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		<title>By: Pixie</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2010 19:45:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Richard - You&#039;re darn right that would be impossible!  Ugh!  My in-laws have a small bench in their family room though that has &quot;Time Out&quot; carved into the back of it.  Oh how I&#039;d love to nab that thing ... even though I&#039;d never actually want to have to use it myself.

Lee - Yes, a hug can sometimes be a very nice and touching way to signal that a spanking is over and all is forgiven.  A spanking and a spanking ... wow!  That would really be an intense punishment by the very fact that you&#039;d have to wait with with an already sore bottom about to get sorer.  Eeep.

karaJ - white chocolate would sure taste a lot better.  We don&#039;t do soaping scenes too often, but just like the spanking, we&#039;d always want to use the real stuff so that the reactions are authentic.  I will keep the milk part in mind though as that would be good to have on hand to offer to the poor girl afterwards!

Todd - too funny that you developed an affinity for hot sauce!  I can just imagine saying &quot;no mom, not the hot sauce ... hehehehe.&quot;

Shoot!  I didn&#039;t mean to give tips to tops about checking the lines.  May I apologize in advance to any of the naughty girls that are punished by Todd in relation to this post!

Restricting priveleges is tough on the top too as you have to consistently monitor to make sure the restriction is being adhered to.  Way too much trouble.  So I think you should not limit computer time ... ever (I&#039;m trying to make up for my little assist above).  

Erica - ROFL!  I absolutely love your take on things and how clearly you state them.  I think all tops have been fairly warned.  But now when I look at sushi, I&#039;m going to be thinking of naughty things done with ginger.  :-S

dana - So much has to be considered and based on the two people playing and their mutual interests.  Chemistry too is also always key.  There are some people that I would willingly submit to and even get a charge out of receiving a mouth soaping or being instructed to write an essay.  Others, I would be turned off.  As for the ginger ... I&#039;m keeping my distance no matter what or whom!

Crystal - So true.  I never had to write lines growing up, but if our class got in trouble in school, we would sometimes have to repeatedly copy definitions from the dictionary.  Mostly the entry for &quot;quiet&quot;.  That sucked too.

Stef - Corner time in the middle of a spanking is like a little (anxiety filled) rest between rounds at a boxing match!

Tony - That is too funny!!!  I&#039;d have begged to skip the song, save your ears, and just spank me again.

tim - Seated corner time is cool but not something we do too often.  Perhaps we should incorporate it a little more.  But we usually use the corner time in the first place just to show off the red bottom.  Let&#039;s see what we can work out.

Linde - Deciding what is a little cross over and what is truly crossing the line is unique to every person, but I don&#039;t think you can ever go wrong as long as tried and true otk spanking is your basis!

Lorraine - Mmmm outfits.  You know how I LOVE them.

Funbun - We&#039;ve been doing quite a few &quot;witness&quot; scenes recently.  This last shoot, it worked out that the new model Lorraine and I kept playing bratty sisters, friends, or rival sorority members who got to witness one another&#039;s spankings.  We really got into it!

ddon - Apologizing to the wronged party would be intense.  Can only imagine the sheepish look of the guilty party having to say I&#039;m sorry with a glowing bottom.

No, not hoarding Angelina&#039;s content.  I post in a certain rotation to do my best to offer a good variety rather than the same couple of girls&#039; scenes in a big chunk.  As for Sarah, we need to film more of the bratty miss!

dani - wow.  That sounds like quite a good design for a &quot;little&quot;.

^Mike - My jaw dropped at the idea of sitting on a warm chair.  Yeowch!  That really would turn up the heat.

I&#039;m absolutely with you about not messing with one&#039;s food - neither denying one a meal nor force feeding someone until they are ill.  A glass of warm milk for a post-spanking tuck in sounds quite nice and nurturing though. 

Biker - Yeah, it can be pretty hypocritical, but if the spanker is human, he or she has probably lied, cheated in school, passed notes, called out sick when well, taken a puff of a cigarette, broken curfew, talked back, or shown up late to work/school at least once ... but spanking a naughty brat for those very reasons is still justified in my mind anyway.  I think mouth soaping is a popular cross over fetish as it was a common domestic childhood punishment that might have been given at about the same age as a spanking.  I&#039;m not about to give up the joys of spanking in favor of soap and suds, but if it&#039;s used sparingly every so often, that&#039;s ok in my book.

