Have you considered switching and being a spanker in a scene like Beverly? Love to see you in the role of spanker.
Have I considered it? Yes. Do I really want to? Not especially. I don’t feel particularly dominant or authoritative when it comes spanking. I don’t have a natural desire to spank other girls beyond the occasional brat smack (a single, often fairly hard, unexpected spank on the bottom that is more of a bratty sneak attack than anything disciplinary and certainly not erotic!).
I greatly admire Beverly and her natural talent as a switch and having watched (and felt) her give a few spankings first hand, at times I feel inspired and wonder if maybe I could in fact dish out some discipline myself. But for right now, the desire is not very strong. I won’t say no, never ever, but I will say, no, not right now.
I’m flattered that many people have written requesting me to give as well as receive spankings, but I need to wait until the desire has truly built up or not only will the scene come off as forced, but I’ll feel uneasy and out of sorts when it’s all done and I don’t want that.
Have you ever been recognized in public (especially after that local newspaper did a feature on Punished Brats)? If not, does the fact that you could be recognized cause you some anxiety? Or is it not really a big deal?
Only once was I sort of recognized in public. I went to visit a friend and former coworker at the office I used to work for and was caught off guard when another employee there mentioned the article in the paper. He was very complimentary and supportive, but I must have looked like a deer in the headlights because I was so not prepared for the situation. I say sort of recognized because the guy already knew me in vanilla terms for years, but to date, he has been the only one to approach me about me being Pixie outside of the internet or at a spanking party.
I’m not sure that anyone would recognize me out in public, not because I look all that different or go incognito with big Hollywood sunglasses and a wig, but simply because I am just a regular girl that would blend in with the crowd. At best maybe someone might see me and think I look familiar, but I’ve had that happen to me when seeing someone outside of what I know as their typical environment and it took weeks to realize where I know them from.
My main concern is that if somehow, someday, someone were to see me and recognize me, that I might be outted in front of family or vanilla friends. A greeting of “Hey Pixie! How’s your butt?” could be a little tricky to explain.
Do you like counting the swats?
I only count the swats if the spanker asks me to do so as part of the session. Ok, I take that back. Occasionally I’ll keep track in my head if the spanker says he is going to give me a set number just so I can fuss if he tries to sneak a few extra. Other than those two scenarios, I don’t bother to count either during the spanking itself, nor when I watch video content.
Sometimes counting can be anxiety provoking in that I don’t want to lose count and give the spanker a reason to add extra swats or start back at number one. It can be hard to keep up with super fast paced swats (which is probably at least partially the intent of the spanker) or forget what number we’re on when there is a break for a lecture.
You’ve written about how much you like outdoor spankings, why don’t you incorporate them into your scenes at PB?
It’s a logistical issue we face at the moment. For reasons that aren’t really my place to discuss in a public forum, we are unable to travel from the location we currently use for shoots. And as we are located in a well populated area, we can’t just step outside and spank the girls. It’s bad enough that someone in the area once commented on a number of schoolgirls (in uniform) hanging around the door smoking cigarettes. Sounds like the start of a scenario there … I wish we could film outdoors somewhere like my faraway little cowtown, but for right now, we are limited to our usual indoor setting.
What was the worst spanking you’ve ever received?
If by worst you mean the hardest or most intense, I would have to say Dallas. His site is named DallasSpanksHard for a reason. But if you mean worst as in the most unpleasant, physically or emotionally damaging, poorly executed, negative experience, that answer would be different, but that’s an area I rather not delve into at the moment. I’ve mentioned one such occasion in an interview I did a year or so ago and maybe I’ll revisit it in the future in discussing spanking safety.
July 16th, 2008 - 5:36 pm
I just watched the video you did with Dallas last year and found it one of the most intense and realistic I have ever viewed. The only other spanking that I have watched that came close was one that Dallas administered to Samantha Woodley a few months back. The major difference was that while Miss Woodley for the most kept her emotions under control you let them all hang out in the most realistic, sincere and endearing manner. When the session was over I wanted nothing more than to hold and comfort you. You seemed so authentic and genuine that it made watching you take your licks a very cathartic as well as erotic experience for me. You and Samantha are in a class by yourselves as spankees and I wish you all the best in your future endeavours.
