I love wearing skirts and dresses. I always have. In fact, when I was a little kid, I flat out refused to wear jeans but thought nothing of stomping through the woods, playing in the garden, or even playing on the jungle gym in my girly attire.
These days, beyond being cute and comfortable, I find that skirts and dresses come in handy for spanking play. One quick flip up and the target is easily revealed even while positioned over the knee. I like how they can provide both easy access to the bottom and yet protect one’s modesty as far as the front bits are concerned.
Pants are a little trickier. Unless they are very loose fitting or have an elastic waist, they can’t be tugged down so easy while OTK. Need to either get them down from the start or take a break in the spanking action to stand back up and take them down. And no matter when the removal takes place, there will come the moment when it has to be decided who is in charge of doing so.
When I’m ordered to take down my own jeans, I tend to move slowly in an attempt to delay the inevitable. Sometimes it’s because I am honestly struggling as my fingers tremble in nervous anticipation, but most of the time it’s because my willfulness prevents me from being overly cooperative. Once a spanker of mine grew wise to my ways and informed me I would get an extra swat for each second it took me to take down my jeans and get back into position. It’s amazing how quickly I managed to steady my hands and comply once properly motivated!
The other possibility to speed my way to bare is perhaps an even bigger struggle for me – having my pants taken down for me. Talk about cringe-worthy! I feel extra silly and squirmy having someone else fumbling with the zipper as I stand there wondering what to do with my own hands. It’s almost a relief to be ordered to keep them on my head and out of the way though it’s extremely difficult to not reach down in a protective manner. You’d think with my tendency to dawdle in taking my own pants down that I’d be happy for the process to take a while, but in this case I curse button flies and stiff zippers because I’d much rather move onto the painful spanking rather than continue to experience the painful embarrassment.
I should probably either learn to behave or forgo jeans altogether as I did in my early years. I say bring on the skirts because 100% angel status is not too likely.
November 7th, 2008 - 11:00 am
Hiya!
The way you describe being ordered to take down your jeans seems to me to represent the whole excitment of spanking play. The idea of submission certainly turns on my emotional/sensual switch.
I’d love to be taken to a restaurant in something especially frilly. My cute bf explains my naughtiness to the waiter in a voice loud enough for all to hear.
I’m ordered to the “position of attention” while he lingers over several courses. With desert comes the paddle, and my bf, with the help of the waiter, finishes me off.
Again, embarassment brings a powerful emotional catharis to the spanko. I feel most sexy when I can hear the stifled giggles from the others in the restaurant.
To me, jeans can’t compare with the “girly-girl” aspects of a spanking.
Thanks for this post, and also for reminding me of your happy memories of being a young girl…so nice!
November 7th, 2008 - 11:21 am
a jungle gym….hmmmmm….all kinds of spanking possibilities and/or positions..Ray
November 7th, 2008 - 12:04 pm
Sorry,
Embarassment is actually spelled with two “Rs”.
Somebody needs a good embarrassing spanking.
November 7th, 2008 - 1:56 pm
I’m so glad you state you love dresses or skirts. To me they are more female than pants or jeans.
Pants can have a good ‘cut’ and fit the hips of the wearer in a great way, but many don’t.
What surprised me most in the sixties, going through “Flower power” and “Sexual freedom for women” and “Anti Authority movements” and so on, was that all those youngsters protested the clothes they were forced to wear by their parents and society.
Really opposing these “uniforms”…
JEANS – both as pants and as jackets – became their choice, the choice of their newly acquired “Freedom”. Amazingly nobody was aware that they themselves created a new UNIFORM. The JEANS UNIFORM..!
Not one single piece of clothes has conquered the World as rapidly as JEANS and became such a common clothing.
Although I love well fitting pants and jeans that show the contours of female buttocks to pefection, I love skirts and dresses better. Certainly when it comes to spanking.
It is such a wonderful sensation to lift the hem of a skirt or dress. They don’t show the contours and the surprise what to find underneath is highly attractive. A pair of buttocks en cased in old-fashioned white cotton panties and I’m in heaven already…
(When you lower jeans, the panties almost always come down at the same time).
