Hugs and spanks,
Dr. Ken

Although the rest of my body does not heal as fast as my bottom and back, which are used to taking some, I have noticed that bruises on other parts do tend to disappear faster than those on other people.

Prefectdt

Marie – There’s something special about a good hard hand spanking too which heightens the experience.

Tom – Well that’s a bit off topic, but to answer your question, it would depend on who the gentleman is and what my relationship with him might be. There’s a big difference between getting spanked by my husband and getting spanked in a M/f scene, possibly by someone I’ve only just met.

JHThree – Dallas is legendary as far as how hard his spankings are but I know that I’m in safe hands. He definitely tests my limits, but knowing that I’m safe and cared for even while getting my buns roasted helps to take the tough discipline.

Linde – How little time is there between spankings that you’d consider frequent? If you don’t have much time to heal up (such as receiving a spanking and a Goody in the same day or even within a couple of days), it’s no wonder your poor bottom is more sensitive! My bottom hurts more and faster if I’ve been spanked a lot in a short period of time such as when I’m on a naughty streak. If I go a very long period of time without a hard spanking, it seems like it hurts more than too, but it’s probably just because I’ve forgotten what it feels like.

dani – Safe and consensual is so key! Even if the spanking is very hard or done for disciplinary reasons, safety has to come first and limits should always be respected. I’ll get off my soapbox now.

Todd – The mindset makes all the difference between play and discipline! It makes me smile to read that your mutual trust and caring has so clearly made Suzy feel safe and loved.

Funbun – When it gets to the point that the competition for who smacks the hardest is to the detriment of the spankee and his/her safety, that is not cool at all. I dislike heartless and cruel spankings, though I do appreciate strict disciplinary spankings (such as a headmaster/student) as much as one between two emotionally entwined persons. No matter what the relationship between the two players, I am in total agreement with you that it is a sensitive matter that requires much communication and in order to turn out well for both players.

Prefecdt – I’m so envious of your ability to mark and then heal so quickly! Do you heal up fast from accidental bumps as well?

Physical safety is of course of great importance and something I worry about whenever playing or working with someone new, but emotional safety is up there too. I hope you always feel safe and have a positive experience both physically and emotionally with everyone that you choose to play with.

JBaby – Probably a bit of both and more. When I’m in big trouble and about to be spanked for real discipline, I can cry before the first smack is delivered.

Erica – Endorphins are a big help! One of the positive things about having a little stage fright.

ED – Unless I were to seriously increase frequency of severe spankings I don’t think I have to worry about callouses. Wouldn’t want that. I’d hate to give up Dallas style spankings though as a Dallas spanking is more than just severe; it’s real discipline and very cathartic. I only have the chance to see Dallas every once in a blue moon though so my bottom has plenty of time to recover and stay soft.

Hermione – I hadn’t even considered the fear of the unknown, but that is huge!!

Randall – The poison ivy is pretty much gone by now. I never ended up using calamine lotion as I skipped the OTC treatments and went straight to the doctor for Prednisone. Knowing how bad I get it, it’s worth the shot in the butt!

Annapurna – A spanking tan! I used to have that as well when I would regularly engage in very severe discipline within a short period of time. I had tan patches where the skin had broken or worn away and then subsequently healed. I tried using fading cream on them but it did nothing. Thankfully time and longer periods between severe spankings have allowed them to heal fully and go away.

Nerve damage or necrosis is certainly a much more serious matter though I’d hope it would be far less likely to occur. I’m glad that you’ve taken steps to ensure that it never does by modifying your way of playing.

crystal – Have you always marked little? You seem so fair skinned in the photos I’ve seen of you.

Dr. Ken – I was just chatting the other day about how much the spanker can end up just as punished as the spankee. While you can still sit at the end of the day, you probably don’t want to shake hands, hold a pen, or lift weights. Keep that spanking hand in good shape though and if need be, grab a hairbrush if you’re in a pinch.

tim – Beverly did an amazing job of thoroughly smacking my backside with that paddle. It is a bummer that Juliet has left the industry. She’s always welcomed back if she chooses. And yes, Nyssa is great at fussing and crying while still firing bratty comebacks.

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Serial Spanker – Thank you. I’m very flattered. Good to hear from you again.

Roxxy – Isn’t it funny how we pine for the days when our bottoms could bruise easily? As far as sensitivity and pain levels fluctuating, I guess spanking is like nearly anything else in that our reaction to it can vary greatly depending on all of the other surrounding factors.

2Good – I’ve made my share of mistakes though by not taking it slow and safe and other times situations arose that couldn’t necessariy have been foreseen, but I try to be as careful as I can be these days.

I have days, like you said, where I can take intense whack after whack, and then days where just a few smacks have me rubbing my bottom in severe pain! Weird. But I guess that’s normal. Almost like my sensitivity/pain levels go up and down?

Cheers!

SS.

Dr. Ken