2Good - It all depends on what the given lines are.  You always have to do a few that are as dictated of course to lull the top into believing they were all written to specification.  But then you can start to modify.  Using the example I wrote up &quot;I will not chew gum in class&quot;, you can start squeezing the letters together more and more as you work your way down the page until *OOPS!!* the word &quot;not&quot; suddenly gets dropped.  Can&#039;t get in trouble for lying that way, right?

Nikolai - Is that what castor oil is for?  Yikes!  I must have been thinking of cod liver oil which must taste at least equally as gross just by the very name of it.  As I said though, I&#039;m not up for being forced to actually ingest anything for punishment nor being denied the basic need of eating suitable food.  

Extra tasks or chores certainly work.  Scrubbing out the garbage cans, cleaning the gutters, extra weeding, all those icky things that should be done but you really don&#039;t want to.

T - Yes, that really adds to the embarrassment and shock of the punishment!

mudd - Well, if you have to write lines say 200 times, then you can make sure the top is paying attention by writing the sentences backwards (still writing it, no?), in all caps, alternating caps and lowercase letters, or simply writing an entirely different sentence altogether around line 112 just to see if they are thoroughly reviewing the presented work.

Jeff - The style of writing assignment you give sounds pretty therapeutic in nature as opposed to disciplinary.  Probably helps her to truly make the changes she needs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Richard &#8211; You&#8217;re darn right that would be impossible!  Ugh!  My in-laws have a small bench in their family room though that has &#8220;Time Out&#8221; carved into the back of it.  Oh how I&#8217;d love to nab that thing &#8230; even though I&#8217;d never actually want to have to use it myself.</p>
<p>Lee &#8211; Yes, a hug can sometimes be a very nice and touching way to signal that a spanking is over and all is forgiven.  A spanking and a spanking &#8230; wow!  That would really be an intense punishment by the very fact that you&#8217;d have to wait with with an already sore bottom about to get sorer.  Eeep.</p>
<p>karaJ &#8211; white chocolate would sure taste a lot better.  We don&#8217;t do soaping scenes too often, but just like the spanking, we&#8217;d always want to use the real stuff so that the reactions are authentic.  I will keep the milk part in mind though as that would be good to have on hand to offer to the poor girl afterwards!</p>
<p>Todd &#8211; too funny that you developed an affinity for hot sauce!  I can just imagine saying &#8220;no mom, not the hot sauce &#8230; hehehehe.&#8221;</p>
<p>Shoot!  I didn&#8217;t mean to give tips to tops about checking the lines.  May I apologize in advance to any of the naughty girls that are punished by Todd in relation to this post!</p>
<p>Restricting priveleges is tough on the top too as you have to consistently monitor to make sure the restriction is being adhered to.  Way too much trouble.  So I think you should not limit computer time &#8230; ever (I&#8217;m trying to make up for my little assist above).  </p>
<p>Erica &#8211; ROFL!  I absolutely love your take on things and how clearly you state them.  I think all tops have been fairly warned.  But now when I look at sushi, I&#8217;m going to be thinking of naughty things done with ginger.  :-S</p>
<p>dana &#8211; So much has to be considered and based on the two people playing and their mutual interests.  Chemistry too is also always key.  There are some people that I would willingly submit to and even get a charge out of receiving a mouth soaping or being instructed to write an essay.  Others, I would be turned off.  As for the ginger &#8230; I&#8217;m keeping my distance no matter what or whom!</p>
<p>Crystal &#8211; So true.  I never had to write lines growing up, but if our class got in trouble in school, we would sometimes have to repeatedly copy definitions from the dictionary.  Mostly the entry for &#8220;quiet&#8221;.  That sucked too.</p>
<p>Stef &#8211; Corner time in the middle of a spanking is like a little (anxiety filled) rest between rounds at a boxing match!</p>
<p>Tony &#8211; That is too funny!!!  I&#8217;d have begged to skip the song, save your ears, and just spank me again.</p>
<p>tim &#8211; Seated corner time is cool but not something we do too often.  Perhaps we should incorporate it a little more.  But we usually use the corner time in the first place just to show off the red bottom.  Let&#8217;s see what we can work out.</p>
