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		<title>By: Spanking Pixie &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Don&#8217;t Say I Didn&#8217;t Warn You &#8230;</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2009/11/like-it-or-not/#comment-18537</link>
		<dc:creator>Spanking Pixie &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Don&#8217;t Say I Didn&#8217;t Warn You &#8230;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 14:35:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Ancient</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2009/11/like-it-or-not/#comment-18449</link>
		<dc:creator>Ancient</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 04:15:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve thought about the &#039;model or actress question quite a few times over the years (being Ancient). The first time I encountered the term &#039;spanking model&#039; was during the 70s, when just about all the spanking material I could find (or afford) consisted of pictures printed in magazines. So &#039;model&#039; made sense.

A few years later, videotapes became available, and unfortunately quite a few of them featured spankees who didn&#039;t know the first thing about acting. I&#039;m sure that some of these were real spankos, but that didn&#039;t make things any better when they went into a one-note kicking and yowling routine at the first smack and kept it going like the Energizer Bunny, often for 10 or 15 minutes straight, without changing either pitch or motion. I sincerely appreciated their willingness to bare their bottoms and be spanked on tape for my viewing pleasure, but I couldn&#039;t help wanting more. (And there were honorable exceptions to the trend who gave more.)

It seems to me that we&#039;re now living in a Golden Age of spanking videos -- there are so many lovely women who are into the spanking scene personally, but capable of giving a stunningly good impression of a spoiled brat having a completely new, unexpected, and thoroughly unpleasant experience over somebody&#039;s knee. And perhaps others, AFAIK, are not into the scene at all, but have the same talent and are willing to display it. Samantha, Lizzy, and your good self, Ms. A. Pixie Wells, and many others I haven&#039;t got time to list, should all get (among your just deserts) very special Spanking Academy Awards.

Doesn&#039;t matter to me whether you choose to call yourselves models or actresses, but you have to *be* good actresses to do what you all so wonderfully do.  It&#039;s enough to bring happy tears to an old man&#039;s eyes.

It really is the acting that makes the difference for me. I do prefer to think that the spankee is getting a reward more personal than money out of the experience, but as long as she does her best to persuade me that what she&#039;s getting is a horrible surprise, I&#039;m satisfied.

Ancient

P.S. Someone mentioned wanting to see more videos in which the spankee is forcibly yanked over someone&#039;s knee and spanked. As I understand it, producers have to be careful to establish, in the script, that the spankee consents to be spanked so as not to run afoul of the same laws that require her to be 18 or older. That&#039;s why we encounter so many challenges of the &quot;...or shall we call your father?&quot; variety. Perhaps this is too bad, but let&#039;s be thankful for what we have. Take my word for it, compared to what we had 50 years ago it&#039;s quite a lot.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve thought about the &#8216;model or actress question quite a few times over the years (being Ancient). The first time I encountered the term &#8216;spanking model&#8217; was during the 70s, when just about all the spanking material I could find (or afford) consisted of pictures printed in magazines. So &#8216;model&#8217; made sense.</p>
<p>A few years later, videotapes became available, and unfortunately quite a few of them featured spankees who didn&#8217;t know the first thing about acting. I&#8217;m sure that some of these were real spankos, but that didn&#8217;t make things any better when they went into a one-note kicking and yowling routine at the first smack and kept it going like the Energizer Bunny, often for 10 or 15 minutes straight, without changing either pitch or motion. I sincerely appreciated their willingness to bare their bottoms and be spanked on tape for my viewing pleasure, but I couldn&#8217;t help wanting more. (And there were honorable exceptions to the trend who gave more.)</p>
<p>It seems to me that we&#8217;re now living in a Golden Age of spanking videos &#8212; there are so many lovely women who are into the spanking scene personally, but capable of giving a stunningly good impression of a spoiled brat having a completely new, unexpected, and thoroughly unpleasant experience over somebody&#8217;s knee. And perhaps others, AFAIK, are not into the scene at all, but have the same talent and are willing to display it. Samantha, Lizzy, and your good self, Ms. A. Pixie Wells, and many others I haven&#8217;t got time to list, should all get (among your just deserts) very special Spanking Academy Awards.</p>
<p>Doesn&#8217;t matter to me whether you choose to call yourselves models or actresses, but you have to *be* good actresses to do what you all so wonderfully do.  It&#8217;s enough to bring happy tears to an old man&#8217;s eyes.</p>
<p>It really is the acting that makes the difference for me. I do prefer to think that the spankee is getting a reward more personal than money out of the experience, but as long as she does her best to persuade me that what she&#8217;s getting is a horrible surprise, I&#8217;m satisfied.</p>
<p>Ancient</p>
<p>P.S. Someone mentioned wanting to see more videos in which the spankee is forcibly yanked over someone&#8217;s knee and spanked. As I understand it, producers have to be careful to establish, in the script, that the spankee consents to be spanked so as not to run afoul of the same laws that require her to be 18 or older. That&#8217;s why we encounter so many challenges of the &#8220;&#8230;or shall we call your father?&#8221; variety. Perhaps this is too bad, but let&#8217;s be thankful for what we have. Take my word for it, compared to what we had 50 years ago it&#8217;s quite a lot.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeff</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2009/11/like-it-or-not/#comment-18433</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 10:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve had to think about this one.  For the most part, I want the young lady being spanked to have some emotional to spanking.  (I imagine most girls featured in spanking videos feel a sexual connection as well, but I never want that to be in evidence in a disciplinary or therapeutic spanking scene.)  When I first thought about the question, the notion of doing it purely for mercenary reasons definitely seemed like a turn-off for me.