Here you have the added fun of pulling the panties down and do what we love doing…
Maybe that’s why I love pictures from the fifties so much. The days women were seldomly wearing pants, but were turned over the knee as “Common practice”…
Love YOU, Pixie, your topics, your site and Blog, which are getting better and better all the time…
Taking the opportunity to congratulate You, David and Eric with the fanastic progress “Punished Brats” is making. You’re doing wonderful..!!!
XXX, Funbun
November 7th, 2008 - 3:13 pm
ha… have to vote for jeans being unbuttoned/unzipped and pulled down by spanker for all the reasons you don’t like it! Have to say though the idea of having the spankee do it… while timed.. sounds very interesting.
Learn something new everyday!
Todd & Suzy
November 7th, 2008 - 3:37 pm
I agree that jeans are awkward, and for spanking scenes, I like to wear a dress or a skirt. However, I’ve been known to wear leggings, sweats and drawstring PJ pants. Those are very easy to yank down, and don’t require the spankee to get up.
I once had jeans unbuttoned/unzipped for me in a video. I believe my adlib was, “You know how to work a zipper, genius?”
November 7th, 2008 - 3:55 pm
pixie a very interesting post i love pretty spankees in dresses or skirts on p.b. also like shorts they are easy to take down when girls are o. t.k. enjoying the latest p.b.video with the lovely vanessa a very spankable little cutie. —-speak to you soon love tim.
November 7th, 2008 - 9:53 pm
Ahhh…. the loys of the unvieling. Yes I do love to slowly raise a naughty girls skirt but you hit on something I love even more. to remove her jeans as she has to stand there submissively;That is a spankers delight. I love to watch her face as I unfasten and unzip her jeans. Ms. Amber you hit on another good subject with this one.
November 7th, 2008 - 10:28 pm
And for exactly the reasons you (and others) describe, I love seeing a girl get her pants pulled down. “You Bet” was one of my favorite movies. Women fear the embarrassment much more than the physical pain; so I’d also love to see a scene in which one of the other brats teases you while you’re being spanked.
Keep up the great work.
November 8th, 2008 - 2:28 am
Pixie–I prefer a spankee in a dress or a skirt rather than jeans for all the reasons you mention. Plus, when I spank, I always start the spanking over the woman’s clothing–and quite frankly, I sometimes feel that whacking a jean-clad bottom is doing more harm to my hand than her posterior!
Dresses and skirts, though–that’s a different story. Softer fabrics affording the spankee a little less protection, and the “easy access” of flipping a skirt up doesn’t disrupt the flow of the spanking.
And if it’s a denim skirt–it gets flipped up more quickly….LOL
Dr. Ken
November 8th, 2008 - 9:13 am
A definite thumbs up for skirts!
November 8th, 2008 - 5:03 pm
I have had many, many requests from customers for spankings over tight jeans. That said, those jeans do have to finally come down. My solution has been to reach around the lady over my lap and undo her jeans myself. It’s a little tricky, since I can’t see what I’m doing. But, I AM aware of how jeans work, either zip or button and have almost always managed to undo them myself and then take them down. A little struggle with the lady is usually involved as well, but I’m prepared for that, too. I just kind of lean over her body while I’m undoing the jeans and so she’s pinned momentarily while I unzip…or whatever. I believe in variety. It’s the spice of life, as they say.
November 8th, 2008 - 5:12 pm
Hey Pixie-
Great Post! I have been a tomboy my entire life and fought tooth and nail not to be put in a dress or skirt and have been spanked because I would refuse to wear a dress. But one of the reason I love jeans is because of the comfort of the fabric not to mention it helps to soften the inital blows as well. I have seen Chelsea’s technique of removing a spankee’s jeans and found it quite creative. Have you ever considered doing a spanking scence with Veronica where you refuse to put on a dress or skirt and then spanked in jeans? Only she is the one to pull them down instead of you? Just a thought.
Alex
November 8th, 2008 - 7:16 pm
I kind of have compartmentalized ideas on which I like better in which situation, because I’m weird and over-analyze things. As far as sensation, I prefer kind of hard thud over jeans.