<p>Linde &#8211; Deciding what is a little cross over and what is truly crossing the line is unique to every person, but I don&#8217;t think you can ever go wrong as long as tried and true otk spanking is your basis!</p>
<p>Lorraine &#8211; Mmmm outfits.  You know how I LOVE them.</p>
<p>Funbun &#8211; We&#8217;ve been doing quite a few &#8220;witness&#8221; scenes recently.  This last shoot, it worked out that the new model Lorraine and I kept playing bratty sisters, friends, or rival sorority members who got to witness one another&#8217;s spankings.  We really got into it!</p>
<p>ddon &#8211; Apologizing to the wronged party would be intense.  Can only imagine the sheepish look of the guilty party having to say I&#8217;m sorry with a glowing bottom.</p>
<p>No, not hoarding Angelina&#8217;s content.  I post in a certain rotation to do my best to offer a good variety rather than the same couple of girls&#8217; scenes in a big chunk.  As for Sarah, we need to film more of the bratty miss!</p>
<p>dani &#8211; wow.  That sounds like quite a good design for a &#8220;little&#8221;.</p>
<p>^Mike &#8211; My jaw dropped at the idea of sitting on a warm chair.  Yeowch!  That really would turn up the heat.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m absolutely with you about not messing with one&#8217;s food &#8211; neither denying one a meal nor force feeding someone until they are ill.  A glass of warm milk for a post-spanking tuck in sounds quite nice and nurturing though. </p>
<p>Biker &#8211; Yeah, it can be pretty hypocritical, but if the spanker is human, he or she has probably lied, cheated in school, passed notes, called out sick when well, taken a puff of a cigarette, broken curfew, talked back, or shown up late to work/school at least once &#8230; but spanking a naughty brat for those very reasons is still justified in my mind anyway.  I think mouth soaping is a popular cross over fetish as it was a common domestic childhood punishment that might have been given at about the same age as a spanking.  I&#8217;m not about to give up the joys of spanking in favor of soap and suds, but if it&#8217;s used sparingly every so often, that&#8217;s ok in my book.</p>
<p>2Good &#8211; It all depends on what the given lines are.  You always have to do a few that are as dictated of course to lull the top into believing they were all written to specification.  But then you can start to modify.  Using the example I wrote up &#8220;I will not chew gum in class&#8221;, you can start squeezing the letters together more and more as you work your way down the page until *OOPS!!* the word &#8220;not&#8221; suddenly gets dropped.  Can&#8217;t get in trouble for lying that way, right?</p>
<p>Nikolai &#8211; Is that what castor oil is for?  Yikes!  I must have been thinking of cod liver oil which must taste at least equally as gross just by the very name of it.  As I said though, I&#8217;m not up for being forced to actually ingest anything for punishment nor being denied the basic need of eating suitable food.  </p>
<p>Extra tasks or chores certainly work.  Scrubbing out the garbage cans, cleaning the gutters, extra weeding, all those icky things that should be done but you really don&#8217;t want to.</p>
<p>T &#8211; Yes, that really adds to the embarrassment and shock of the punishment!</p>
<p>mudd &#8211; Well, if you have to write lines say 200 times, then you can make sure the top is paying attention by writing the sentences backwards (still writing it, no?), in all caps, alternating caps and lowercase letters, or simply writing an entirely different sentence altogether around line 112 just to see if they are thoroughly reviewing the presented work.</p>
<p>Jeff &#8211; The style of writing assignment you give sounds pretty therapeutic in nature as opposed to disciplinary.  Probably helps her to truly make the changes she needs.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeff</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2010/01/spanking-and/#comment-20014</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2010 06:53:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t enjoy scenes or stories which involve enemas as punishment, whether unto themselves or associated with spanking.  While I like rectal temps, I don&#039;t like the idea of their being used as punishment, either.  I also don&#039;t enjoy anything in which the spankee is humiliated by being put into a diaper, or a boy is made to wear girls&#039; clothes.

