it quiet into the hetero community and is more a gay thing
well for reference and in the interest of science …
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hanky_code
so look out for fuchsia left (wants to spank) right (wants to get spanked)
or black if you like it more rough
June 20th, 2010 - 12:41 am
Yeah it’s me, aka “dommie” … go figure, I go both ways, ha! So thanks Tommie for the great link on the spanky code! I saw that the spanky-hanky is fucshia. Lucky for us spankos Amazon is coming thru again:
http://www.amazon.com/Solid-FUSCHIA-NeckTie-Handkerchief-Matching/dp/B001OMOF1S
Of course i wanna wear two, one left and one right-rear pocket.
Pixie, gotta hand it to you, you have picked the topic of the year here, girl! I mean Obama is helping people out in the military with their “don’t ask don’t tell”problem, and here we are an underappreciated scene just yearning to go public! You seem to be our most prominent rep! Want to share your own secrets sometime? Like how the world’s MOST spankable bottom integrated a scene presence into a marriage with what might have started as a vanilla relationship? Come ON girl you must have some tips for us? My own little game involves books. Like leaving a copy of Rachel Kramer Bussel’s “Bottom’s Up” on my desk at work. (Also at Amazon along with MANY spanko titles, he he!) It starts conversations! “Where did you get that?” asked one guy. “Oh someone left it here … was it you?” (Good bratting tactics here – lying, and confronting) Any literate vanilla will blanch after one glance down the table of contents, but as many of us have observed, a closet spanko turns red doing the same …. gotcha! What are U doing after work tonight? (Be sure to leave your wooden hairbrush nearby on the desk, just in case, ha ha!) Wanna be the last ones to leave tonite???
So yeah, Misty May took a lot of fanny smacks on public TV from Kerry, right there all summer season long on NBC digital broadcast 11.3 in California, and do u think it stopped at the Olympics??? Nooooooo way! Any dedicated Olympics fan also had a chance to ask their partner “Did U see Kerry spank Misty for that last spike?” This is not a couple of uniform-clad football guys congratulating each other on a touchdown?! This is girl-girl hand on bare butt action!!” It’s pretty clear right off if your TV viewing partner (or barstool neighbor) is “into it” at all … look for a little squirm in the seat at the thought of it happening to them … ooh that might feel good! Of course it does lead us to dream of a PunishedBrats scene with a couple of winning volleyball players taking the opposing team OTK in the locker room for a victory spanking … but that might be getting off-topic.
Pixie I am SURE u r getting enuf material here for a BOOK, girl! And we will ALL buy it, right team? Gimme five! No, lower, please. Yeah, right there!
June 20th, 2010 - 6:43 am
@TomTheDom. Your getting us WAY off topic but the link was pretty interesting. The problem with the codes is they are very area/location specific. It seems that the “colors” might only work on your block or immediate neighborhood ..
Maybe someone should put out a pocket guide with photos of all the hankies and then when you spot someone with a hanky you could pull out your guide and stop the person, and then say “Oh, you’re into ….”. They would probably say something like “NOOOO, I just have a cold”. LOL
If I were to put a fushia hankie in my left SHIRT pocket, could that mean I just want to slap someone? My favorite is the GREY FLANNEL, suit and tie fetish … but I figure that just means the guy is too lazy to take off his damm suit. LOL (OH, we can have fun with this!!)
And .. can you mix colors? Say a predominant FUCHIA with a TAN border which of course means I want to be spanked (or spank) someone while smoking a cigar (or having them smoke a cigar)
And what if I’m color blind? ROFLOL Or even worse … THEY are color blind but looking for a friend!!
If I were alone in the world (No friends, No family, No wonderful sweet loving husband), and I’m thankful I’m NOT … I would just have “Spankee” tattooed on my forehead … It would be so much simpler.
Okay, I’m having too much fun but, thanks for the web site T the D!!
June 20th, 2010 - 7:39 am
Tom,
You TRULY are one of the most kindest helpful people I’ve been in contact with. Wouldn’t it be the right and proper thing for you to offer to take ahhemm…dictation from Queen Brat so she won’t have to sit and type responses for this post? My guess is Queen V did NOT go easy on her at all.
Also. your true workplace stories…outrageously funny. Arthritic woman chasing down a thief?
