I’m still getting settled in and trying to catch up so if you’ve written to me and haven’t heard back yet, don’t worry. I’m still home and will reply as soon as I can. Let me take this opportunity to say thank you to everyone for your continued positive thoughts and support!
While I was in the hospital last week, my scene as a spanker on Punished Brats in Sister’s Authority premiered. I nervously anticipated any feedback on the scene and wondered how it would go over with viewers. I’d already gotten a little taste in reading some comments on Spanking Tube and in emails in reaction to the DVD preview clips. Not surprisingly some wanted to see more of me as a spanker and others said to stick to being a bottom. LOL! Well, I plan to do a bit of both (though more bottoming than topping for now).
As with nearly everything in the world, there will always be directly opposing preferences and points of view, but since this was a fairly new role for me, I wondered if I was doing it “right”. Being a worry wart, I was pretty self-concious during the filming. Thankfully I had a good comfort level in working with Lily Anna both in that we are friends and that I knew she could take a solid spanking. I smacked firmly, but how was the pace? Should I be as unchanging as a metronome? Randomly switch the rhythm? Pick up speed and intensity over time like a runaway train? What about the pattern? Left, right, left, right? Vary it a little? Ditch the pattern all together and focus solely on making sure both lovely cheeks were a matching shade of red? And did I just give her bottom a mocking rub??? Stop that.
If I was giving Lily Anna the spanking in private (because she no doubt deserves it anyway) and not on camera in a scene, I probably would not have worried about so many details. But what may otherwise be a natural method may not be so interesting to the viewer.
So help me out. Weigh in with your opinion and share in fussing over details. When watching a scene do you like an even pace and back and forth pattern? Is variety welcome or distracting? Is there a really right or wrong way?
May 18th, 2010 - 10:41 pm
So very many questions! I think you did fine, pixie, and I don’t think you should worry so much about your “performance,” since you seem to take to spanking like a duck takes to water, even if the traditional roles were reversed this time. I do understand that the topping experience is new for you and that you’re looking for feedback, but I think there’s no rule book governing the pace (“Should I be as unchanging as a metronome?”), the speed or intensity, the pattern (“Left, right, left, right?”). You’re a spanko through and through, and if you want to investigate the top end of things, as you did with Lily Anna, investigate to your heart’s content. We’ll all enjoy it, I’m sure. I, for one, think you did fine (though I prefer you on the receiving end, but that’s just me). Anyway, welcome home!
May 18th, 2010 - 10:46 pm
Pixie,
I think that you are worring too much. Personally I enjoyed the scene a lot. As far as do I think you need to change things up ABSOLUTLEY not you did a great job. People will like anything you do beacuse it is you. Stop worrying!
May 18th, 2010 - 10:48 pm
I thought you did a great job! You kept a straight face and jumped right in. You didn’t seem nervous or hold back at all and it seemed so natural. Again, great job!
May 19th, 2010 - 1:38 am
punkin,
trust your instincts and worry about nothing.
metronome, metronome….boring…boring! i had the great pleasure and honor of sitting with piano red and roosevelt sykes. some of our conversations were sad [rosy's childhood, red's loosing his "foist session" to heat in the trunk of a car going from atlanta to nyc] but when music came up they just hit the keyboard and metronome never came up. sometimes you have to not think, just do. i’ve got faith in you.
just relax. i know that’s hard for you but do it for all of us who luv you.
ohhhhhhh…take 1 min. out and tell me what in heaven’s name that pupa like thing is on the tarmac[?] in your vanilla work?????
butterflies are free,
ddon
May 19th, 2010 - 2:36 am
I think you did great! Lily Anna looked a bit surprised that you could dish it out so well, but that made it even more fun. May you surprise many more naughty girls! It’s fun watching cute girls spank each other even if they are not particularly “toppish” about it, at least for me, but again having said that I believe you did the job most effectively. I really enjoyed the scene.