I guess this would be the opposite of punishment, but I like when the spankee is later (not immediately afterward) rewarded for cooperating with the spanking, by having soothing lotion rubbed into her / his red, sore bottom.  (Lying over the lap on a bed for sofa for this can be one of the most blissful feelings in the world -- and a great way to fall asleep!)

When I have given real-life disciplinary spankings, I have had my &quot;niece&quot;-friend do some writing, both before and after the spanking, but not repetitious lines:  Before, she writes about what she has done wrong, how she feels about it, and how she feels about the punishment she is about to get.  After the spanking, she writes about how, specifically, she will help herself to avoid repeating the misdeed in the future.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t enjoy scenes or stories which involve enemas as punishment, whether unto themselves or associated with spanking.  While I like rectal temps, I don&#8217;t like the idea of their being used as punishment, either.  I also don&#8217;t enjoy anything in which the spankee is humiliated by being put into a diaper, or a boy is made to wear girls&#8217; clothes.</p>
<p>I guess this would be the opposite of punishment, but I like when the spankee is later (not immediately afterward) rewarded for cooperating with the spanking, by having soothing lotion rubbed into her / his red, sore bottom.  (Lying over the lap on a bed for sofa for this can be one of the most blissful feelings in the world &#8212; and a great way to fall asleep!)</p>
<p>When I have given real-life disciplinary spankings, I have had my &#8220;niece&#8221;-friend do some writing, both before and after the spanking, but not repetitious lines:  Before, she writes about what she has done wrong, how she feels about it, and how she feels about the punishment she is about to get.  After the spanking, she writes about how, specifically, she will help herself to avoid repeating the misdeed in the future.</p>
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		<title>By: mudd</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 23:34:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I guess I&#039;m more a fan of traditional after punishment kind of person.  Having to go to bed early or having to do extra chores around the house.  Standing in the corner is ok but it seems like it is a waste of time especially for the spankee.  Yes the spanker could use that time to reflect on his or her work but other then that pointless.  Pixie what kind of extra naughty words could you slip in while writing line I think that wold just make the bad words stick out more.  USE EXMAPLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess I&#8217;m more a fan of traditional after punishment kind of person.  Having to go to bed early or having to do extra chores around the house.  Standing in the corner is ok but it seems like it is a waste of time especially for the spankee.  Yes the spanker could use that time to reflect on his or her work but other then that pointless.  Pixie what kind of extra naughty words could you slip in while writing line I think that wold just make the bad words stick out more.  USE EXMAPLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: T</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 05:11:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love watching a scene where there are other people (siblings, friends) present during the spanking or are there beforehand when the spankee is told she is going to be spanked.

Being sent to bed early is another complementary punishment that I like.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love watching a scene where there are other people (siblings, friends) present during the spanking or are there beforehand when the spankee is told she is going to be spanked.</p>
<p>Being sent to bed early is another complementary punishment that I like.</p>
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		<title>By: Nikolai</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nikolai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 17:52:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As ^Mike mentioned, there is the old tradition of a dose of castor oil but I don&#039;t recommend it.  Yes it tastes horrible but its real purpose is to put an express train in her belly which is a little rough on the tracks as it starts then unstoppable.

If a dose of &quot;medicine&quot; is desired, I would recommend a spoonful of coconut oil.  It is solid at room temperature but melts immediately on the tongue.  The taste isn&#039;t horrible but it not a snack food either and if she isn&#039;t allowed to rinse her mouth the taste and oily feel lingers a bit.  And it has health benefits.  However, it doesn&#039;t have after effects some desire.

I&#039;m a fan of extra tasks or punishments that have some utility.  Lines and corner time have their place but to me they allow the person to zone out in a way and really don&#039;t allow them to feel punished but also accomplished.  Much like the military&#039;s extra military instruction(EMI - marching, manual of arms, etc.) as punishment, the task should be tedious but have some value.  I struggled to find something in a domestic setting but a toothbrush and the kitchen baseboards comes to mind.  That has the added benefit of having the spankee bottoms up while at her task.