When it comes time for flipping or unzipping though….it depends on the situation. If I’m not planning to get down to panties with a new spanker of course I prefer jeans or pants as that removes the easy advantage of flipping a skirt up, or the assumption that that is ok, so I feel “safer”.
With someone I’m a bit more comfortable with, I prefer a skirt because it allows the easy flip, but without the more intimate experience of standing up in front of them to get down to panties.
With someone I feel a good deal more comfortable or intimate with I like either one. The skirt is nice for easy flipping, but I found I also like that submissive feeling of standing while they do the unzipping/pulling down part with pants.
Interesting topic
munchkin
November 8th, 2008 - 8:22 pm
I wish I enjoyed wearing skirts and dresses, but I hate it! It is something that I have hated since I was young. A skirt is much better for spanking play, no doubt about it. I wish I could change my evil ways! ~ Juju
November 9th, 2008 - 3:22 am
my vote is for jeans. if they are tight all, the better. i enjoy taking them down or slipping them off,whatever the case. skirts and dresses are ok too,but jeans are my vote.
November 9th, 2008 - 3:14 pm
To amplify my previous comment, I would like to see a scene exploring this aspect of your original post: I’d much rather move onto the painful spanking rather than continue to experience the painful embarrassment.
Perhaps something like a scene where a prefect improperly takes advantage of her authority, and then is ordered to lower her trousers while her nemesis points out that the value of baring the miscreants bottom is much clearer when happens to someone else.
November 9th, 2008 - 5:34 pm
Pixie- I really enjoy Punished Brats. You all seem to have so much fun. I remember Chelsea took your jeans down while you were OTK in Special Delivery but i must say I prefer the skirt. That sure was some spanking Chelsea gave you when you went shopping! That must have been a sleep on the stomach night. Keep up the good work and congrats on your marriage
November 9th, 2008 - 6:01 pm
Skirts are great provided hey are not too long! The traditional school skirt seems pretty good – just above knee length. Preferably not too tight, and not too short!
I am not a great lover of jeans – but very short pants – I think they are called Daisy Dukes? – have much going for hem – especially if they are tight enough to give shape, but loose enough to be hoisted to expose a fair bit of bottom!
I fear I can only write as a viewer – I have no personal experience of any
November 9th, 2008 - 6:44 pm
I prefer skirts for the easy access and the slight modesty it gives a girl over the knee. Jeans are just a hassle when you have to fumble around with the zipper and buttons. PJ Bottoms are great though because they can be yanked down easily and are just plane cozy.
If I happen to be with a spanker that I am attracted to however, having him take down my jobs can be pretty hot…
November 9th, 2008 - 11:45 pm
I’d have to agree. Jeans are ok for casual stuff but when playtime comes, they’re always problematic. Skirts are always appealing not just because of the easier access (lift up or remove altogether) but because they stir the imagination more.
Just about all the great costumes you’ve worn for videos and for fun involve skirts rather than pants. Nuff said 
November 10th, 2008 - 6:43 am
I would agree that the best attire for a spanking should allow panties to be uncovered and the bottom to be bared while the spankee remains in position. Removing pants or jeans halfway through a punishment does somewhat spoil the flow of things, unless the top and bottom have a well rehearsed procedure. So if the spankee presents herself for a spanking wearing jeans, I’d say that in most cases – although not necessarily always – it should be straight to panties or the bare.
As for the time taken to unbutton or unzip, we may disagree on this, but I don’t see any reason why the preparation of the bottom should be rushed. It all adds to the build up of anticipation.
My headmaster had a phrase which was ‘I am in no hurry’. When this was used it could be loosely translated as: ‘You may fool around for as long as you like, and then you will do what I have told you.’
Perhaps a good phrase to deal with zip fiddling could be: ‘In your own time, young lady, but don’t take all day…”
November 10th, 2008 - 8:30 am
Maybe since I can’t wear jeans to work I just adore wearing them any chance I get. They also make most anyone’s butt look super cute! As for spanking over jeans and removing them…don’t make it too easy for the spanker. Compliance in a PB scene is not as fun to see as a defiant look and delaying the inevitable.