May 19th, 2010 - 5:51 am
pixieliscious,
to say it with chandler from friends: you spanking was perfection. joking aside, there is no ONE correct technique, pace, speed, pattern what-so.ever. if there was such a thing, every spanker would go for that and life would be soooooooo boring. however i feel there is something, that is essential to any form of spanking. it is whether the participants are in it with their heart and do it naturally. if you have a spanker, who is like a machine – cold, stern, rhythmic etc, yet it is their character, their way to dish it out, than it is a turn on, even if you arent very fond of it for yourself. because it is natural. if however they are acting like a machine, but would much rather do it differently, you can feel it. not only as bottom (and in your bottom), but also as a viewer.
if i am spanking someone, i might vary techniques as it feels right to me, but i always stick to me. just explore your ways on and off camera, and do what you feel bestest with IN THAT MOMENT
you are doing just fine.
all the best
tom
May 19th, 2010 - 6:55 am
Pixie very much enjoyed your spanks giving and taking with lily Anna great fun hpoe you do many more spankings on the cute girls botties ,yes i think you spanked very well and Lily Anna did too lol ,loved your goody goody expression while spanking her ,2 little sisters together charming theme ,great to have you blogging to us again sweetie ,love an spanks from tim xxxxxx
May 19th, 2010 - 6:57 am
Sweet Pixie,
You did great! Especially for your first time. I think the only wrong way to do a spanking, and this is just my opinion, is out of anger. I also don’t think spankings should be evenly paced or pre-planned. What I mean is that left, right, left, right is great for a “warm up” but after that there needs to be some surprises thrown in, wherein the spankee has no idea what is coming next. Kudos to both of you for a scene well done. Hugs, Sassy
May 19th, 2010 - 8:48 am
One of the crucial things in any spanking scene for me is to know that the top is enjoying the struggles, facial expressions, etc. of the bottom.
You do this nicely in the picture. I picture the authority figure who is only there to do the job of disciplining me. And yet, a great thrill begins to run through him as he realizes my helplessness.
I don’t think the pace of the spanking really matters. It’s the expression of enjoyment on the top’s face that pushes my little subby button.
May 19th, 2010 - 8:49 am
Pixie.
In all actuality we all prefer to see you on the recieving end in a video but, in a time when your health was less than desired it was a relief to see you “enjoying” a fun scenario. I’m sure we probably won’t hear of you giving up the role you (and so many of US) enjoy so much but you are just so good at your … er, craft?
You did a fantastic job by the way, and it is nice to know that when there are just you and a friend, you are willing to lend a hand (pun intended) and do what you can … and isn’t that what true friendship is all about?
Huggs,
Lindy
May 19th, 2010 - 3:54 pm
Pixie, you are worrying too much about what others think. Just go with the moment and do what comes natural. Your experience as a bottom should help you guide your rythems and technique.
Find your own style and just remember every time is a new experience.
May 19th, 2010 - 5:16 pm
It is a good scence. I’d love to see you do the same
thing to a older woman. So hot. No shame in rubbing
the bottom alittle. Draw the punishment out. Make it last. Vary the strokes. An older woman, think about it.
May 19th, 2010 - 6:05 pm
Pixie, I thought you did a good job. It looked like you knew what you were doing. I’ve seen scenes before where they get a natural spankee to play a spanker, and it falls totally flat. You spanked with authority, and I really liked the natural-sounding and sometimes amusing dialog. There’s a good chemistry between you and Lily Anna.
What I like to see is no-nonsense spanking without a lot of pauses. No rubbing or weak swats. I hate when the spanker has a poor aim or doesn’t know where a spanking should be targeted. The pace and pattern can vary or not, but should focus on making both cheeks equally and symmetrically red. You didn’t disappoint on any aspect. While I prefer to see you as the spankee, I certainly enjoy you as a top. Mainly, if it looks like you’re into the scene, it’ll be good.
May 19th, 2010 - 6:48 pm
I haven’t seen the video yet. But I know I’ll love it because your chemistry together is present regardless of who’s butt gets blasted. Since you’re a perfectionist you could spank the way YOU most prefer. For every con opinion presented to you regarding your newborn switch experimenting, no doubt the majority of your fans will support your choices with big smiles and roars of laughter.
May 19th, 2010 - 8:14 pm
I did watch and I think hands down you were AWESOME! The complete ideal topping was evident. The firm spanks, the humorous comments, and the facial expressions were mucho entertaining. I about died laughing when Lily Anna called you a pervert and then you implied you weren’t the 1st person to see her underwear.