Along these lines, it occurred to me that after the spanking, the spankee could be given the task of shaping and smoothing a paddle blank using purposely small pieces of sand paper.  She gets the paddle and is forced to prepare the replacement.  The paddle project would be ongoing over lots of punishments with each sanding session leading to the inevitable application to her backside.  Or after a strapping, the strap could be hung from a nail just above her head and she is required to apply a leather dressing to keep the strap supple and able to conform to her bottom.  A period of rubbing and caressing the dressing into the leather would cause her to become intimately familiar with the instrument of her suffering not to mention the fatigue of repeatedly raising her arms as she massages the entire length of the strap.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As ^Mike mentioned, there is the old tradition of a dose of castor oil but I don&#8217;t recommend it.  Yes it tastes horrible but its real purpose is to put an express train in her belly which is a little rough on the tracks as it starts then unstoppable.</p>
<p>If a dose of &#8220;medicine&#8221; is desired, I would recommend a spoonful of coconut oil.  It is solid at room temperature but melts immediately on the tongue.  The taste isn&#8217;t horrible but it not a snack food either and if she isn&#8217;t allowed to rinse her mouth the taste and oily feel lingers a bit.  And it has health benefits.  However, it doesn&#8217;t have after effects some desire.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a fan of extra tasks or punishments that have some utility.  Lines and corner time have their place but to me they allow the person to zone out in a way and really don&#8217;t allow them to feel punished but also accomplished.  Much like the military&#8217;s extra military instruction(EMI &#8211; marching, manual of arms, etc.) as punishment, the task should be tedious but have some value.  I struggled to find something in a domestic setting but a toothbrush and the kitchen baseboards comes to mind.  That has the added benefit of having the spankee bottoms up while at her task.</p>
<p>Along these lines, it occurred to me that after the spanking, the spankee could be given the task of shaping and smoothing a paddle blank using purposely small pieces of sand paper.  She gets the paddle and is forced to prepare the replacement.  The paddle project would be ongoing over lots of punishments with each sanding session leading to the inevitable application to her backside.  Or after a strapping, the strap could be hung from a nail just above her head and she is required to apply a leather dressing to keep the strap supple and able to conform to her bottom.  A period of rubbing and caressing the dressing into the leather would cause her to become intimately familiar with the instrument of her suffering not to mention the fatigue of repeatedly raising her arms as she massages the entire length of the strap.</p>
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		<title>By: 2Good</title>
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		<dc:creator>2Good</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 04:03:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So what kinds of words does a naughty brat slip in or change when writing lines?  Examples please :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So what kinds of words does a naughty brat slip in or change when writing lines?  Examples please <img src='http://spankingpixie.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Biker</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2010/01/spanking-and/#comment-19862</link>
		<dc:creator>Biker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 03:54:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think mouth soaping is pretty ridiculous. It not only does nothing to enhance a scene, it&#039;s pretty hypocritical, in my opinion. Isn&#039;t mouth soaping supposed to be about &quot;cleansing&quot; the person being disciplined for uttering foul language, as if the disciplinarian has never uttered an obscenity? Please! By the way pixie, as a lifelong writer and editor by trade, I think you write very well, something I think Erica Scott appreciates, as do I. Keep up the good work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think mouth soaping is pretty ridiculous. It not only does nothing to enhance a scene, it&#8217;s pretty hypocritical, in my opinion. Isn&#8217;t mouth soaping supposed to be about &#8220;cleansing&#8221; the person being disciplined for uttering foul language, as if the disciplinarian has never uttered an obscenity? Please! By the way pixie, as a lifelong writer and editor by trade, I think you write very well, something I think Erica Scott appreciates, as do I. Keep up the good work.</p>
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		<title>By: ^Mike</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2010/01/spanking-and/#comment-19857</link>
		<dc:creator>^Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 22:18:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Since I was only interested in spankings for play rather than for discipline, my focus was on establishing a headspace and maintaining it for as long as possible, say over a long weekend or on a vacation (in the mountains).  Therefore I was somewhat free to impose additional “punishments” that I would never consider were I to actually be disciplining someone.