November 10th, 2008 - 10:17 am
How much easier, quicker and in every way more amenable if the lady whose bottom is to be spanked is wearing a skirt. I remember discussions way back when about the merits and demerits of different styles of skirts or dresses. I think it was generally agreed that whether the lady to be spanked was wearing a skirt or a dress the very best style was the ‘A’ line. This meant that the skirt or dress could indeed be flipped up with great ease and the process of baring the lady’s bottom got off to a very quick and efficient start.
Some of the skirts worn by young ladies today are so short that they are even easier to lift up out of the way and reveal the knickered or tights-covered bottom beneath.
My vote is for skirts or dresses any day, Pixie.
November 10th, 2008 - 10:55 pm
To respond to Aristotle: The only ones I’m not crazy about is when the brat (actress) is wearing a dress so short that it doesn’t even need to be flipped up. I like to see a normally dressed woman suffering the indignity of having her bottom bared for a spanking. If she starts out in a very revealing dress, the spanking doesn’t seem as embarrassing.
I’d like to see one of the models wear a suit with a skirt over tights, and then take off the skirt, and lower the tights, and then have to walk across the room with her underpants, and the elastic waist band of the tights around her legs, just above the knees.
November 10th, 2008 - 11:17 pm
Dani – I enjoy being truly submissive at times, but it has to be with the right person. I’m not sure that I have been able to pinpoint what it is that makes it right, but when it works, it works, and when it doesn’t work, it really falls flat. Have you found that as well?
Ray – There sure is! Wouldn’t be your average walk in the park with a trip over to the jungle gym for some discipline.
Funbun – I have a terrible time finding pants that fit well which probably only fuels my loves for skirts and dresses (shorts are ok as well). As for your comment about loving the fifties, I’ve remarked before that I think I must have been born in the wrong era. Even my husband agrees that I should have been a teen in the fifties as I love the clothes, the hairstyles, and the music from that time.
Todd & Suzy – While having my pants taken down for me is not something I “like”, it’s not a hard limit. It’s sort of a grey area where I’d be ok with some trusted people doing so even though it would make me squirm. I’d be up for doing it in a disciplinary scene or for real punishment from a trusted individual. I don’t like it in the same way I don’t like a large wooden paddle being applied to my backside. It’s certainly not comfortable, but then that’s one of the key aspects to a spanking, right?
Erica – Stretchy pants like pajamas are ideal for an impromptu yank and spank. Wonderful ad lib. You always have the best zingers!
Tim – Vanessa wore a dress in one scene, a skirt in another, and pants in her third. She looked fab in all of them! Pretty girl.
Poppa Mark – Isn’t watching a girl’s reaction fascinating? I know that spankings usually focus on the girl’s bottom, but her facial reactions are often what really tell the story.
Mo – The embarrassment aspect (that goes along with doing something I don’t truly enjoy) is intriguing. Abject humiliation or degradation isn’t so cool. It’s a fine line, but believe it or not, I’m with you on liking to see a twinge of embarrassment being experienced by the girl in having to submit to a spanking. I would like to do a scene one time where I am ordered to remove my schoolgirl uniform skirt for punishment.
Dr. Ken – Fabric is certainly a consideration. I once wore a wool skirt in a scene I did with Veronica and she was not happy with how much her hand hurt after smacking my bottom through that skirt. She made up for it though once she got to my bare bottom … especially when she used a strap to finish the job!
Spanky – Yay for skrits!
Chelsea – You do have the technique for removing jeans while OTK down. And I love that you hold the girl down to keep her in place if she struggles – you are incredibly strong and dexterous. I know as you’ve used that tactic on me!
Alex – I like your scene idea to do with Veronica! I can picture how it would play out in my mind. Hopefully I’ll be able to do such a scene the next time we shoot.
Munchkin – Neat aspect to consider as far as the protection that jeans offer. It’s way easier for things to progress to the panties or the bare before you even have a chance to say “No!” when you’re wearing a skirt than with pants. The feeling of safety, both physical and emotional, is key to enjoying a spanking session.
Jujubees – Funny how many of our preferences are well rooted in childhood. If we had been friends as kids, we could have traded clothes – all of my jeans for your skirts! Deal?
Hairbrushman – Tight jeans can definitely be hot. Sadly, they just don’t look right on me!