May 19th, 2010 - 8:16 pm
Rosaleen Young called me a “spanking purist” and what I saw when you spanked Lily Anna was PURE spanking. Loved it..!!
As many others said already: Do it just the way YOU feel best and it will come out as a nice performance. Try to ignore the camera and just spank away in the way you would have done in private.
I loved the movie. It was well played, not overly hard, but firm enough to make it a good spanking and redden the ample (great) buttocks of Lily Anna.
I DO hope to see more of you spanking other lovelies in my preferred way. OTK, with the hand, firm and in that typical left, right, left, right, pattern. Starting straight away on the bare bottom of course. Preferably seated on a stool or a straight backed chair.
And… Now that wheather starts permitting… give us some scenes in the forests, at the lakes or where-ever as long as it is outdoors..
When technically difficult, please give us just some poses.. You with one of the great lovelies of PB over your knee, her bottom bare…
I’m soooooooooo happy you’re back…
((((Hugs)))) Funbun
May 19th, 2010 - 8:22 pm
Great scene. I liked all of the things that the previous posters mentioned. Keep up the good work. I think strongly that part of the reason you have a great product is because you try really hard to pay attention to the details.
May 19th, 2010 - 11:40 pm
YOU DID A GREAT JOB. THE MAIN THING WAS YOU LEFT HER WITH A BRIGHT RED BOTTOM. YOU SPANK VERY WELL, COVERING THE ENTIRE BUTT. GREAT JOB.
May 20th, 2010 - 12:47 am
I enjoyed you as a spanker. But more important, I’m glad that you’re feeling better.
Take care of yourself. Lots of spanking left for you, top and bottom.
May 20th, 2010 - 3:16 am
You did well. In my opinion, considering the role you were playing, you didn’t seem to be enjoying it as much as maybe you should have been. Might have been because you were nervous.
May 20th, 2010 - 3:16 am
Pixie, you gave Lily Anna a sound spanking which I know hurt her naughty bottom. I personally think that to vary both the pace and the pattern is best both for the spanker and the spankee…..best for the spanker because it adds variety to the spanking and best for the spankee because she never knows exactly where the next spank is going to land and therefore can be taken by surprise and then I think that the spank is more effective if it lands on a spot where she is not expecting it to land!
As I think I’ve mentioned to you before when I spank my two ladies quite a lot of the smacks land across their cracks so that my hand makes contact with both cheeks at the same time. I do hope that you will do the same when you are the spanker and make sure that at least some of your spanks are applied across the other lady’s crack?
So very good to have you back Pixie.
Aristotle
May 20th, 2010 - 4:13 am
Pixie,
I only got to see the complimentary parts that were posted in various venues but from what I saw, everything was perfect. You had a good balance of humor and great facial expressions… and you did what felt natural to you which made it special. I have indicated in other posts that so many videos seem to follow too many of the same patterns… probably because people are trying so hard to match the perceived “right way” instead of injecting some individualism. Personally, I hope to see you doing more topping!
Kim
May 20th, 2010 - 8:05 am
I much prefer variation in both pacing and pattern. For speed, my “ideal” spanking starts off slowly, then picks up speed (maybe gradually, maybe suddenly). Near the end, it is at its fastest and hardest; then it slows and lightens up again for the last few seconds. A longer spanking might speed up and slow down several times before it’s over. As for pattern (left, right, center, etc.), if it’s going to be used at all, it should be only at the beginning: Before long, it should become random and unpredictable to the bottom. Just my preferences — on both sides of the exchange.
Pixie, don’t let anyone tell you to “stick to” one thing or avoid exploring something new. I look forward to enjoyIng your continuing development as a part-time top, knowing that bottoming will most likely always be your favorite and more frequent role.
May 20th, 2010 - 12:08 pm
You wouldn’t be Super (getting back to normal) Pixie if you didn’t start worrying.
No need. The scene was perfect. Loved it!! Just do what comes naturally. You have lots of experience as a spankee so it translates well when you are the one dishing it out. Verbally, facially and ummm spanking-ally you were spot on. I’d worry if you didn’t spank hard enough and it seems this was certainly NOT the case.
Rubbing is fine since you said something to the effect that it was done out of love…sisterly love that is! The banter was great. I loved when Lily Anna giggled as she poked fun at her “sister” if she ever decided to actually attend a party. LOL You two were great!!!
