tim – Yes, both Angelina and Mischa got their buns roasted.

Biker – Tone says a lot, even when not a word is spoken. Not too rough, not too indifferent … ahhh.

Dave – Holly has that great way of saying “owwww” too that really lets you know she is outraged.

ddon – Glad you have found some of the earlier scenes that strike just the right chord for you.

Kim – We each have certain things that really do it for us as well as things that can totally ruin an otherwise “good” scene. But it’s all so highly individualized. No wrong or right, just personal preference and I too find it interesting to discover what details people focus on.

Nooch – When filming our scenes, we always do at least one straight to the bare (for all the folks out there that enjoy and have made requests for seeing the bare, white bottom grow redder with each spank) and then the balance is done over panties and clothing as needed. Back along, all we did was the progressive spanking – over the clothes, over the panties, finally the bare. While we still do this style as well, we have made a concerted effort to also offer more of a variety in starting either bare or over panties in scenes too.

Alessan – Your comment is such a delight! I’m thrilled that you came out of the shadows. Welcome.

squeg – I think you described the site perfectly. And again, I’m very happy to be considered spankable. Thank you!

Funbun – Owen’s good point about specific models’ privacy aside, I’d have a tough time categorizing the spankers and spankees as spanko or non-spanko. Rather than black and white, I think it’s more of a spectrum as I illustrated with the little graphic on the Like It Or Not post. For example, if I were to ask a random person if they like spanking and they say yes, they might have a couple of light taps during love making in mind. Are they a spanko in the same way that we’d define it? Or are they vanilla? What puts them in one category or the other? Those are the things that I’d fuss over in trying to make a decision of how to mark them.

Hope you’ll find lots to enjoy when you rejoin in the new year.

dana – It’s always so nice to share my thoughts here and find that many others have wondered about the same things.

Owen – Excellent point. And we wouldn’t want to do anything that could potentially harm someone in that manner as we certainly all appreciate the models’ contributions whether they are spankos or not.

justme – I’m genuinely intrigued by submission, but I too often enjoy the interaction.

dani – Thanks!

^Mike – Interesting thoughts about how readily a spanko vs non-spanko can get into a the scene. I think it depends on the person and what style spanko they are. Not all spankos like to brat or have had much experience in a bratting style of play.

Dallas – “Smacktress” is such a perfect term!

Tony – I’m sure glad there is no regulation as TV and video would be super boring that way.

Norm – Good point about there often being alternative punishments (although, in a spanking video, you generally don’t want the characters to actually choose to ground, call the cops, etc). And your other point is very thought provoking as well. I know that some videos touch on that aspect, but it is one that is certainly more upsetting to consider in a r/l scenario.

Tony is absolutely right. If the law would’ve mandated that there’s a need to show consent, the entertainment business, as we know it, would have long been dead. There are a couple of reasons for the threating phrase of “I’ll call your father/police/(any other threat) or else you’ll have to bend over for the paddle” phrase. First of all, we in the spanking world are so enamored by the scene of the poor girl being spanked for her misdeeds that we forget that there are many other punishment methods out there. so we need to keep it real. Secondly, and this might be a bit of a controversial statement, in places where corporal punishment still exists, or in the past when it used to be more prevalent, the teacher/principal, etc, frequently, if not oftenly, enjoyed giving the spanking. But since they didn’t want it to make it obvious that they enjoyed dishing it out, they put out a straw man that they know the child would not except and so the girl chooses the “easier” route for her, while the teacher says that he would’ve rather not spanked and told the parents instead. It’s a great method of releasing an guilt they might have for spanking the poor kid.

You’ve outdone yourself with this post, Pixie, which is no easy task.

Break a brush this weekend!

Thanks!

Like you say above, it is physically taxing.

There is also a segment, that puts slight resistance in the same category as “bratting”. I enjoy brats/bratting, and am not interested in pure submission. Many people though are, and want to see a scene with little to no resistance, done in a routine and matter of fact way.

I find that boring, and don’t simply want to see beating, but interaction between the spanker and the spankee. I especially enjoy lecturing, etc…an explanation for the spanking, and not just “cutting to the chase”.

If a non-spanko model was outed I’d imagine it might hurt her credibility and therefore career / earnings. If she were to make the comment herself then fine but for industry insiders to do it feels wrong to me.

In my opinion it would probably be better to let the true spankos come forward of their own free will and leave it at that/

Owen.

On another issue, I’m more for realism. Less contriving for the audience. I don’t see a parent or other authority figure gradually baring the bottom like it’s for entertainment. Either spank on the pants, the underpants, or the bare. Pick one, and administer the punishment, but please, pick the bare.