July 16th, 2008 - 6:33 pm
(sigh) Why is it that so many people want to see bottoms topping? If I had a buck for every time I’ve heard “Have you ever switched?” “Would you ever switch?” “Why don’t you switch?” and “If only you switched…”, I could retire.
I topped once, very briefly, on camera, because I wanted to be in that particular video very much and I got to do a much longer bottoming scene later. But I can’t ever watch that scene. It makes me cringe. And I sucked at it, to boot. One friend teased me and said his seven-year-old could spank harder.
I, for one, hope you never top, Pixie (unless, of course, you really really REALLY want to). You are a perfect bottom!
July 16th, 2008 - 9:25 pm
Pix, your comment about a spanker giving you “a set number” of swats reminds me that once, I read that it is a violation of spank etiquette to give a spankee more swats than you have promised. If you don’t specify a certain number, then fine, spank on until she cries the safe word. But don’t tell her you’re going to give her 50 and then try to sneak in 55.
Once, in a visit to one of the L.A. spanking clubs, I played with a spankee who was truly a beautiful girl. Drop-dead gorgeous, as they say. But she was not known as one who had a high tolerance for pain. She was as pretty as they make ‘em, but you didn’t dast spank her hard, for she would holler “Mercy” in a heartbeat.
Well. This time, I visited the beauty and told her that I would give her only 100 swats — no more, no less — as long as she didn’t use the safe word. She agreed, and I put her over my knee.
Then, I got up my courage to give her one of those “crescendo”-type spankings. You know, the ones where you start out with light swats, but they get progressively harder, until by the end you are smacking with almost all your might.
Do you know what? This girl was game, she took the entire 100 swats, and I respected her for that. Swats nos. 90 to 100 were exceptionally hard, but knowing she was nearing the magic cut-off number, she remained quiet (well, maybe a few “ouches”) and didn’t use the safe word. I kept my end of the bargain, too. After swat no. 100, there were no more.
That’s all there is to my story, except to say that I felt good that we had observed proper spank etiquette.
Cheers,
Dan
July 16th, 2008 - 11:07 pm
I knew without hesitation that the DSH spanking was the hardest. I only found out later via your blog that you presented for that session for reasons of catharsis and expiation. That was one serious and sustained walloping, my dear. All I could think of was: “Poor Pix…but she needs it so desperately and only Dallas could properly deliver.”
Also, so good to see a comment from the always supportive(and in a class by HERself) Erica. She and you are easily the classiest women I’ve spent time getting to know via the internet.
July 16th, 2008 - 11:42 pm
http://spankingpixie.com/2008/06/up-a-tree/
That’s just the nearest pic post I can find on this slow-assed dialup connection (heading home to broadband this weekend) that really shows what I mean, but take a look at yourself in these. I think that safely disproves your “I am just a regular girl that would blend in with the crowd” statement. Surely, you turn heads and have gotten your share of wolf-whistles?
July 17th, 2008 - 11:10 am
pixie you are a lovely spankee but i would watch you give out spanks to other girls willingly if you wanted to love tim
July 17th, 2008 - 3:28 pm
Too bad PB is at present constrained from shooting scenes outdoors. I’m sure there are many suggested outdoor-based scenes currently languishing in the “Maybe Someday” file, but we can continue to hope that, maybe someday…
I agree, Pixie, that there is indeed a potential scene lurking in having all those “schoolgirls” loitering outside, smoking. Perhaps a reasonable number of said-attired girls could be surreptitiously filmed outside for a few moments (αlα Friends to the End), so as not to attract unwanted attention or suspicion, whereupon they are confronted inside when they “return to class”?
As for you turning Top, I’m reminded of Jay Leno’s reply to Barbara Walters (in 1989) when she asked what he wanted to do besides comedy: ”Singers want to dance, dancers want to act, actors want to direct. What’s wrong with just doing what you do best, and being the best you can be?” (Or words to that effect.) You are absolutely great at portraying someone taking a spanking, from the kicking, squirming, and crying out, to the little out-of-nowhere wisecracks and bratty remarks that all add up to a “good spanking,” you are simply a joy to behold. You obviously enjoy what you do, and we in turn enjoy partaking of you doing what you do.