May 21st, 2010 - 12:33 am
I’ve only seen the preview, but it looked pretty good to me. It looked like you were enjoying yourself.
Alternating left/right is great. You can start out with one of each, sometimes do 2 or 3 to change up. You can also do lower right, upper right, lower left, upper left too as long as you don’t go too high or low.
Think about what’s been done to you and what feels best (or worst). Some of the best tops are switches or people who have been bottoms at one time. They understand both sides.
I’m guessing you’ll always be primarily a bottom, but you might enjoy some switching.
May 21st, 2010 - 12:57 am
I haven’t seen the whole thing, but I’d echo what others have said. Don’t over-analyze. Just give the lovely bottom on your lap a thorough, cheek-reddening spanking and the rest will take care of itself. If it looks authentic, it will be appealing.
I missed your 5/17 “back home” post, so let me belatedly add to the others thoughts of welcome and general best wishes. And also to reiterate while we’ve missed your presence and I did write you and email that I would love to get a response to……..IT CAN WAIT. Take time as you need it to recover and improve!
Mark
May 21st, 2010 - 4:38 am
Pixieliscious,
i so agree with what mark said. about the spankings, as
about the replies to mail. patience is a virtue.
as is being a naturally gifted spankee and spanker as you are.
anything you do is a treat for the viewers. anything but you being hospitalized. therefore please, put your health and recovery first. drink lots of fluids. skip anything that has artificial sweeteners in them. if you want sweet, rather go or sugar, honey or if calories are a concern take stevia.
nutrasweet, saccharine and co. are evil. plain and simple. they will ruin your health in short or long, trust me i know.
plus of course sugar and honey fit you much better – they are so like you
all the best
tom
May 21st, 2010 - 9:27 am
punkin,
listen to tom!!!!!
best,
ddon
May 21st, 2010 - 9:27 am
I would like to see you spank a little bit harder. Also please do not stop playing the bottom role
May 21st, 2010 - 12:09 pm
I don’t want to see you as a top, Amber. I enjoy seeing you spanked. I do not enjoy seeing you spanking anyone.
May 21st, 2010 - 12:47 pm
suddenly i feel the urge to see you spank Denis F. oliver
and thanks ddon
May 21st, 2010 - 5:54 pm
Hi Pixie
You did a good job of getting Lily Anna’s butt to glow red.
And I have to agree with TomTheDom he is right in both
of his comments.
Take Care
Love AK
May 21st, 2010 - 7:42 pm
Others may disagree with me but a 1000% turn off for myself as both a viewer and recipient is the slipper spanking. This is my only plea for you to NOT use as an implement. Ever. I get grossed out watching the videos featuring this because I can’t get past the dirty soles making contact with precious bare behinds. Also as a self claiming brat with an “indestructable” butt, I can’t imagine it would hurt anyway.
May 22nd, 2010 - 6:45 am
pixie great to see the girls back at P.b.shall look forward to the vids later on,pixie keep getting well fully ,kelly slipper spanks do hurt use to see it at school in use on boy pupils ,i never received i was good lol .but all the teachers had them ,love and spanks Pixie from tim xxxxxx
May 22nd, 2010 - 8:47 pm
you did great pixie, i enjoyed watching it, in fact i continue to watch it. Who knew you could dish it out as well as you take it. Glad to have you back, now get fully better.
Love Jasu
May 23rd, 2010 - 1:16 pm
totally vanilla and unrelated but i have to say it
pixielicious,
thank you very much for changing your blog entry picture. i was about to e-mail you, that however sweet the dare-ya drops picture is, it sends the wrong message regarding your health. i could elaborate but i dont want everybody to know what a whacko i am
anyway, your new picture by the roses rocks and is just perfect. love it too bits and roses.
ooh and i know my comment to denis oliver was downright mean.
well still better than sending you green beans in a can i guess
May 23rd, 2010 - 3:55 pm
punkin,
if tom is a wacko then i enlist in the “WOTW” [wacko's of the world].
what a great idea fof a web site. and from our pov a punny one.
best,
ddon
May 23rd, 2010 - 7:21 pm
Biker – Well hopefully I can continue being on both ends … just not at the same time.