Cornertime was a significant part of the after-spanking play, and it was always in the bare but I liked to vary it a lot.  Similar to what Richard mentioned, I’d face a chair to the corner, the best one being a steel kitchen chair with a metal seat onto which I’d pour some boiling water so that, by the time I’d dried it off, it was still uncomfortably hot like a vinyl car seat in the midday sun.  Talk about wiggle and squirm, the object of course being to capitalize on the heat and discomfort of a freshly spanked bare bottom (a fine sight in that position).  I didn’t impose much standing time because, frankly, I got bored – except when we vacationed a week at a 150-year old cabin in the NC mountains, complete with a large woodshed, wrap-around porch, a huge boulder nearby and plenty of woodland, all of which were used for “cornertime.”  My partner had a special yen for outdoor “fun” so I had her stand bared and red facing the rock, a large tree, and of course on the porch (I dutifully reminded her it was hunting season and she’d best behave or she’d get her cornertime extended, increasing her chances of some hunter happening by or fixing her in his sights).

Never been big fan of mouth soapings, or any other stuff like Tabasco or pepper, though I did once use a teaspoon of castor oil, having heard my grandmother extolling its “virtues” throughout my childhood years.  I tried it myself, first, and to this day can’t stand the taste of postage stamps (thankfully no longer necessary) or smell certain glues without gagging.  If the Italian Fascists used the forced drinking of castor oil to break their enemies, then that’s one post-spanking punishment I’ll avoid.  I’d much rather stick to “funishments” anyway and, since I always considered writing lines a waste of good paper, I instead imposed something I was told was far worse:  I recorded a 6-hour VHS tape of the most boring, obnoxious, and mind-numbing TV commercials I could find, then would randomly choose a spot and have my partner sit and write down (with a grease pencil on a sheet of plastic) the details of each one that played for a specified amount of time – or have the punishment extended after a more lengthy and harder spanking.  Talk about pleas for mercy!

Of course, there are the usual post-spanking punishments we’ve discussed before, involving being sent to bed either straight away or as an “early bedtime,” possibly accompanied by a reminder spanking, all of which are quite effective at achieving a certain headspace.  Again, not big on games with food, such as “going to bed without supper,” but an interesting and oddly effective twist on this is having her drink a glass of warm milk just before tucking her in for the night, after all the spanking and such, naturally.  It seems to significantly enhance the psychological effect. 