July 18th, 2008 - 11:20 am
i alway wanted to see you top and give out spankings too. that be neat to see. now i know you know a lot of bottom do later on end up topping and give out spankings. but look at it this way those bottom who give out spankings know how to spank cause they got spanked a lot
one important things is i understand a lot of time people like you just don’t have it in them or the dominating side to them to be able give out the spankings or just comfortable with like you said a smack here or there every once awhile. you might feel little weird or uncomfortable having a person over ya lap spanking them but if you do it not so often just in between you could learn you love spanking people. that my 2 cent hope you understand.
July 18th, 2008 - 5:27 pm
Love the Q & A… hope you do more of them. Funny that ‘outdoor spankings’ came up. That’s the subject of our Roundtable this week… and we certainly thought of you when writing it. You take some great out door pics. Would love to see an outdoor spanking… and hope one day that will work out.
Todd & Suzy
July 18th, 2008 - 11:33 pm
Hi Pix! Regarding your concern about being boorishly outed by a fan in front of family and / or friends, I would certainly HOPE that most PB / Pixie fans would have more class than that! Of course, hopes like that often result in bitter disappointment.
Hypothetically, if I were in that situation (don’t worry; I don’t live in your area, so the chance is pretty infinitesimal), I MIGHT, given the opportunity, say something discreetly (so that only you could hear) along these lines: “Hi. If you’re who I think you are, I’m a big fan of your blog. My name’s Jeff. Thanks for all the excellent work.” Then I’d move on.
Jeff
July 19th, 2008 - 9:07 am
Add one more vote to the long list of people who think you’re outstanding as a spankee and don’t care if you don’t ever wanna top.
It’s a shame that getting an outdoor location is problematic but as long as PB keeps putting out top-grade quality product, we understand. 
The question I’d want to see answered most : “Under what circumstances do you play off-camera with others?”
July 21st, 2008 - 5:15 pm
Hi Pixie. I love your site, its really great. I really think you may the most adorable spankee I have ever seen. I don’t care if you ever top. In regards to spanking outdoors; the whole idea is really fun because it also brings up the aspect of public spanking. Public spanking I think is a fantasy for both tops and bottoms even though it is not very realistic. By the way; I love you in your fairy costumes, they are very girlish in a really good way. I would love to see in more ruffled style panties also.
July 21st, 2008 - 7:14 pm
Tarquin - Thank you so much! The spankings I receive from Dallas are always an intense experience for me, so I’m glad that this comes across on video so clearly.
Erica - I guess seeing a girl switch is a popular fantasy, but I’m glad that you are staying true to your preferences too!! Your bionic bottom was made to be spanked, not sat upon while spanking someone else’s.
Dan - I tend to agree that it is a violation in etiquette. It causes a breakdown of trust - something that is critical to a good/safe spanking experience.
JJ - Yep, and this was my third related offense. I can only imagine what it might be like if I see him for a fourth. And there is a good possibility of that …
JC - But I promise I don’t hang upside down and flash my panties in public anymore. Not often anyway.
tim - I tried once in a video I shot early on, but it was all the more clear afterwards that it wasn’t my thing.,
Dreams of Horses - Yes, I hope that one day we will be able to do some outdoor shots. Though there still will be limitations. Suggestions received asking us to get permits from the city of Philadelphia to film in very public locations (intersections, college courtyards, side of the highway, and train tracks) will likely never be fully met I’m afraid!
mike - it’s not that I’d feel weird having someone over my lap, I just don’t like it. And the more I feel pressured and repeatedly asked to try again, the less I want to.
Todd & Suzy - I’ve had the pleasure of doing outdoor spankings with Chelsea a total of three times now.
It works so well because she’s a major outdoor enthusiast like me. Maybe one day we’ll be able to shoot one for PB. I’ll keep my fingers crossed. I loved this week’s roundtable question. We need to organize a spanko hike!!
Jeff - I hope that any public meetings would go exactly as you described yourself acting.
I’d definitely blush, but that would be so sweet.
007 - I used to engage in more private play with others off-camera before my relationship with my boyfriend became as serious as it is now. Playing at a more public event like the SL Vendor’s Faire is fine, play at a room party is questionable after some unfortunate events last year, and private one one one play in a room without my boyfriend is probably not going to happen.
jbrandy - Thank you! I recently picked up a couple of fun ruffle panties that I hope to wear in a scene soon. I love wearing dainty costumes too, but I’ll happily pair up my ruffle panties with everyday clothing just to have a chance to wear them.