June 20th, 2010 - 10:05 am
@Kelly aka master mind, wouldnt it be proper to take dictation from a queen brat pixie aka a self declared bottom, while being a dom? actually it would for so many reasons. for one as queen brat pixie also is topping and also because if she tops from the bottom, her bottom will need toppings, and who would be more suitable to deliver than the ever present dictainee. (dont say out loud, it contains foul language) anyway, shower time once more – but before that – did you notice that PB spelled backwards is Brat Pixie’s initials, and that BP as in brat pixie is much a nicer shortcut than brit. petrol?
i fear you are right that queen V will not have gone all to easy on princess brat on saturday, i swear i heard the spanks across the pond. truely i have
and regardless for my compassion for poor pixie, and her poor cherry red tan on her bum, i am anticipating to see it all, what a perverrt am I?
@domsubswitch aka dommie. LOW FIVE
yes we need a book by pixieliscious. with many pictures of course, and a dvd version with animated clips as well 
i am so for an easy read
@ linde. me derailing the blog? moi? neva eva
I am asking myself however in our technology times, whether colour schemes of the hanky code are not translatable to mobile phones. A funny fact is, that my latest sony-ericson phone is fuchsia/pink. it could also be used on other devices like mp3 players, i-pods even netbooks. next time you see a hottie with a pink netbook, laying on the lawn chatting with her friends, just smack her deliscious buttocks, and if she protests insist she advertized for it with her lap top colour – maybe she wont protest however 
may be a hnd crafted t-shirt could solve the problem with a vanilla text,, innocent and all, just the right letters highlighted
beSt Pub At New yorK: ‘MEdusa’
by the by , i love ‘T the D’
June 20th, 2010 - 12:06 pm
@T the D
Pardon me for the insinuation of derailment .. sometimes I myself forget what the topic is. I am glad you liked the T the D. After posting I had second thoughts about refering to you in that maner. My hubby is .. alas, detained out of state so I must be careful that my comments are not misconstued as flirtatious or my hindquarters will be greviously harmed upon his return. I am just a lonely, sadly unspanked wife with much too much time on her hands.
Actually, I do have a pink, sorta fuchsia cell phone but I never thought of any subliminal messages I might be sending by which pocket I place it in. I wonder if it matters which HAND you carry or hold it in? LOL
These things require further research and does it mean the same in different countries? I think not … neverless, it IS something to ponder!!
June 20th, 2010 - 12:44 pm
@ linde, even upon risking you get your hide tanned (is that the intention behind the song raw-hide?) i cannot pass the opportunity to further our scientific exploration and discourse about subliminal spanko messaging through colours.
as i understand my gay friends, the hanky code was invented in one community but spread world wide and is more or less the same everywhere, therefore i believe it is safe to assume that it is a world sign language. like esperanto just more subliminal and more people use it.
contrary to esoteric believes, the right hand/side indicates receiving wish and the left stands for giving. there is no logic behind it i can understand, but thats the code. so i have to make myself hold the phone in my left hand, which i do most of the time, and when i see queen V or another spanker of her calibre be bewaring to use my right hand… or else be in the rawhide place myself – just like you when hubby returns.
i would also like to use the opportinity to sggest that RAWHIDE ringtone becomes the theme for any spanko-radar applications on the i-phone
atb, t the d (all the best, tom the dom)
June 20th, 2010 - 12:47 pm
A good litmus test that I’ve found is getting their opinion on the film “Secretary”. I’ve yet to find someone who enjoyed that film yet that doesn’t enjoy a little kink.
June 20th, 2010 - 12:51 pm
PIXIELIESCIOUS!!!!!!
wow. just saw the preview pics. what a excellent defiant look you have on your face during corner time, and thanks for the funny knowck-out and spank implication to V. very hot albeit sureal. cant wait to see you in top form, the girl OTK of yours sure doesnt look amused. THANK YOU!!!!!! (you booked me another trip to the shower)
June 20th, 2010 - 1:06 pm
Pixie great to see you happy again with p.b. friends and you spanking a new cute little brat look forward to that lovey ,a lot of discussion on your new topic ,Kelly amusing comments as usual lovey ,love an spanks from tim xxxxxx
June 20th, 2010 - 2:42 pm
Pixie,
I sit comfortably in awe of your handiwork evidenced in the new preview. You colored the newest brat’s bottom varying shades of red, pink and purple! WOW! And I have been secretly considering myuself a spanking age snob. That NO girl much younger than ME could REALLLY give a good hard spanking. I sit corrected.
Kudos to you Queen Brat/Formidable Top
June 20th, 2010 - 2:47 pm
If I were in the scene with Veronica, I’d have been just as tempted to pull her panties down and off as to spank her! A game of “Keep Away” would be highly amusing! By the time she’d get finished chasing after you and any other co-consirators she’d simply be too exhausted to pull anyone across her lap for a well deserved butt blasting!!
