It’s time for another one of my nosey questions.  Usually they are inspired by a conversation I had with a friend or something that came up in email correspondence.  This one is no exception. 
When you’re watching a spanking video, do you envision yourself in the role of the spanker or spankee or do you simply […]

There are few television shows that I make a point of watching.  Usually I’m either running around outside or suction cupped to my computer and so I don’t pay much attention to what’s on the tube.  I’ll catch reruns and marathons of my favorite talent shows and my beloved House MD whenever I just happen to […]

In corresponding with a gentleman the other day, he mentioned the majority of women into spanking that he’s spoken with can cite a particular incident from childhood that sparked their interest.  It might have been something such as a reference on TV, witnessing a friend getting spanked, or having been spanked themselves.  He wanted to know what my “exposure moment” […]

Pain is a funny thing - and in this case I mean as in odd, not as in Three Stooges funny.  I find pain to be vital to a good spanking experience for me.  I’m never quite sure how to react when I’m only being patted.  Does the spanker want me to react as if […]

A popular theme in spanking scenes is the bedtime spanking.  The miscreant may be sent to bed early or made to wait until the time they would normally retire for the evening to receive their punishment.  Teeth brushed, shower taken, and dressed in pajamas or whatever they might choose to wear to bed, the naughty one […]

As the result of a home improvement project gone wrong, I am now blogging in the dark with a menacing looking hole in my ceiling.  After nearly 2 years we finally got around to the chore of swapping out the rainbow colored nursery ceiling fan / light fixture in my office for a more grown-up version.  I shouldn’t […]

Ever tell a vanilla friend about your interest in spanking?  Sure, it’s not everyone’s business what kinky habits you choose to practice, but sometimes you may want to confide in a friend so you don’t have to keep secrets, because you think they might like it too (but oops, they didn’t), or simply because you […]