I’ve just posted an interview I did with the fabulous Ms. Beverly Bacci on Pixie’s Previews.  You’ve been doing more scenes lately as a spanker. You are a natural and seem to be enjoying the role. Is topping a new development or have you always had the interest? Topping is a relatively new development, as [...]

I hope everyone had a great weekend! Our plans for a trip to an amusement park were put on hold due to severe thunderstorms in the area. Would have been a shame to travel 5 hours roundtrip only to stand in the rain while the rides shut down because of lightning. So what do you do [...]

For those of you that are stateside, I hope you’re enjoying your Memorial Day weekend.  I got a little jump on the holiday when the hubby and I headed down to LBI (Long Beach Island) for the day on Thursday.  It was absolutely gorgeous, but surprisingly chilly.  The ocean breeze made it about 15 degrees cooler [...]

Any successful relationship requires good communication, compromise, and compatibility.  A spanking relationship is no exception even when the pairing may be as temporary as a brief play session at a party.  If you have too many contradicting preferences and neither person is willing to bend, the experience probably won’t go too well.  And if there [...]

Do I really like to get spanked?  The simple answer is yes, but of course there never truly is a simple answer. Even as a little kid I was fascinated by the concept of spanking, but I sure as heck didn’t like getting them.  On the rare occasion that I did get spanked growing up, [...]

I leave tomorrow for some vanilla vacation time to visit my family.  I won’t be back until late next week and while I may have the chance to check in here and there, I probably won’t have much of a regular blog update until I’m back home and settled in.  So I’m going to leave you [...]

Recently I received an email asking if my resistance to bruising also indicates a similar resistance to pain.  Does a spanking hurt less nowadays than it did when I first started out? While my bottom no longer gets marked as easily as it did when I first began exploring the world of consensual spanking, I haven’t [...]

Some of the first true signs of spring … blooming blossoms chirping birds  I’ve never seen a chubbier robin! and for me, my first case of poison ivy for the season.  I think I may have tempted fate by joking about it the other day.  I knocked on wood, but it seems I did myself in by [...]