Then I thought of series of videos by Raven Hill Studios (which apparently no longer exists?) called &quot;Resolved By Corporal Punishment.&quot;  These at least seem to be what they say they are:  A young woman (who is not a spanking actress / model) has behaved irresponsibly (e.g., breaking something while drunk) and gotten herself fined or sued.  The studio agrees to pay off the debt; the girl in exchange agrees to take a very real disciplinary spanking, on camera, and the studio sells the videos.  I have enjoyed watching some of these quite a bit, and yet these are girls who apparently are not &quot;into&quot; spanking, and are in fact doing it for the money.  The more I think of it, though, the more I realize the fundamental difference:  In this case, there ARE strong emotions of regret and contrition involved, as opposed to just, &quot;This sucks and hurts like hell, but I&#039;m getting two months&#039; rent out of it.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve had to think about this one.  For the most part, I want the young lady being spanked to have some emotional to spanking.  (I imagine most girls featured in spanking videos feel a sexual connection as well, but I never want that to be in evidence in a disciplinary or therapeutic spanking scene.)  When I first thought about the question, the notion of doing it purely for mercenary reasons definitely seemed like a turn-off for me.</p>
<p>Then I thought of series of videos by Raven Hill Studios (which apparently no longer exists?) called &#8220;Resolved By Corporal Punishment.&#8221;  These at least seem to be what they say they are:  A young woman (who is not a spanking actress / model) has behaved irresponsibly (e.g., breaking something while drunk) and gotten herself fined or sued.  The studio agrees to pay off the debt; the girl in exchange agrees to take a very real disciplinary spanking, on camera, and the studio sells the videos.  I have enjoyed watching some of these quite a bit, and yet these are girls who apparently are not &#8220;into&#8221; spanking, and are in fact doing it for the money.  The more I think of it, though, the more I realize the fundamental difference:  In this case, there ARE strong emotions of regret and contrition involved, as opposed to just, &#8220;This sucks and hurts like hell, but I&#8217;m getting two months&#8217; rent out of it.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Mikep38</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2009/11/like-it-or-not/#comment-18391</link>
		<dc:creator>Mikep38</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 16:45:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>to me to be hontest  i just like to see spanking  wheter it female spanking female  male spanking  female or female spanking males.

to me doesn&#039;t matter to me if person invole spanking  or person doing he spankings really into it or not all that matter is spanking is happening.

 to me if people who doing the spanking or getting spanked that i see may had like something about it to actually do a spanking shoot or had let the spankings happen  to least try it. or was willing to let them self get spanked or let the person spank them</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>to me to be hontest  i just like to see spanking  wheter it female spanking female  male spanking  female or female spanking males.</p>
<p>to me doesn&#8217;t matter to me if person invole spanking  or person doing he spankings really into it or not all that matter is spanking is happening.</p>
<p> to me if people who doing the spanking or getting spanked that i see may had like something about it to actually do a spanking shoot or had let the spankings happen  to least try it. or was willing to let them self get spanked or let the person spank them</p>
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		<title>By: Little Princess dani</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2009/11/like-it-or-not/#comment-18329</link>
		<dc:creator>Little Princess dani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 17:48:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All these responses are great. I especially like the luvinit one...interesting!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All these responses are great. I especially like the luvinit one&#8230;interesting!</p>
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		<title>By: Lee</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2009/11/like-it-or-not/#comment-18328</link>
		<dc:creator>Lee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 15:59:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Acting or re-acting?

How much is scripted and how much adlib?

I&#039;m sure the senario is scripted, but if you want it natural, scripting the spanking would come off fake some how..

I don&#039;t care for the &quot;dead fish&quot; spankee that just lies there and doesn&#039;t move or say anything.

Or one that acks like she is being murdered when getting a few light slaps.

I get the feeling that, on Punished Brats anyway, once in position, what follows is a real spanking that the receiver getting and reacting to that fact.

The reason for it matters less.