April – Worry? Who me? LOL. While I of course worry a bit about everything, these are just things I think about just as I tend to disect and analyze everything about spanking. It’s great when lots of folks join in with their views.
T – Thank you! I enjoyed myself and it was hard to keep that straight face at times.
ddon – not sure what kind of crawly critter is in that vanilla photo you’re referring to. It was a big ol’ green thing that was crossing the road and I snapped it’s picture.
Lorraine – Awesome! I will give it my all should I get the opportunity to have another naughty brat over my knee.
Tom – excellent points. No matter what it is we do, spanking related or not, it will show if there is no heart in it.
tim – yes, I very much enjoyed playing that role of goody-2-shoes.
Sassy – thank you. I agree with you about not spanking out of anger. Safety has to come first and anger tends to cloud judgement.
dani – I hadn’t thought about it that way, but I totally relate to you. I hate when I can’t get a read on the top or worse when I feel they aren’t getting anything from the scenario.
Lindy – Yup, that’s the very definition of true friendship. I sure hope Lily Anna sees it that way too. heheheheh.
Poppa – I will definitely always stay true to my own style, but I will probably always like to pick the brains of others too.
Randy – I’ll think about it.
dana – Awwwww!! Thank you. Great to know you enjoy me in either role.
Kelly – LOL. We did have a lot of fun with our dialogue.
Funbun – So glad you enjoyed it!
Mo – Thanks! My fussing is done with purpose.
Hairbrushman – Thank you. And Lily Anna was great in returning the favor by providing me with a nicely reddened bottom.
Dave – Thanks. I feel soooo much better.
Keith – Ahh! You mean I could have grinned through the whole scene?
I had to work really hard not to.
Aristotle – Sure thing. I’ll keep that in mind the next time I get to top.
Kim – You are probably right. Always need to put a personal twist on things.
Jeff – Thanks. The only way to know whether or not you like something is to truly give it a try. I look forward to continuing on in this personal spanking journey.
2Good – Sisterly love. Exactly. The taunting, teasing, bratting sort of sisterly love. Muahahaha.
Brian – Yes, I think I’ll always be a bottom at heart, but it is definitely thrilling to turn the tables once in a while. I’m itching to do it again.
Mark – Over analyzing is what I do best! Thank you for the warm welcome back. It’s so good to be home.
brion – I’ll happily spank a little harder. >:)
Denis – I’m very glad you enjoy seeing me get spanked so much. I can’t promise to never top again, but I am definitely intend to keep bottoming.
AK – And her bottom did a good job of making my hand glow. LOL.
Kelly – Looks like this could be an entirely separate post for debate/discussion … and so I think it may soon become one.
Jasu – Wow! I’m thrilled you like to watch and rewatch the scene. Promise I’m working on getting fully better just as fast as I can. There’s so much that I want and need to do!
Tom – Thanks! My garden is hitting a peak at the moment and I couldn’t help but take a picture next to my beloved roses. They are nearly as tall as me by now.
May 26th, 2010 - 3:41 am
Dear Pixie,
I think the last line of your post hits the nail on the head. There really is no “right” or “wrong” way (well, spending the entire spanking hitting the same cheek in exactly the same spot is probably “wrong”, but other than that….).
Your best bet is to do what feels natural. You’ve been on the receiving end a lot….use thoe memories as a guide if necessary.
Thinking about how I spank, I usually start off slow and soft (if not soft, at least not that hard), and then build up the pace and the intensity…..and then take it back down a notch or two, and then build it back up again. The majority of the time I alternate “left, right, left, right”, but I will change that up from time to time, such as 1 swat to the right side, 1 to the left; two swats to the right side, two to the left; then 3, etc., etc.
The variety helps keep the spankee involved on a mental as well as a physical level–and anyone watching probably appreciates the break in routine, as well.
The last spanks–however many of them there may be–are always the hardest. It helps get the message across (if there is a message or lesson to impart) and guarantees the spankee won’t forget it any too soon.
That’s roughly a quick picture of how I do it….and now if you and I ever meet, you know what to expect!
Dr. Ken
June 5th, 2010 - 5:05 am
Hi Pixie
you are beautiful both, you are very serious, to the lily anna be very surprised, a scene very real and true you was very well played Pixie
Congratulations
my respects
joel