Funbun mentioned the merits of spanking in front of witnesses, especially family members.  About the closest I ever come to it was again in that old cabin, which had large, old portraits and family photos dating from the mid-1800s up to the late 1950s in plain sight.  As I bared her (standing) I’d tell her how she was going to be getting a spanking in front of the whole family, the change of expression on her face and the blush that came to it as she looked around at the pictures told me she was *really* getting into the idea.  Unfortunately I was only able to do that the one time (her folks arrived unexpectedly the next evening), but I’ve fondly remembered that and hoped to try it again all these years since.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since I was only interested in spankings for play rather than for discipline, my focus was on establishing a headspace and maintaining it for as long as possible, say over a long weekend or on a vacation (in the mountains).  Therefore I was somewhat free to impose additional “punishments” that I would never consider were I to actually be disciplining someone.</p>
<p>Cornertime was a significant part of the after-spanking play, and it was always in the bare but I liked to vary it a lot.  Similar to what Richard mentioned, I’d face a chair to the corner, the best one being a steel kitchen chair with a metal seat onto which I’d pour some boiling water so that, by the time I’d dried it off, it was still uncomfortably hot like a vinyl car seat in the midday sun.  Talk about wiggle and squirm, the object of course being to capitalize on the heat and discomfort of a freshly spanked bare bottom (a fine sight in that position).  I didn’t impose much standing time because, frankly, I got bored – except when we vacationed a week at a 150-year old cabin in the NC mountains, complete with a large woodshed, wrap-around porch, a huge boulder nearby and plenty of woodland, all of which were used for “cornertime.”  My partner had a special yen for outdoor “fun” so I had her stand bared and red facing the rock, a large tree, and of course on the porch (I dutifully reminded her it was hunting season and she’d best behave or she’d get her cornertime extended, increasing her chances of some hunter happening by or fixing her in his sights).</p>
<p>Never been big fan of mouth soapings, or any other stuff like Tabasco or pepper, though I did once use a teaspoon of castor oil, having heard my grandmother extolling its “virtues” throughout my childhood years.  I tried it myself, first, and to this day can’t stand the taste of postage stamps (thankfully no longer necessary) or smell certain glues without gagging.  If the Italian Fascists used the forced drinking of castor oil to break their enemies, then that’s one post-spanking punishment I’ll avoid.  I’d much rather stick to “funishments” anyway and, since I always considered writing lines a waste of good paper, I instead imposed something I was told was far worse:  I recorded a 6-hour VHS tape of the most boring, obnoxious, and mind-numbing TV commercials I could find, then would randomly choose a spot and have my partner sit and write down (with a grease pencil on a sheet of plastic) the details of each one that played for a specified amount of time – or have the punishment extended after a more lengthy and harder spanking.  Talk about pleas for mercy!</p>
<p>Of course, there are the usual post-spanking punishments we’ve discussed before, involving being sent to bed either straight away or as an “early bedtime,” possibly accompanied by a reminder spanking, all of which are quite effective at achieving a certain headspace.  Again, not big on games with food, such as “going to bed without supper,” but an interesting and oddly effective twist on this is having her drink a glass of warm milk just before tucking her in for the night, after all the spanking and such, naturally.  It seems to significantly enhance the psychological effect. </p>
<p>Funbun mentioned the merits of spanking in front of witnesses, especially family members.  About the closest I ever come to it was again in that old cabin, which had large, old portraits and family photos dating from the mid-1800s up to the late 1950s in plain sight.  As I bared her (standing) I’d tell her how she was going to be getting a spanking in front of the whole family, the change of expression on her face and the blush that came to it as she looked around at the pictures told me she was *really* getting into the idea.  Unfortunately I was only able to do that the one time (her folks arrived unexpectedly the next evening), but I’ve fondly remembered that and hoped to try it again all these years since.</p>
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		<title>By: Little Princess dani</title>
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		<dc:creator>Little Princess dani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 19:55:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love Richard Windsor&#039;s idea about the &quot;naughty chair.&quot; It should be designated as such with a big painted sign and be put in a public place.

Maybe the &quot;naughty chair&quot; even has a little bar across it such as you might find in a little child&#039;s baby swing..:) This bar is useful for holding the offender in place.

And let&#039;s not forget the little stand beside it that&#039;s just perfect for spanking implements, bars of soap, and, for that special little one, sweet baby powder..:)

Anytime I can feel &quot;little&quot; is always a nice feeling..:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love Richard Windsor&#8217;s idea about the &#8220;naughty chair.&#8221; It should be designated as such with a big painted sign and be put in a public place.</p>
<p>Maybe the &#8220;naughty chair&#8221; even has a little bar across it such as you might find in a little child&#8217;s baby swing..:) This bar is useful for holding the offender in place.</p>
<p>And let&#8217;s not forget the little stand beside it that&#8217;s just perfect for spanking implements, bars of soap, and, for that special little one, sweet baby powder..:)</p>
<p>Anytime I can feel &#8220;little&#8221; is always a nice feeling..:)</p>
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		<title>By: ddon</title>
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		<dc:creator>ddon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 18:53:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>p.s. punkin,

as usual...mouth before brain!!!

the previews look good and the newcommers interesting. 

are you hoarding angelinas????[see chas. fort &quot;is someone collecting ambroses&quot;] it would be nice to see sarah gregory too.

ddon</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>p.s. punkin,</p>
<p>as usual&#8230;mouth before brain!!!</p>
<p>the previews look good and the newcommers interesting. </p>
<p>are you hoarding angelinas????[see chas. fort "is someone collecting ambroses"] it would be nice to see sarah gregory too.</p>
<p>ddon</p>
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