June 20th, 2010 - 3:02 pm
Someone offered me a birthday spanking years ago (before I accepted my spanko self). I sent him the nastiest look. Then, I heard him muttering under his breath softly but I picked up every word…”You don’t want a spanking?” “I want a spanking.” Was he a spanko? IDK…but it certainly started me thinking of him spanking me!
June 20th, 2010 - 3:04 pm
@ kelly. master mind at work again. however small flaw to you plan. yes ms V would be exhausted. so she would just lock the door, have a sip of vodka and calm down. one the running parties have sttled she would put each spankee in one corner. and than take em on 1 by 1
June 20th, 2010 - 3:53 pm
Tom,
YOU are a comedic genious for SURE! Are you strictly Top or a switch? Because YOU are a BRRRRATTT!
June 20th, 2010 - 4:01 pm
@ kelly, i am strictly ME.
i am non submissive, but from my posts you should have figured out, i enjoy both sides of the story, when the right/fitting setting is given – and mutual trust is in place. i had very bad experiences in the past, so now i am mainly the top, but i know to be a brat and ask for it, and teehee, it happened that i got it as needed too 
June 20th, 2010 - 4:17 pm
@ kelly. dont tell anyone – it is a huge secret – but i also put on a school*girls* uniform once, before i got it
but shoosh. no-one must know.
i am certain no-body will know ever, because, you wont tell and it is strictly between the 2 of we …
(shower time)
June 20th, 2010 - 7:08 pm
Pixie I hope that I am not being to inappropriate when I say that you are an incredibly sexy young lady. Going through some of your pictures it seems that you just got sexier in each picture. You have got to be one of the most Gorgeous girls on Punished brats.
Jay
June 20th, 2010 - 7:17 pm
You seem to be getting the top part down o.k. Nobody would pick you for a top, that’s for sure.
June 21st, 2010 - 2:01 am
Hi Pixie
I am very happy to see you as happy as it pleases.
Tim
thank you for your comments, I am very well and happy to be with you, you bring a lot of things.
Tom
I take a letter, I’ll test the headscarf in France fucshia color and give you the results. left for me
I have a question for everyone, do you believe that some trades were more likely to talk or develop spanking. your comments are great, thank you
my respects to all
Joel
June 21st, 2010 - 6:02 am
pixie another week of fun at p.B. with all my friends here ,pixie the vid of airport spanks part 3 seems to be the same as part one ,Joel glad you are commenting again ,kelly very funny comments lovey ,hope you are all enjoying the grand weather ,Pixie love and spanks from tim xxxxxx
June 21st, 2010 - 1:14 pm
Pixie the vid is now working ,love and spanks ,tim xxxxxx
June 21st, 2010 - 4:24 pm
Tom,
désolé s’est a droite le foulard, pas a gauche.
for everyone
Sorry was a straight scarf for me sorry I confused my right and my left. My apologies to all for this error
.my respects to all
Joel
June 21st, 2010 - 5:46 pm
“Secretary” is an interesting choice for a litmus test, but I sometimes wonder if it has made it harder to know who is really into it, and who kinda likes to joke about it. Or is a joke never really only a joke? I only say this because I have a platonic friend who has talked about her affection for the movie, loves to talk about her obsession with her own rear end, wears outfits that show it off, and even suggested, as we talked about a tiff I was having with another friend, that I should “put her over your knee and spank her” (although that was definitely a metaphoric suggestion!) Yet I have, on more than one occasion, joked about doling out a spanking to her, and she always responds in a cold way, calling it “creepy”. Mysteries. Crooked radars or is it difficult drawing lines in the post-feminist world? PS I have talked my way into dishing out quite a few real spankings to ladies in my life, it has always been this one friend who has flummoxed me.
June 21st, 2010 - 9:50 pm
Pixie,
I love this post, because I have always wished there were some universal sign to let us spankos know when we amongst each other. I’ve thought about several options: leaving a certain flower pot/decoration on your front porch? Wearing a necklace/shirt with an inconspicuous design? hmmm… I just referenced this post in my latest blog entry, about coming out of the spanko closet. Thanks for the inspiration!
Sophie
June 22nd, 2010 - 6:10 am
Pixie nice interest in tis topic ,Sophie i like your blog very much lovey ,hope we can chat ,love and spanks from tim xxxxxx
June 22nd, 2010 - 11:31 am
@sophie
i second tim, your blog is awesome too.
i love your sweater ‘only O tk’. if i were you i would wear it more often, however make up a cover story in case you are called out, and dont like to admit it being spanking related, assigning vanilla terms to OTK like http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/OTK
if people try taunting you – you can always insist you play it safe with encryption
June 22nd, 2010 - 12:43 pm
dani – I think that would do it!
