Hugs and best wishes

AK – Beverly sure does have great reactions. She is able to convey pain, embarrassment, and outrage so clearly both in video and in photos. And yes, Veronica is an excellent spanker.

Dani – A captured moment is a glorious thing to me for the exact reason you mentioned. I love being able to back and relive a slice of time. I enjoy photos in that way even more than video because it’s truly just one tiny slice to be treasured.

Guitar Eddie – You are so sweet! That sounds like a very enjoyable spanking we’d have too.

2Good – Teeheehee. I’ll be happy to take another spanking for your misdeeds. Just not with that wooden spoon!

Lee – Sorry to hear that your wife is in such pain. I hope that she will feel better and that you’ll both be able to engage in play again one day.

Keagen – I do that too. I am amazed at the punishments some people are able to endure. Yourself included of course.

Tom – I hope that you can meet a lovely lady to share your spanking interest one day.

J-rock – From a top’s perspective then, are you more likely to imagine yourself in the scenario depending upon who the spankee is? Do you watch both F/F and M/F scenes? Do you put yourself in the role of spanker in either case?

Isolde – I would never want to envision myself being spanked by someone who truly disliked me or wished me ill. You have to really put a lot of trust into the person that is doing the spanking and a bitter rival isn’t the most trustworthy, right? I’m very glad you enjoy the PB videos!

Linde – There is a lot more is conveyed in a scene than just the spanks applied to the bottom, isn’t there? There needs to be a lot of ‘connecting’ to make it work – the connection between the spanker and spankee, both participants and the theme, the viewer and the characters and the storyline … on and on.

Thank you for your sweet words and your continued support for my blog and Punished Brats. Your encouragement is always a great help!

W – How neat that you take on different roles depending on what media format it is.

Tim – Thank you. I hope you have lots and lots of pleasant thoughts envisioning yourself spanking many naughty girls.

Steve – That is indeed George Richards spanking me in the cut-out photo, but it’s actually a still from an unreleased scene called Favorite Author. It was a fun scene just like To-Do List so maybe it’s about time I haul it out of the vault. As for your list, I hope your errands aren’t long ones. I get very antsy waiting to get spanked.

Mikep38 – I can relate to that. There are some spankers that I have seen that I’m very curious about but will probably never have the chance to meet.

Sir funkytown – One of the things I’ve enjoyed most about keeping this blog is having a place to share my thoughts and questions about spanking freely. You can’t always do that with the general public. So I’m very thankful to have a place to correspond with lots of like-minded people that are willing to share their thoughts and feelings. Sure people may choose to masturbate to my films or any number of other things, but I don’t think that means they can’t think. Many with a fetish tend to think quite a lot about the various nuances of their interest.

Lorraine – So you are in the moment then! The captured moment.

Paul Down – I find that whether it’s vanilla or spanking media, if something really doesn’t fit the storyline or the dialogue is poor, I’m not able to get wrapped up in the magic of the story. I tend to be more forgiving of spanking scenes as compared to mainstream movies, but there are limits. It’s always an exhilarating experience though when you happen to stumble upon a scene that comes very close to our own personal ideal.

Dana – It’s not wishy-washy. It’s just the way it tends to be sometimes. So much depends on the various situations.

Interesting that you choose to be an active observer or the producer/director role in some cases and seeing the scene as a scene rather than seeing yourself as a part of the action or a fly on the wall of the event. Sometimes I do that too. Heck, sometimes I’ve wished that actual scenes I’ve helped to direct would have turned out a little differently, but there is no way to ever truly dictate every detail.

So for you, it sounds like the spankee is of great importance to you. How you might relate to them. Does it make a difference how the spanker and spankee get along? No matter how much I might like a spanker or a spankeee, if it’s not a comfortable combination for them, I’m left feeling ill at ease.

Richard – Do you still have certain preferences for the individuals in the scene? Say you really like spankee A but aren’t so keen on spanker B, but the two have great chemistry. Are you still able to enjoy the scene or does it all need to line up just right?