Mo – That might be fun. Would be a way to incorporate the removal of pants as well as the peer taunting you like too.
Anon – Yes, I’ve done a few jeans scenes with Chelsea. I’ve probably done more with her than any other spanker on our site (most likely in part because whenever she’s visited, it’s always been during the chilly months … need to have her out sometime when it’s warm and sunny here just to prove we have mild weather). No matter what the season or what sort of clothes we wear, she always delivers a hot spanking.
Winchester – Yes, Daisy Dukes are super shorty shorts. They sure don’t give much protection for the bottom when they rise up and give a cheek peek. Although they aren’t always appropriate to wear out and about, there is something to seeing a naughty bottom peeking out of the hem.
Kat – Fumbling with jeans can be a pain, literally. Especially if the spanker gets annoyed in trying to deal with a stiff button or wonky zipper and then decides to work out his frustration on your bottom.
007 – Yes, my costumes tend to be dresses, but I think that’s because I’m a bit partial to little dresses in general.
Steve (UK) – Sounds like you and your headmaster have quite a lot of patience and can be calm enough to allow the spankee to take her time in a futile act of getting out of what’s coming to her. The spanker I’m thinking of saw it as disrespectful to dawdle and you could practically see the steam coming out of his ears. I guess he was very eager to get to the seat of the problem!
2Good – No jeans at work? No casual Friday’s even? With your active job, I’d have thought jeans would be ok at least once in a while.
I have a terrible time finding jeans that fit me properly. I can’t seem to find a cut that doesn’t gap at the waist and hang baggy on the bum.
I too love a little fight and feistiness in the spankee. Don’t want to look too willing or indifferent to the inevitable pain even if it’s something you might actually enjoy.
Aristotle – Yes, super tight skirts can be tricky to tug up. Veronica once tried to pull up Charlie’s straight denim skirt and met a lot of resistance without Charlie having to even having to reach back. I think I saw a hint of a smile on Charlie’s face at Veronica’s predicament.
November 13th, 2008 - 9:55 pm
Love the blue jeans. The sound of a belt over a pair of Levi’s is great, and it is fun getting them pulled down. otkguy53@yahoo.com
November 13th, 2008 - 9:57 pm
Love the blue jeans. Getting your Levi’s unbuttoned for a spanking is lots of fun. otkguy53@yahoo.com
November 16th, 2008 - 7:53 am
I like skirts not only for the spankee, but also for the spanker. I love it when a spanking scene starts with the woman in authority seating herself on, preferably, a straight chair, her skirt traveling someway up her thighs before she summons the naughty girl. I don’t mind a bit when the spankee wears a tight skirt. On the contrary: half way the spanking after the spanker has in vain attempted to raise the skirt, she makes the girl get up and unzip the garment.
January 14th, 2009 - 6:37 pm
A really interesting topic Pixie that combines two areas of particular interest to me. I grew up in a time (not that long ago!) when skirts were still considered to be the norm for women and trousers(or should I say pants?) were still not a universally acceptable form of dress for ladies. I have to admit I rather liked it that way and much preferred it when girls generally dressed in “girly atire” as you describe it, rather than dressing like Tomboys living in jeans and grungy black trousers as they do now.
For me spanking became synonymous with skirts during my school days in the UK and I think it stemmed from the fact that back in those days girls always had to wear skirts as part of their school uniforms. As a result all of my early spanking fantasies involved girls hitching up their skirts for an OTK spanking or caning and it has stayed that way for me ever since.
I have to agree with you Pixie that part of the allure of a skirt is the ease of access it provides to the “spanking zone”, particularly when worn with stockings which provide a wonderful “frame” for the naughty girl’s bottom. Having said that, I did really enjoy reading your thoughts on the additional humiliation involved in fumbling around with your zipper when you have been told to drop your jeans for a spanking, or worst still having to stand there helplessly whilst your spanker slowly and deliberately unfastens them and pulls them down.
I do have a concept that explores this whole theme in an office context and I might perhaps write to you directly to see if you think it would make a good spanking scenario for one of your shoots. In the meantime my vote is for skirts or dresses rather than jeans Pixie!