Lee</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Acting or re-acting?</p>
<p>How much is scripted and how much adlib?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure the senario is scripted, but if you want it natural, scripting the spanking would come off fake some how..</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t care for the &#8220;dead fish&#8221; spankee that just lies there and doesn&#8217;t move or say anything.</p>
<p>Or one that acks like she is being murdered when getting a few light slaps.</p>
<p>I get the feeling that, on Punished Brats anyway, once in position, what follows is a real spanking that the receiver getting and reacting to that fact.</p>
<p>The reason for it matters less.</p>
<p>Lee</p>
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		<title>By: luvinit</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2009/11/like-it-or-not/#comment-18319</link>
		<dc:creator>luvinit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 04:55:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This post leads into a question I&#039;ve been wanting to ask:  why are the spankees in videos called models instead of actresses?  They&#039;re not modeling clothing or makeup.  Their panties are not being advertised for sale, usually.  They&#039;re being filmed, and they&#039;re acting a role, so to me they&#039;re actresses.  In fact they&#039;re supreme actresses, working under conditions that other actors would never accept!  Imagine trying to remember your lines, stay in position and not use foul language while you&#039;re being spanked so hard that you start crying!  

This is actually a serious question, because I wonder if spanking &quot;models&quot; get the same protections and rights as regular actresses.  Is it cheaper to pay &quot;models&quot; than actresses?  Are there any benefits to being called a model rather than an actress?  I&#039;ve always wondered...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post leads into a question I&#8217;ve been wanting to ask:  why are the spankees in videos called models instead of actresses?  They&#8217;re not modeling clothing or makeup.  Their panties are not being advertised for sale, usually.  They&#8217;re being filmed, and they&#8217;re acting a role, so to me they&#8217;re actresses.  In fact they&#8217;re supreme actresses, working under conditions that other actors would never accept!  Imagine trying to remember your lines, stay in position and not use foul language while you&#8217;re being spanked so hard that you start crying!  </p>
<p>This is actually a serious question, because I wonder if spanking &#8220;models&#8221; get the same protections and rights as regular actresses.  Is it cheaper to pay &#8220;models&#8221; than actresses?  Are there any benefits to being called a model rather than an actress?  I&#8217;ve always wondered&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Mo</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2009/11/like-it-or-not/#comment-18315</link>
		<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 02:59:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Agree with Erica on the reactions.  I do think that occasionally the reactions look artificial when a young lady starts whining after one slap.  Accepting the basic premiss of your site (that we&#039;re in a Leave-it-to-Beaver type world, where corporal punishment is rather ordinary) I would expect her to be stoic for a little bit, and then to lose her composure during her chastisement.  I do like to see the models kind of out of breath, and really working hard just to stay in position.  That is usually best in the scenes where the model is really bent over with her head down, using her hands on either the floor or her own legs to balance with her whole body jiggling with each spank.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Agree with Erica on the reactions.  I do think that occasionally the reactions look artificial when a young lady starts whining after one slap.  Accepting the basic premiss of your site (that we&#8217;re in a Leave-it-to-Beaver type world, where corporal punishment is rather ordinary) I would expect her to be stoic for a little bit, and then to lose her composure during her chastisement.  I do like to see the models kind of out of breath, and really working hard just to stay in position.  That is usually best in the scenes where the model is really bent over with her head down, using her hands on either the floor or her own legs to balance with her whole body jiggling with each spank.</p>
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		<title>By: Erica</title>
		<link>http://spankingpixie.com/2009/11/like-it-or-not/#comment-18312</link>
		<dc:creator>Erica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 23:36:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t judge models who do it strictly for the money. I think some of them might be shocked, however, at just how much it hurts! 

For my own preference, I&#039;d rather watch someone who is into spanking for real, and loves doing shoots -- the money is just icing on the cake. I believe their desire to be there adds a certain energy to their performance. Screaming in agony isn&#039;t about energy -- it&#039;s about pure pain, and that makes me cringe.

I do like classic spanking reactions, though -- struggling, fussing, kicking, complaining. Pixie, I know that you know what I mean when I say I DON&#039;T like the &quot;porn star&quot; reaction -- oohing and ahhing and lip-biting. Please. :-D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t judge models who do it strictly for the money. I think some of them might be shocked, however, at just how much it hurts! </p>
<p>For my own preference, I&#8217;d rather watch someone who is into spanking for real, and loves doing shoots &#8212; the money is just icing on the cake. I believe their desire to be there adds a certain energy to their performance. Screaming in agony isn&#8217;t about energy &#8212; it&#8217;s about pure pain, and that makes me cringe.</p>
<p>I do like classic spanking reactions, though &#8212; struggling, fussing, kicking, complaining. Pixie, I know that you know what I mean when I say I DON&#8217;T like the &#8220;porn star&#8221; reaction &#8212; oohing and ahhing and lip-biting. Please. <img src='http://spankingpixie.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Are we having fun yet? &#124; All Things Spanking</title>
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		<dc:creator>Are we having fun yet? &#124; All Things Spanking</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 18:12:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Pixie Wells poses another insightful quesion on her blog. As always, her thoughts and those of her readers are a good read. Like It Or Not [...]</description>
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