Will – So you enjoy both roles equally?

Crystal – Thank you.

Alex – I like a bit of character development too. Sometimes it helps me to really relate to the girl, sometimes it makes me want to really, really see her get spanked hard, and on rare occasions it can be a little off putting, but overall I like to kind of get to know the people who are in the scene. It’s much more powerful that way than seeing the action without setup. We haven’t gone into creating entire series, but we have done a part 2 or continuation of a tale such as with Operation Stepmom and we have talked about doing a second Spanking of the Week.

Winchester – Neat how you are able to custom tailor the scene in level two. Makes total sense. In thinking about it further myself, I think I do that on occasion as well.

007 – That sounds like a very good scene idea. A nice twist on the fantasy setup.

Bonnie – Do you need to connect with the spanker or the spankee or both? I find that both characters play a key role in not only how much I enjoy a scene, but whether I put myself into it or not.

Laurent – Yes, safety!!

CurtisG – I hadn’t even considered how the intensity of a scene might factor in. Makes sense that it would play a big part especially if you are likely to envision yourself in the role of receiving and wouldn’t want to be treated in a harsh manner.

Dr. Ken – When putting yourself in the role of the spanker, do you ever think “hey, I wouldn’t do that” when the plot goes in a direction other than you would have gone yourself?

Jeff – I’m so glad that you enjoy Punished Brats for what we offer and … what we don’t. I’m very uncomfortable with scenes that degrade or try to tear a person down. I know it works for some, but I prefer scenes that leave the person blushing on both ends, not with a broken spirit.

Todd – I think there are some companies that make an effort to create a complete storyline with lots of setup in their full length videos. It probably is much more common though, especially in shorter clip format sites, to move along to the action quickly. I find that even a bit of a set up helps to set the tone. I struggle to get into scenes that have no set up, no reason given for the spanking, and no chance to understand who the players are.

KaraJ – Those are key points that I often look for in a scene too. I am a bit more forgiving of things like realistic sets in spanking movies than I am in mainstream, but I definitely want to see a more realistic spanking delivered than one I’d expect in a vanilla film.

Harry – Ah! So you almost wish to give the girl a second round of spanking! Hope she was very naughty.

^Mike – I adore photos. Sometimes seeing a photoset will make me extra curious about what may have occurred in the video (if there is in fact one) just to see if what played out is close to my fantasy.

Erica – I’ve watched your videos and have been known to shout “you go, Girl!” at the monitor when you deliver a fabulous bratty response. And then I’ll flinch along with you seeing how you pay for your quick wit!

Annapurna – Wow! Four roles! Do you select different roles depending on the type of scene or do you find yourself taking on a bit of all of them?

As for the characters, I pay particular attention to the spanker. I prefer only women in that role, and they must have a streak of compassion in their makeup; otherwise, they appear too sadistic for my tastes. As for the spankee, well, once again I prefer women, especially slender ones, who seem to be quietly excited about the prospect of being spanked and react in a way that is realistic for their true age, rather than how a child might act. I don’t much care for spankees who project an exaggerated sense of entitlement or a grandiose air of self-centeredness. Such attitudes turn me off, and I don’t really feel like spanking such women in order to correct their disposition.

Stories are different. I can imagine myself in the female’s place, because I have no visuals. But only if I like the plot, the dialogue, etc.

Interesting about feeling different when you know the model. I had a good friend tell me that she watched one of my videos and, during a very hard hairbrushing scene, she wanted to yell at the screen, “Stop it, stop, that’s enough!” LOL

Pictures on the other hand, whether photos or drawings/cartoons, if not too explicit, let me construct the elements of the scene for myself around my own impressions. Oftentimes I’m happier not to know whether that’s what’s really happening or even remotely resembles what the photographer/artist intended. For me, those are the easiest scenes to imagine myself a part of. I look for the same things in them as you do, Pixie, but then I slip right into that world and become a part of it, just as I would when reading a well-written story.