Nikolai – very good observation about the panties. And I would so buy a part of panties that had your message on them.
Lorraine – Being feminine and feisty is fun no matter if you end up getting spanked for it or not. Always worth a go.
Amelia – How awesome!! And those cooking implements are amazingly effective, aren’t they.
Naomi – I am going to keep and eye out for you and your husband then!
ddon – thanks. yes, I think a lot of people enjoy at least a playful swat here or there. Even if they are otherwise vanilla.
Tigerbutt – Wow! Those are amazing experiences. Thanks for sharing them. I find myself squirming in reading your accounts.
Funbun – Body language is so key. A subtle act or expression can say so much more than words sometimes.
Linde – If I were dancing, I would totally favor those that showed more of an interest in slapping my bottom.
It would make for a fun night!
TomTheDom – I knew I loved flea markets for a reason!!!!
CurtisG – I’m so glad that you found so much success. That’s fantastic.
Kelly – Corporate Cubicle Hell? I swear I’ve worked there too …
Biker – Now that is a darn good clue.
Crystal – Really?? Wow.
KaraJ – I would have totally melted too.
tim – Thanks! I always love it when a good discussion gets rolling.
Karl – when asked by someone that I’m not sure is a totaly spanko themselves, I’ll playfully respond that I enjoy a little swat or two … who doesn’t? Then I wait to see what their reaction or follow up questions might be before going into more detail.
John – So glad to have you join in. I don’t think you’d offend anyone with your opinion. It’s totally understandable to want to keep some things completely private.
Joel – no need to apologize and feel free to continue to contribute. Yes, I know what happened on the previous post, but I enjoy hearing from everyone.
justme – it’s nice that we can kind of test the waters using phrases that have a hint of spanking interest but that can still pass innocently in front of total vanillas.
Redchief – that would make it so much easier
Jason – Wow!!!! Talk about an exciting turn of event.
dommie – I am so going to be checking the tv guid for beach volleyball games now.
SP Buddy – That might do it too!
2Good – I bet he was a spanko. That sure sounds like it anyway.
Jay – Thank you!!
Brian CA – Yup yup. I am finding that I am quickly getting comfortable in the topping role. And the poor girls are finding out that I tend to give spankings just like I prefer to receive them. Ouch!
Sophie – Yes indeed! We need a subtle symbol. You’ve got me thinking now … and perhaps we will revisit this in an upcoming post.
June 25th, 2010 - 10:07 am
i often wonder every female i see if she into spanbking or a spanko i even wonder every couple i see if they do spanking and if one spanks the other or not.i even think to myself maybe so and so got spanked before my other or has gotten spanked in past.
i am sometime too shy to even bring it up to people but wish there was easier way to tell if they into spanking or a spanko. some female i had seen few time over and over i wonder and been wanting to ask them if they into spanking or would want to spank me. i usally try think with my birthday comming up it be good time to ask for a birthday spanking (which by way birthday is comming up) july 6th maybe if i get female to give me birthday spanking i may find out if she is a spanko and into spanking. has keep in mind some people who do spank you either for fun like birthday spanking or swatt your butt may not really be into spanking some may just do it cause u ask
June 25th, 2010 - 12:39 pm
Hi Pixie!!
In Spain, you can find this kind of t-shirt.
http://www.calicoelectronico.com/upload//archivos_usuarios/200809/986-72a958f507004a0cd1a3f564515034c2_original.jpg
I think the closest translation would be: Hit me, hit me, hit me in the bum!
“Calico Electronico” is a comic cartoon for adults and in one chapter refers to that he likes the spanking
Kisses and big hug!!
June 26th, 2010 - 9:41 pm
Hi Pixie!!
In Spain, you can find this kind of t-shirt.
http://www.calicoelectronico.com/upload//archivos_usuarios/200809/986-72a958f507004a0cd1a3f564515034c2_original.jpg
I think the closest translation would be: Hit me, hit me, hit me in the bum!
“Calico Electronico” is a comic cartoon for adults and in one chapter refers to that he likes the spanking
Kisses and big hug!!
July 8th, 2010 - 5:04 pm
At a co-worker’s house not too long ago I saw one of the Beauty books laying out. I didn’t comment, but it seemed like a pretty good way to let people know your interests. Depending on the book, only someone familiar with it would know what it was really about.
I’m afraid I come off as the most vanilla kinky girl ever
I just keep my personal preferences pretty far from the surface in vanilla settings unless I know the people very well.